It is rare to have a confidant in life, a confidant in the sea, and no confidant in the future

There is a very famous record in the pre-Qin period, Yu Boya is good at playing the piano, Zhong Ziqi is good at listening to the piano, once Yu Boya played a song that stands tall and majestic, Zhong Ziqi said with appreciation, "Towering ambition in the high mountains", and then Yu Boya Tan a stormy and turbulent music, Zhong Ziqi said, "Yang Yang is determined to flow water", Zhong Ziqi can deeply understand the connotation of Yu Boya playing fun, so Yu Boya said, "Good, your heart is the same as mine" Later, Zhong Ziqi died, Yu Boya no longer played the piano, and later generations began to use mountains and rivers to describe their friendship, which is also a metaphor for a very rare confidant, a bosom friend is rare to meet, etc. Confidant, in short, is a person who understands and appreciates himself, or a person who knows and cherishes each other and has a deep friendship, to reach this height, Adam Smith, the originator of modern economics, invented a new word in the "Theory of Moral Sentiments", called empathy, if you want others to understand you and appreciate you and even know each other, you need to match each other's empathy ability, which is unavoidable, after all, no one has the obligation to understand you and appreciate you, so it is difficult to find a confidant to become people's consensus.

In the sea of people, it is rare to have a few real friends, Hong Kong artist Lu Fang sang so in his masterpiece "Friends Don't Cry", Alan Tam sang in the Cantonese golden song "Friends" "Life is like a dream, friends are like fog", dreams and fog can rhyme in Cantonese pronunciation, Zhou Huajian sang "Friends" was once all the rage in the mainland, singing "Friends go together for a lifetime" , The friends in Lu Fang's songs have a tragic component, it is difficult to have true friends in the vast sea of people, Alan Tam described friends as the beautiful scenery on the road, Zhou Huajian sang that friends should walk hand in hand, their singing about friends is very suitable for people's understanding of friends in life, first of all, friends are really rare, true friends are not only the scenery on the road, but also the beautiful scenery, confidants and friends should work together. In the vast world, meet a mentor and helpful friend, sometimes it's like winning the lottery, lovesick and not going on a blind date, so there is a confidant is difficult to meet or a bosom friend is hard to find, not to mention such a wonderful term for a confidant, the world of adults, even friends are rare, the so-called good beginning is many, good end is few, in the complicated world of seeing people's hearts for a long time, don't look at a group of people who can eat and drink all night together, when the real key is available, faster than ghosts and gods, with the growth of social experience, not only no real friends, very ordinary friends are only a handful。

In the classical Chinese books, the requirements for confidants are extremely high, there is a saying that "the scholar dies for the confidant", this requirement may be understandable in ancient times, in this era, Jing Ke was ordered by the prince of Yanguo, Dan, to assassinate the king of Qin, for which he left the famous sentence for Jing Ke Zhuang Xing, "the wind is Xiao Xiao Xi is easy to be cold, and the strong man is gone", according to the current humanistic values, human life is only once, the concept of life first is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and the height of giving up life for a confidant is a bit out of place. In poetry and literature, although the frequency of confidant's appearance is not high, the poems composed of it will be able to make people say yes, shouting "wine is a thousand cups of confidant" when drinking, and complaining when making money is full of money, "it is difficult to find a confidant". Life in the world, to be able to meet a confidant friend, is lucky, real confidant, give comfort when you are frustrated, lend a hand when you are in adversity, there are two ribs of friends are happy, but the reality is often tragic, often insert yourself two knives, many people break up and even turn against each other, so the real confidant is mostly reflected in literary works, such as Wang Bo sang "Sea Memory Confidant", Gao Shi comforted friends and said "Mo Chou has no confidant ahead", Qing Dynasty prince Aixin Jueluo · Hongday also wrote poems saying that it is rare to have a confidant in life.

As a genius figure, Wang Bo's well-known work is known as the world's first prose known as the "Preface to the Pavilion of King Teng", the article cites allusions and created idioms, which is breathtaking, and "Preface to the Pavilion of King Teng" appeared in the Chinese textbook, as well as his "Send Du Shaofu to Shuzhou", can have two works appear in our textbooks, better than the vast majority of ancient writers. This five-character poem from the title knows, is a common farewell poem in Tang poetry, Shaofu is the Tang Dynasty when the county lieutenant is the general name, roughly equivalent to the deputy county magistrate who is also the director of the public security bureau, the ancients on many occasions to avoid directly calling his name, with the surname plus the title of the official position, in order to show respect, such as Du Shaofu in this poem, as well as the surname plus ranking, such as Gao Shi in this farewell poem Dong Da is the musician Dong Tinglan at that time, because he ranks first among the family brothers, so it is also called Dong Da.

