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After 30 years of staying together and still in love, how did Chi Chongrui and Chen Lihua, who are very different, do it?

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After 30 years of staying together and still in love, how did Chi Chongrui and Chen Lihua, who are very different, do it?

In that glorious moment in 1986, the world's most anticipated TV drama "Journey to the West" finally came to a perfect end, and the entire production team rejoiced at this outstanding achievement, and there is no doubt that this work has undoubtedly become a classic of the era.

Chi Chongrui, one of the leading actors, vividly depicts the essence of the character characteristics of "Tang Seng", and his light and jumping heart seems to be jumping again at the end of this play.

Whenever he recalls the scene when he was engrossed in shaping this character in front of the camera, Chi Chongrui will always be extremely proud of his efforts and dedication. From time to time, he silently recited those familiar Buddhist proverbs in his heart, and sometimes inadvertently showed the gestures of Buddhism between movements, as if he could travel through time and space again in the next second and return to the challenging and arduous road of learning scriptures in the west.

At such a joyful moment, a seemingly accidental but destined to change the fate of Chi Chongrui's life happened. On that day, the famous artist Ms. Chen Lihua was invited by her friend and Zhao Lirong, the actor of "Queen Chechi" in the play, to come to the crew with a greeting from the class.

After 30 years of staying together and still in love, how did Chi Chongrui and Chen Lihua, who are very different, do it?

When he first met Chen Lihua, Chi Chongrui was immediately attracted by her calm and gentle temperament. Especially when Mr. Chen smiled at him and showed his eyes as warm as a spring breeze, he couldn't help but feel ripples in his heart.

This was originally just a simple crew visit, but it ignited unexpected emotional sparks in the hearts of the two. Everything happened as naturally as the plot in the movie, without any deliberate carving and disguise.

Let's go back in time to the early 20th century, when a young girl from a prominent family spent her childhood carefree in the palatial palace of the Summer Palace in Beijing.

This little girl is the later teacher Chen Lihua, she is a Manchu with a yellow flag, a descendant of the Empress Dowager Cixi, and should enjoy endless honor.

After 30 years of staying together and still in love, how did Chi Chongrui and Chen Lihua, who are very different, do it?

However, with the changes of history, this once prominent royal family and aristocracy gradually went into decline. The Chen family's family is declining day by day, and they can no longer regain their former glory.

In order to make ends meet, the young Chen Lihua had to follow her father around and live an ordinary life.

Despite coming from a poor family, Chan's father was a skilled carpenter, who was proficient in making and restoring all kinds of traditional furniture, and he never let up on this ancient craft in order to provide a stable living environment for his daughter.

Instead, he took the opportunity to pass on the unique skill of carpentry to Chen Lihua without reservation.

After 30 years of staying together and still in love, how did Chi Chongrui and Chen Lihua, who are very different, do it?

Under the careful teaching of her father, Chen Lihua gradually mastered the whole process of furniture design, production and sales. Not only is she skilled in the use of a variety of tools, but she also has a unique understanding and appreciation of rare and precious woods.

Those years of hard work have become a solid foundation for Chen Lihua's entrepreneurship in the future. Before graduating from high school, she had already made a name for herself and was known as "Miss Carpenter".

In just a few years, with extraordinary perseverance and keen insight, Chen Lihua has successfully jumped from an ordinary grassroots class to the pinnacle of her life, becoming the richest female entrepreneur in China.

Since the crew of "Journey to the West" met, Chen Lihua and Chi Chongrui have become increasingly close like confidants with a common heart. They found that they had a high tacit understanding with each other in the field of traditional culture and art, and had a deep understanding and warm love for Chinese classical literature and opera art.

After 30 years of staying together and still in love, how did Chi Chongrui and Chen Lihua, who are very different, do it?

The two met late, like a long-sought treasure. After many temptations and tenderness, they finally mustered up the courage to take that crucial step. Chi Chongrui, with the shyness of a teenager, sincerely invited Teacher Chen Lihua to spend the night of the first date.

It was a quiet and bright summer night, and the lights were shining in front of the Suzaku Gate in Guozijian in Beijing. Chi Chongrui carefully booked an elegant private restaurant for the two. He was wearing a nostalgic robe vest, his hair was neatly combed, and the whole person looked elegant and atmospheric.

Teacher Chen Lihua was wearing a lake blue long skirt and a sunshade straw hat on her head, gentle and generous, like a virtuous lady.

Since that day, Chen Lihua and Chi Chongrui have been more inseparable, confiding in each other that they are no longer young. However, their marriage due to the difference in age and social status has caused a lot of controversy and questions in the outside world.

After 30 years of staying together and still in love, how did Chi Chongrui and Chen Lihua, who are very different, do it?

Among the different opinions, some people speculate that Chi Chongrui may have been confused by the huge wealth of the national disaster owned by Chen Lihua and lost his mind. Some people also speculate whether he had other intentions and intended to profit from this marriage? All kinds of gossip and rumors, the original clear and unblemished reputation now seems to have been tainted with some flaws.

