Provoke dad to be angry and cancel the May Day trip! All parents reflect!
Recently, a blogger bought shoes for his younger brother, but his father was angry and canceled his May Day travel plan, and the video sparked heated discussions among netizens. Some netizens think that the father may feel that the child's wings are stiff, and some netizens said that the educational concept of the older generation needs to be changed.
See what netizens have to say
Netizen comments: Because of the rain my sister had when she was a child, she wanted to give her brother an umbrella when she grew up, and she didn't want him to be the same as herself.
If my daughter could buy a pair of shoes for her brother, I would be very happy, and I should not be happy to see that they have a good relationship with their siblings.
Some parents who are unhappy can really make people speechless.
Causes of family conflicts
Family conflict refers to the phenomenon that there are differences and conflicts between family members in terms of concepts, values, and behaviors, resulting in disharmony in family relationships.
Poor communication is one of the main causes of family conflicts.
Poor communication can lead to misunderstandings, grievances, and conflicts between family members.
Family members may have conflicts with each other due to improper communication methods, low communication frequency, unclear communication content, etc.
Poor communication can lead to a decrease in emotional communication between family members, the accumulation of misunderstandings and resentment, and ultimately conflicts.
In order to avoid and resolve family conflicts, family members should strengthen communication, understanding and tolerance, respect each other's opinions and feelings, and jointly maintain family harmony and stability.
Emotional problems between family members are also one of the causes of family conflicts.
Family members may have conflicts due to emotional discord, emotional infidelity, emotional abuse, etc.
Emotional problems can lead to strained or even broken relationships between family members.
In order to resolve family conflicts, family members should strengthen emotional exchanges, enhance mutual understanding and trust, and jointly maintain family harmony and stability.
Economic problems Economic problems are also one of the causes of family conflicts.
Family members may have conflicts due to unbalanced economic income, unreasonable economic expenditure, unfair distribution of property, etc.
Financial problems can lead to tensions and even breakdowns in relationships between family members.
In order to resolve family conflicts, family members should strengthen economic management, formulate a reasonable family budget, and jointly maintain the family's economic stability.
The personality and behavior of family members The personality and behavior of family members are also one of the causes of family conflicts.
Family members may have conflicts due to incompatible personalities, different ways of behaving, different living habits, etc.
The personality and behavior of family members may affect the way family members get along and communicate with each other, which can lead to family conflicts.
In order to resolve family conflicts, family members should respect each other's personalities and behaviors, strengthen communication and understanding, and jointly maintain family harmony and stability.
Roles and responsibilities of family members The roles and responsibilities of family members are also one of the causes of family conflicts.
Family members may have conflicts with each other due to unclear roles and unfair distribution of responsibilities.
The roles and responsibilities of family members may affect the relationship and communication style of family members, which can lead to family conflicts.
In order to resolve family conflicts, family members should clarify their respective roles and responsibilities, strengthen communication and understanding, and jointly maintain family harmony and stability.
The family environment and social environment are also one of the causes of family conflicts, which are caused by many factors, including poor communication, emotional problems, economic problems, personality and behavior of family members, roles and responsibilities of family members, family environment and social environment, etc.
In order to avoid and resolve family conflicts, family members should strengthen communication, understanding and tolerance, respect each other's opinions and feelings, and jointly maintain family harmony and stability.