In the early Tang poetry circle, there is an F4 heavenly group group called the beginning of Tang Sijie, almost all Chinese are familiar with the enlightenment poem "goose, goose, goose, song to the sky, white hair floating green water, red palm plucking clear waves", is from Luo Bingwang, one of the four masters of the early Tang Dynasty, but the most familiar to the four masters today is Wang Bo. Wang Bo's historical fame mainly stems from his famous essay "Preface to the Pavilion of King Teng" and his classic poem "Confidant in the sea, if the end of the world is next to each other", as for the other works of the four masters of the early Tang Dynasty, people today know very little, after all, in the vast literary classics, there are only such works that can withstand the baptism of history. After the years of washing, only the eternal classics will be adopted by future generations, "Tengwang Pavilion Preface" is still beautiful, because of its literary brilliance, people are amazed by the author's literary talent, but also because the people who appreciate it spare no effort to publicize it, although the classics can be passed down for a long time, if there is a lack of literati and ink propaganda, it will also be destined to drown in the long river of history. Many poems can be included in "Three Hundred Tang Poems" or "Three Hundred Song Poems", or enter educational textbooks, sometimes it is not that the author is brilliant or the whole poem is well written, but some sentences are well written, such as Wang Bo's famous work "Send Du Shaofu to Shuzhou".

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"Send Du Shaofu to Shuzhou"

(Tang) Wang Bo

The city is supplemented by three Qin, and the wind and smoke look at Wujin.

Parting with the king, the same is a eunuch.

There is a confidant in the sea, and the end of the world is like a neighbor.

Inaction is on the wrong path, and the children are stained with scarves.

The first couplet of this poem depicts the surrounding environment, the majestic Chang'an City is guarded by the land of Sanqin, the beacon fire and smoke clouds look at the five ferries, and the poems usually describe the scenery or describe the surrounding environment consistently, the next couplet is to comfort this friend who is about to go to Sichuan and Shu to serve, and is a member of the ups and downs in the sea. As long as our friendship is deep, even if each other is a Qin and a Shu, it is still as close as it is approaching, and the tail couplet said that at the intersection of the upcoming separation, do not say goodbye to tears too much. As long as there is this friend in this world, even if it is far away from the end of the world, it is also like in a place close to itself, with lofty intentions and widely recited, and it is still a blessing that many middle school students write when they write their classmates before graduation.

The domestic animation movie "Thirty Thousand Miles of Chang'an" was once well received, many parents took their children to the cinema to watch, so that their children could understand the benefits of learning Tang poetry, the protagonist Gao Shi who took the lead in this movie, in the eyes of modern people, the achievements in history are not prominent, obviously not as good as his friend Li Bai who appeared in this movie at the same time, but in the career, Gao Shi is a success, and Li Bai has no ambition for life. Gao Shi created a total of two "Farewell Dong Da", the other one has no classic sentences, so it is not known, when creating these two poems, the author Gao Shi is also very unwilling and wandering around, and Dong Da left Chang'an because of the loss of power attached to the officials, and chose a good tree to perch, during the Tianbao period of Tang Xuanzong, they met in Henan, from another "Farewell Dong Da" in the "one away from Jingluo for more than ten years" It can be seen that this meeting is when they haven't seen each other for more than ten years, perhaps because they haven't seen each other all year round, and the feeling of goodbye swells up in Gao Shi's heart, coupled with their own poor situation, so they created the classic poem "Don't worry about the road ahead without knowing yourself, no one in the world knows you". In the modern era of advanced communication technology, it is normal for classmates and friends not to see each other for more than ten years, and when I was young, I only said that it was ordinary at that time, and I never thought that after graduating and leaving school, many classmates and friends who had never left day and night had not seen each other for more than ten years or never seen each other for the rest of their lives.

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"Don't Dong Da's Second Son"

(Tang) Gao Shi

Thousands of miles of yellow clouds smoke during the day, and the north wind blows geese and snow.

Don't worry about the road ahead, no one in the world knows you.

From the first two sentences of the poem, "Thousands of miles of yellow clouds and daylight, the north wind blows geese and snow", it seems that the time of their parting is a snowy winter, the sky is full of gloomy clouds, the sun has become dim, the north wind blows again, and the geese fly south in the snow, which is only a vast scene in the north, depicting the bleak environment around them when they are separated In reality, they are not exhausted, which means that the situation they are in is not ideal. "Don't worry about the road ahead, no one in the world knows you" can be said to be used to relieve Dong Da, no need to worry about no true friends in a new place, with profound musical talent, there will be people who appreciate you, and the reason why readers will like this poem is also because of these two sentences. Gao Shi wrote the parting words heroically and courageously, the words are sonorous and powerful, which can be compared to the world's common use of a smooth wind or a bright future to give goodbye to friends has a lot of connotation, which is also the charm of classical poetry, while forgiving friends, encourage friends to carry forward their musical talents, work harder, and when comforting the frustrated Dong Da, warn friends not to forget to maintain a positive and optimistic attitude to face the new course of life.

