I think so.
A person's personality will affect his life path, and it will also affect his love destiny.
As we all know, love is the result of mutual attraction between the two parties. Many times, a person's love fate is not smooth, and it is often closely related to his character. This is an important fact that we cannot ignore.
Whether in daily life or in romantic relationships, an individual's personality plays an extremely important role, often determining the state of his life and love.
When a man chooses a woman, the personality of the other party is also one of the important considerations. No one wants to be around someone who doesn't match their personality, so men won't like a woman with a bad personality either. The above is a general situation, and most people have such tendencies.
"Get along with each other and complement each other. This is a succinct and incisive summary of love by emotional writer Lu Qi.
To be sure, a person's personality plays a crucial role in a relationship.
Men find it pleasant and interesting to be around women who are cheerful and humorous, while they may be able to argue with them at home when they are with women who are withdrawn and calculating. This difference suggests that a person's personality traits and personality are very important in relationships.
This is caused by personality incompatibility.
Although in the world of love, everyone has different requirements and expectations for their other half, turnip and cabbage have their own love. However, we can find that men often fail to value the following female personalities.
01 Suspicion
In a relationship, mutual trust is crucial. Feelings that lack trust are difficult to sustain. On the one hand, noisy and noisy situations are frequent, and on the other hand, the lack of trust can also make each other tired. Building a relationship of mutual trust not only makes the relationship smoother, but also makes our lives easier and more enjoyable.
When two people who trust each other are together, their lives become extraordinarily comfortable, and there will be no doubts about the other's sincerity and no worries that the other person will do something sorry for them. Such relationships are very precious, and they are able to support each other and share each other's experiences and feelings. Mutual trust and respect are important cornerstones of a healthy relationship.
Why do men pay less attention to such women?
In fact, women often suspect that it can make men feel stressed and tired. