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Preface
"You are so rich, leave the house to your paralyzed brother, don't fight with him!"
Chen Shusen, a 60-year-old father, knelt down in front of his daughter, and his pleading was overflowing, and the reason behind it was heartbreaking: Chen Shusen was diagnosed with cancer, so he prepared his will early to prepare for a rainy day.
But what was unexpected was that Chen Shusen's will was strongly opposed by her daughter, and she even became angry at home, shouting:
"This house is mine, you can't give me whatever you want. ”
In Chen's view, his daughter usually enjoys a luxurious home and a luxury car, so she should not compete with her brother for these possessions.
So what's going on with all this? Is it the daughter's unfilial piety or is there something else hidden?
A storm of family legacies
In 2014, Chen Shusen, a 60-year-old man in Yueyang, Hunan Province, resolutely decided to turn to a local TV reporter for help, hoping to use the power of the media to find his daughter who had not returned from home for four years.
According to Chen Shusen's account, he is 65 years old this year, and although he has retired, he and his wife have a total pension of nearly 6,000 yuan, which is enough to meet the daily expenses of the two elderly people.
In addition, the two of them also have a house under their names, and it is said that an old man like Chen Shusen, who has enough money to spend and has a place to live, basically will not cause any trouble to his children, but why does his daughter go home every four years?
It turned out that when Chen Shusen had a physical examination in the hospital not long ago, he found out that he had cancer, and after learning that he was terminally ill, Yang Shusen wanted to arrange his afterlife.
So he directly made a will, probably the content of which was that after he left, all his property would be left to his son, who was disabled since childhood.
Logically speaking, Chen Shusen's arrangement is reasonable, considering that his son has physical defects, which means that he faces far more difficulties in making a living than ordinary people.
But Chen Shusen's will was strongly opposed by his daughter, according to Yang Shusen, it was because he wanted to transfer the 200 square meters of self-built house to his son that his daughter would not contact him for four years.
Then Chen Shusen cried and said to reporters: "My remaining days are numbered, but at this moment, I really can't muster up the courage to face death, because I have a paralyzed son who needs to be taken care of around the clock, and if I can't ensure that he is properly arranged and cared for, even if I leave, I will not be able to find peace in my heart." ”
Then he told reporters that his daughter was actually not far from where he lived, but in the past few years, he has deliberately avoided himself.
In addition, his daughter's family situation is much better than that of his son, she lives in a luxury car and a bungalow, her family is also very wealthy, and her daughter and son-in-law are also very business-minded, and the two have made a lot of money in business over the years.
According to Chen Shusen's story, her daughter should not be short of this house, so now that her father is terminally ill and her younger brother is paralyzed in bed, why is she so determined to fight for this property?
With all kinds of questions, the reporter dialed the phone number of Chen Shusen's daughter Chen Li, but as soon as the phone was connected, Chen Li immediately hung up the phone after hearing the voice of her father Chen Shusen.
Seeing this situation, the reporter speculated that there must be other untold stories between the father and daughter, but Chen Shusen was unwilling to tell reporters.
So the reporter dialed Chen Li's phone again, and persuaded her to take time to talk to her father, after all, blood is thicker than water, and now Chen Shusen is terminally ill, so he should meet him and explain the misunderstanding in the middle.
The father knelt on the ground and kowtowed
Hearing the reporter's words, Chen Li reluctantly agreed, but after the father and daughter met, they were like enemies who had not seen each other for many years, and no one looked down on anyone.
In the end, Chen Shusen walked up to Chen Li with his will and said in a commanding tone: "This is my will, sign your name." ”
After Chen Li saw the contents of the will, she trembled with anger, and directly threw Chen Shusen's will on the ground, and yelled, "It's impossible for me to sign it." ”
Seeing Chen Li's state, the reporter also hurriedly dissuaded her, and after Chen Li calmed down, she began to ask why the conflict between the father and daughter arose.
It turned out that the 200-square-meter self-built house that Chen Shusen said was actually purchased by himself 9 years ago, and Chen Li's name was also written in the house book.
But 4 years ago, Chen Shusen secretly changed the name on the purchase agreement to his younger brother without telling Chen Li, and changed the head of the house to his younger brother.
Here Chen Li was telling reporters about the causes and consequences of the conflict between their father and daughter, and Chen Shusen didn't know what he thought, so he went straight to Chen Li and slapped Chen Li hard.
Then Chen Shusen began to scold Chen Li for being unfilial and a white-eyed wolf who couldn't be fed, and when the reporter saw Chen Shusen's state, he hurriedly separated the two.
Then Chen Shusen began to say: "You only took 20,000 yuan, but we paid for a series of expenses such as the decoration of the house, and we also paid you back 20,000 yuan." ”
In addition, Chen Shusen also told reporters that over the years, her daughter Chen Li has never fulfilled her obligation to support them, and in their eyes, Chen Li is an out-and-out unfilial daughter.
Hearing her father say this in front of reporters, Chen Li fortunately no longer hid it, and directly talked about the house.
It turned out that after she got married, she and her husband worked diligently, lived a very happy life, and had a certain amount of savings in their hands, but one day she suddenly received a call from her father.
Father Chen Shusen told Chen Li on the other end of the phone that the neighbor only needed 20,000 yuan to sell his house, but they didn't have that much, which meant that Chen Li also took some.
After receiving a call from her father, Chen Li was confused, because their family did not have nowhere to live, but now that her father wants to buy a house, she can only support it.
After meeting, Chen Shusen said that Chen Li's name should be written on this house, so the 20,000 yuan should be Chen Li's expense, hearing her father's statement, Chen Li could only agree, at that time, her life was not like now, and 20,000 yuan was not easy to take out for her family.
Later, Chen Li and her husband seized the opportunity of life and caught up with the second-hand car industry.
But one day, Chen Li suddenly discovered that her father's name was written on the purchase agreement of the house she had bought.
After learning about this incident, Chen Li had a big quarrel with her father Chen Shusen, but Chen Shusen still had the style of the old family elder before, and he slapped Chen Li when he went up, and then said with a tough attitude: "What to discuss with you, you have already married, this house is for your brother to use as a wedding room, and it has nothing to do with you." ”
In fact, when it comes to this, we all know that Chen Shusen is unreasonable, and Chen Li was also arguing with her father on this matter at that time, and finally after seeing her father's attitude, she no longer had any contact with her father's family.
After Chen Li explained this matter clearly from beginning to end, she said to her father: "You have been patriarchal since you were a child, you have never considered my feelings, and now you are still hiding from me to give my house to my younger brother, I will not agree to this matter." ”
Hearing Chen Li's words, Chen Shusen was very angry, but after seeing that his blind toughness didn't seem to have any effect, he knelt down for Chen Li directly in front of everyone.
Then he said to Chen Li: "I beg you to leave the house to your brother, you are living so well, and your brother is paralyzed in bed, what should he do after I leave." ”
Seeing her father kneeling, Chen Li also hurriedly knelt down, but in the end, this matter still failed to go as Chen Shusen wished, and Chen Li was completely disappointed in her father.
Patriarchy is unacceptable
The reporter saw that Chen Shusen's various requests were actually for his son Chen Ming, so he contacted Chen Ming again, and after the phone was connected, Chen Ming told the reporter very clearly: "I don't want a house, I just hope to reconcile with my sister and be filial to my parents together." ”
Later, the reporter learned how big the difference between Chen Shusen's treatment of the two children was, and it turned out that after Chen Li was born, Chen Shusen was very unhappy when he saw that it was a female baby.
Later, the couple often prayed to God and Buddha, just to get a boy, and with the birth of Chen Ming, Chen Shusen and his wife were very happy and gave almost all their love to Chen Ming.
When Chen Ming was three years old, he unfortunately contracted polio and could not take care of himself since then.
In Chen Li's memory, from childhood to adulthood, everything delicious at home was basically eaten by her younger brother, and her usual life was to take care of her younger brother.
When Chen Li was seventeen years old, she couldn't stand her parents' patriarchal behavior, so she went out to work alone, and later met her husband who loved her.
After he went out to work, Chen Shusen and his wife basically did not call Chen Li, and occasionally called, asking for money to buy clothes for his younger brother.
It can be said that Chen Li has basically not enjoyed the love of her parents since she was a child, which is also the main reason why Chen Li is angry with her father Chen Shusen.
As parents, they have never respected their own opinions, have not considered their own feelings, all the considerations are for their younger brother, and they don't seem to have their own daughter in their eyes.
And the matter has come to this point, because his father did not discuss it with him at the beginning, according to Chen Li, if he can discuss it with himself, how can he not agree, after all, his younger brother has also been taken care of since he was a child, and he is not short of that money, but he is angry.
epilogue
In the end, Chen Li never signed Chen Shusen's will, and Chen Shusen's attitude towards Chen Li was still the same, scolding Chen Li for being unfilial.
On the other hand, Chen Li's younger brother Chen Ming said that his sister wants that house, and he can make money now, so he doesn't have to worry about himself, and he still hopes that his sister can let go of her prejudices and be filial to her parents.
Sources of information
"Looking for Love" October 28, 2014: The will turmoil of the terminally ill elderly