However, in the face of these external doubts and criticisms, Chi Chongrui and Chen Lihua showed no concern at all, they created a beautiful love story with practical actions, challenged many difficulties with an inclusive and understanding attitude, and finally went to the palace of marriage together.

Since the beginning of her marriage, Ms. Chen Lihua has shown her unique traditional ladylike demeanor. She has always adhered to many ancient customs and rules, and she is quite strict with her family and husband.

However, as a husband, Mr. Chi Chongrui accepted all of his wife's with a broad mind, and he always called Chen Lihua with the honorific title of "you", whether it was "you should eat", "you should drink" or "you should rest", his concern for his wife is undoubtedly evident Whenever there is a disagreement between husband and wife, Mr. Chi will always take the lead in making concessions, he would rather temporarily let go of his attachment than fall into a senseless argument with his wife.

After 30 years of staying together and still in love, how did Chi Chongrui and Chen Lihua, who are very different, do it?

It is precisely because of such a philosophy of life of "taking a step back and opening up the sky" that Chi Chongrui can successfully integrate into Chen Lihua's family life and establish a harmonious relationship with her children.

In the process of getting along, both parties have a broad heart, know how to understand and tolerate each other, their feelings are deep, life is harmonious, day after day, year after year, they have never quarreled in front of others, even at home, they have never had a big fight, their lifestyle is low-key and simple, their behavior follows the norms, in public, they keep a low profile, try to avoid causing unnecessary attention and suspicion.

In addition to their happy marriage, Chi Chongrui and Chen Lihua also share a dream and pursuit - that is, to promote and develop the traditional culture of the Chinese nation. In order to realize this grand wish, they are tireless and unswerving.

Finally, in 1999, a large museum covering an area of 25,000 square meters located on Jianguo Road in Beijing was officially unveiled and opened to the public.

After 30 years of staying together and still in love, how did Chi Chongrui and Chen Lihua, who are very different, do it?

The museum has a collection of countless classical treasures from the Ming and Qing dynasties, these are made of red sandalwood, huanghuali, ebony and other precious wood furniture, which can be called priceless!

However, it is undoubtedly a serious and daunting challenge to collect so many precious cultural relics, large and small. The hardships and efforts of Ms. Chen Lihua and Mr. Chi Chongrui are innumerable, and they have gone through a lot of hardships.

On one occasion, they braved a dense primeval forest in search of the precious rosewood. The vegetation is lush and the trees are tall, and there are traces of poisonous snakes and beasts everywhere.

The most thrilling thing is that they accidentally provoke a hornet's nest that is as large as a small house.

After 30 years of staying together and still in love, how did Chi Chongrui and Chen Lihua, who are very different, do it?

When thousands of hornets poured out of their nests, making a piercing buzzing sound, and attacked them, the scene instantly plunged into chaos. Although they quickly turned and fled, many wasps were in hot pursuit, leaving deep wounds on Mr. Chi's back and thighs, and the pain was unbearable.

Luckily, the nearby villagers treated them in time with a special ointment, allowing them to escape. Later, it was learned that the name of this wasp was "Seven Mile Bee", and although the name sounded quite unfamiliar, its poison was deadly.

Now, when we look back on the love journey of Mr. Chi Chongrui and Ms. Chen Lihua, a celebrity couple for more than 30 years, they perfectly interpret the true meaning of mutual respect, tolerance and understanding with practical actions.

Looking back at those days, how did the outside world view this couple, who were very different in age and social status? All kinds of doubts and gossip emerged one after another. Some people believe that Mr. Chi Chongrui was attracted by Ms. Chan's endless wealth, while others suspect that he has ulterior motives and tries to make personal gains.

After 30 years of staying together and still in love, how did Chi Chongrui and Chen Lihua, who are very different, do it?

However, in the face of all kinds of criticism, they chose to remain silent and resolve all difficulties with mutual tolerance and understanding. It is precisely because of such tolerance and understanding that they can go through the ups and downs together and go through decades of spring and autumn hand in hand.

The reason why their marriage can sail forever in the wind and waves is mainly because of the deep respect for each other. In order to deepen this relationship, they continue to uphold the tradition of sharing a warm family dinner every evening, and through affectionate conversations at the dinner table, they can resolve any conflicts and differences in life.

Time flies, and they have never had a heated argument in front of others, and even strictly controlled their mood swings in the family environment. Chi Chongrui, with his broad mind, chose to take a step back, in exchange for a broader world, and he actively compromised with his wife's habits.

Whenever Chen Lihua's emotions are a little out of control, Mr. Chi is always able to show an understanding and tolerant attitude.

After 30 years of staying together and still in love, how did Chi Chongrui and Chen Lihua, who are very different, do it?

It is with such a broad mind and profound wisdom that they finally created an enviable and happy marriage. The ancients once sighed: "A couple who sincerely love each other is the most beautiful scenery in the world." ”

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