On May 3, a "love tragedy" rushed to the hot search. A young man gives his life in pursuit of his love.
At the age of 21, in just two years, he earned money that many people can't earn in a lifetime, but his young life did not bloom because of high income, but withered because of "love".
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The love and life tragedy of a 21-year-old ultra-high-income youth
This 21-year-old young man from Hunan has strong gaming skills, so he became a game booster. After his death, his sister and sister posted online outlining the ins and outs of the matter.
Our distilled summary is as follows:
Many of you may not know what a game agent is.
Game substitution, that is, to help other players play the game, according to the requirements of the players, in the specified time to help them quickly play to a high level, so as to get the corresponding money paid by the players. This is generally an employment relationship, where ordinary players find a booster organization, and then the organization is then assigned to an individual booster.
He likes to play the hero "Mengqi" in the game, and he named his game ID "Fat Cat".
The fat cat hasn't been in much of a relationship, and he's looking forward to it. In a voice chat app, Fat Cat met Tan, a 28-year-old woman from Chongqing.
Tan is a social old fritter who can use his skills to capture teenagers.
She sent photos and voices to the fat cat, and then the two started the so-called online dating. After online dating, the two met in reality.
The fat cat thinks that this woman is the person he wants to marry in the future, so he obeys her.
The woman often asks the fat cat for money, and she gets her wish. She once said that she wanted to open a flower shop and find something to do, with a difference of 100,000 yuan, and the fat cat directly transferred it.
In addition, the fat cat also went to Chongqing despite the opposition of his family, saying that he was willing to be a son-in-law.
After arriving in Chongqing, the woman did not let the fat cat live in her house (before the heroine said that the fat cat would live in her house after coming to Chongqing), and asked him to rent a house for the time being.
The fat cat rents a house, but is on call 24 hours a day to play with her. Fat Cat makes a lot of money playing games, but only orders the cheapest takeout (10 yuan) to save money.
The fat cat transferred a total of 510,000 yuan to the woman before his death.
In mid-March of this year, the woman celebrated her birthday, was given a mobile phone and gifts, and then ignored the fat cat. In April this year, the woman proposed to break up, and the fat cat jumped into the river on April 11.
The fat cat wanted to save the relationship before he died, but to no avail. 7 hours before jumping into the river, he transferred 66,000 yuan to the woman, and he was unable to save the breakup. 60 minutes before jumping into the river, I placed an order for 780 flowers for the heroine's flower shop, but I didn't get any response.
The whereabouts of the fat cat's body are unknown, and when the first seven days have not passed, the woman posted a selfie on a short video app.
Just today, the remains of the fat cat have been cremated.
Netizens ordered the hamburger that the fat cat liked before his death, and put it at the place to commemorate him with flowers.
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Education on the concept of love and sex education should be popularized from the beginning of school
Shi Tiesheng once said this:
"Love is to ask for heaven from hell!"
A very thorough word.
Shi Tiesheng also said that love is the moment of inferiority and abandonment of darkness.
There is no doubt that the fat cat wants to "abandon the darkness and turn to the light", but he does not want to fall into the bottomless black hole, and finally even loses his young life.
"Love is a moment of weakness, a recourse to the feelings of others, not to the giving of others, but to the participation of others. ”
This sentence is still very applicable in today's tragic story. At the cost of money earned by hard work, the fat cat turned to the woman's emotional giving or participation, but the result was unsuccessful.
Since it is not possible to "ask for heaven from hell", it is better to decisively change to hell. Or isn't it good to stay single and stay alone, if you can't find a suitable one, you can live your own life first, no problem.
This brings us to the issue of the concept of love.
In fact, the concept of love and sex education need to be popularized in schools.
Yes, you heard it right, schools need to popularize it, not let the children "cross the river by feeling the stones" on their own. It's okay to touch the right stone, but once you can't touch the stone or encounter a rapid, undercurrent, or whirlpool, you will drown directly.
The United Kingdom, the Netherlands, and almost all European countries have universal sex relations and sex education courses from an early age.
Since September 2020, all primary schools in the UK have been required to teach relations and sex education (RSE). This applies to all schools in England, including independent schools.
In the Netherlands, across the sea from England, sex education begins at the age of four or five. All children in Dutch schools receive an age-appropriate compulsory education course from the age of 4.
These courses teach not only about sexuality, but more importantly about building respect for their own sexuality and that of others. Instead of hiding and covering it since childhood, it is at a loss when it reaches adulthood.
