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Have you ever heard the elders in the family often say: "Don't compare food and clothing with others, compare with achievements!" This sentence sounds simple, but there are a lot of deep meanings behind it. Today, let's talk about this topic and take a look at the doorway.
Some of the real experiences shared by netizens below may give us some inspiration and insights
When I was a child, my family was poor, and my parents said the same thing to me, and now many children in rural families still say this. In fact, this is the least arduous and easiest way to get out of poverty. Because not being rich means having few resources, if you want to get out of the poor circle, you have to study hard, because there are no resources such as connections and funds to use. I can't fight my father, I can't fight for money, I have to fight my brain.
I'm a father, and I've had this realization for a long time. Don't compare your children with others, only with yourself. It's a very simple idea, my son is now superior to my contemporaries in all aspects, so normally he is better than me at the same time, and I don't care about the rest.
You say that it is really right to lick people abroad [cover your face] I feel that foreign relations are better than those at home, and licking people don't have to think too much at all, just praise without brains, as long as it is not the kind of luxury company, which is an environment where everyone is so sophisticated, those small means of the Chinese can completely blow up foreigners
In fact...... Those snacks for the little ones...... It's really delicious [tears]
I can accept the kind of "Mom and Dad's ability is limited, you can only rely on yourself, but we will do our best to help you", but I can't accept "Although we are average, but you are not good is that you don't work hard, then who whose family conditions are not as good as us, how can people do housework and have good gradesblablabla..."
One of the common problems of Chinese parents is that they do not know how to encourage their children, nor do they know how to admit that their children are excellent, which affects the establishment of children's self-esteem and self-confidence.
In fact, too often the meaning of parents' "don't eat, don't wear, just study" is just: don't compare, just work hard!
I think what you said is light, and my dad used to ask me, "What dignity do you have?"
This empathy is very real, and only this answer similar to chicken soup can make people agree [like]
Haha, someone jumped to the feet, the reason for jumping the feet is that when you become a parent, you will know the difficulties of your parents, and you don't want to answer this head-on, and you don't say what's wrong.
From a small county town, I went to Beijing to go to university. When I was a child, I thought that if I could eat enough and have clothes to wear, I would not be poor. Until I found out that my roommate's monthly living expenses were 5,000, and there were still a lot of people in the class. I didn't think about receiving poverty allowance, but I gradually found out that this place was prepared for me, and everyone didn't need it......
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