In society, there are no two or three people who can speak with him, Bai Juyi wrote in his "Nine Books with Yuan", "Those who are not wrong with me can not lift three or two people", that is, no matter how good the great poet Bai Juyi's character is, there are only three or two people who will not "go against him", these three or two people are likely to become confidants and friends, from the perspective of understanding Bai Juyi's resume, the recipient of this letter Yuan Zhen can be said to be Bai Juyi's confidant, Bai Juyi can write a touching article "With Yuan Jiushu", which is enough to prove that they can wear the same underwear. In reality, Bai Juyi is lucky to find a confidant, and it is the norm not to find a confidant, having a confidant is like a philosophy of happiness, which can not be found, comparing Bai Juyi and Yuan Zhen's poems of singing and harmonizing, it can be found that the friendship between Wang Bo and Du Shaofu, Gao Shi and Dong Da is difficult to compare with the friendship of Yuan Bai, but their poems describing confidants are much deeper than the classics written by Bai Juyi. Whether it is the extreme "the person who is a confidant dies", or "the wine is a thousand cups of confidant", how deep Wang Bo describes his confidant, and how heroic Gao Shi portrays his confidant, there is a philosophy of life behind it, that is, it is rare to have a confidant in life. There are many poems and songs that describe friendship in Tang poems, and there are countless poems and texts that praise confidants, with lofty intentions, exciting and widely recited, and directly point to the poems of confidants, the above two Tang poems are worth reading, and secondly, there is an unknown prince in the Qing Dynasty who created the poem "Jin Zhu Yin", and there are also confidant's words worth tasting.

"Golden Barrel Gin"

(Qing) love Xinjueluo Hongday

The world is impermanent, and the cups are drunk.

It is rare to have a confidant in life, and you can talk about the past and the present when you push the cup.

Looking at the name of the author of "Jin Zhuyin", it can be judged that he is a member of the Qing Dynasty clan, the Qing Dynasty is not far away from our contemporary times not very long, plus the costume film and television programs that people see are mostly adapted from the history of the Qing Dynasty, so they will be a little familiar with Aixinjue Luo. Friends who are familiar with the history of the Qing Dynasty can know that Hongday is the brother of the Qianlong Emperor of the Qing Dynasty, in the classical Chinese dynasties, the phenomenon of the princes fighting for the throne and killing each other is not uncommon, the most famous crown prince dispute in the Qing Dynasty is the author's father and other eight uncles struggle "nine sons to seize the heir" incident, it can be seen that the author has seen the dispute between the royal family and the prince. The gist of this seven-word quatrain is that many things in the world are difficult to predict and difficult to say, it is better to indulge in wine and have fun in time, drink your favorite Tailang wine one by one, and look at the disturbances of the world with a drunken mentality. When the author was the prince, he had witnessed the struggle of the court Lille and the deceit, and understood that as a member of the royal family, he could not help himself, and he may also know that his own conditions were not suitable for the emperor's throne, so he simply drank and talked and had fun in time, so some people thought that the poem Hongday was considered to be a poem that showed his heart, showing that he had no intention of the imperial power, and was willing to be a prince of peace and enjoy the glory and wealth.

Those who are familiar with the history of the battle for storage positions may understand that even if it is a dispute over the division of property of modern rich and noble families, sometimes it is not a matter of whether they want to or not, just like the members of the Nine Sons Succession, everyone is a team representing different interests, even if they do not fight, the team behind them will fight, after all, no one will voluntarily be willing to be left behind. The author is a child of the royal family, the younger brother of Emperor Qianlong, and his wealth has been destined since the day he was born, but for the emperor's throne, he has no idea at all, and he is certainly not a normal person, after all, even pots and pans are fought for when the small family is divided, not to mention the throne of the Son of Heaven, but the historical Hongday is a prince of good luck, through the creation of this poem to show his heart, showing that he only wants to drink and talk and have fun in time, by saying "It is rare to have a confidant in life, and push the cup to change the cup to talk about the ancient and modern" , to fulfill the glory and wealth of themselves and their descendants. Life is rare to have a confidant, can be described as a public opinion in the world, the pity of the confidant is scarce, may be thousands of years to get a person, or may be as Zhuangzi said in the twilight, or the confidant is just people's beautiful yearning, so there is a saying "to get a confidant, you can have no regrets", it is really a confidant, do not worry about pushing the cup to change the talk of ancient and modern things.

The above poems are good poems to describe confidants, among which the poems of contemporary poets Wang Bo and Gao Shi are easy to appear in modern articles, and the poem of Aixinjue Luo Hongday is rarely known, but the charm and meaning expressed by it are worthy of readers' appreciation.