The long-standing sex education classes in the Netherlands have resulted in a very low rate of abortion and sex crimes among Dutch girls, who decide what and how much they want when they feel ready for sex, and who do so responsibly in terms of contraception and mutual respect.
In addition to respecting others, there is another important aspect in the education of gender relations, and that is self-esteem and self-respect.
When European men and women fall in love, everyone's rights, responsibilities, possessions, personal space, and sense of boundaries are clearly distinguished. Because of these rules and these limitations, tragic events such as fat cats rarely occur.
Education such as in the Netherlands and the UK largely avoids detours in children in terms of "love" or affection. You know, the word detour is very light, but in fact, it can be a heavy price for a person, or even a family's life.
If an education system only trains children to take exams, do problems, cultivate "small-town problem-solvers", and cultivate "skilled talents" from an early age, and does not pay attention to the education of gender relations and emotional growth, then tragedies such as fat cats will increase in the proportion of the population.
Seeing that some people here will definitely disdain to say that the fat cat case is just an example, what does it have to do with the education system?
It really has a lot to do with it!
If relevant education is popularized from an early age, then the probability of such a tragedy as a fat cat will be very low. That's for sure.
It can be said that the tragedy of the fat cat is a living example. Through the online narrative and his sister's description, it can be seen that the fat cat is a typical "technical talent", who is very strong in technology, but failed in terms of feelings, and even paid for his life in the end.
Of course, there is still a long way to go to popularize sex education. After all, until this year, in 2024, there are still many parents who go to the Education Bureau to report Du Mu's sentence "stop and sit in love with Fenglin Night", thinking that this sentence should be deleted from the textbook.
Shi Tiesheng's concept of love can basically be summarized as: truthfulness, tolerance and dedication ("Love is like a seed, it needs to be cultivated with heart in order to bloom beautiful flowers. ”）
With that out of the way, let's turn on another Bob Marley quote:
"If she was unbeatable, she wouldn't have it that easy. If she had access to it, she wouldn't be unbeatable. If she's worth it, you won't give up. If you give up, you're not worth it. The truth is, everyone will hurt you, you just need to find those who are worth putting up with. ”
Even if education and celebrity quotes aside, an adult really needs to think about the consequences before making a big decision, not only to love himself, but also to think about his family. If it's a debt or fraud, you can sue, and if it's a voluntary gift, you can try to go to court. Take 10,000 steps back and say, even if you don't get the money back, with your ability of 510,000 yuan in two years, it is not impossible to make a comeback and earn another million.
How many 21-year-olds in the country can earn 510,000 in two years?
I hope that his life can remind more young people: respect yourself, love yourself, love your family, and think calmly in advance.
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Is online dating reliable? Some people take the opportunity to provoke gender antagonism!
Since 1998, the Internet has been popularized all over the world, and since then the marriage and love patterns of all mankind have undergone significant changes.
In the past 20 years, online dating has been adopted by more and more people. So, is it a good thing at all?
This varies greatly from person to person and from person to event, and cannot be defined simply as "good versus bad".
As far as we observe young Europeans in reality, most people still don't like "online dating" as a way of interacting with men and women.
A European male classmate once said that the most unreliable thing about online dating is that you can't see each other's expressions, eyes, happiness and sadness, and can't hear the tone of speech. Of course, video chat is already available now. However, across the screen is actually the same as a world, or rather, an enchantment.
After this incident, some people in the Weibo comment area began to come up to create gender confrontation. He was refuted by netizens.
In fact, in the tragedy caused by the deformed view of marriage and love, the number and proportion of crimes committed by men are overwhelming in the world.
In recent years, the killing of a man's girlfriend/ex-girlfriend or wife/ex-wife has often been in the news or hot searches. On Baidu, just using "killing girlfriend" as a keyword search, a lot of shocking news was found:
Especially this last piece of news - killing his girlfriend but saying "love is beautiful".
It's not love at all, it's just selfishness and possessiveness. If you have to say that this is love, it can only be deformed, distorted, and perverted love.
The Jiang Ge case, which made the people of the whole country indignant, is also a typical example of the deformed concept of marriage and love, for some reason, now the public's focus has shifted to Jiang Ge's "fatal girlfriend", and no one pays attention to the extremely vicious, brutal and perverted murderer Chen Shifeng.
No one wants to see such a tragedy as a fat cat.
After such a thing happens, instead of stirring up gender conflicts here and saying "what about female boxers, why are they gone?", it is better to think carefully about how to popularize gender education, how to change the deformed and perverted view of marriage and love, and let similar incidents be rejected as much as possible in the future.
This is the right way in the world!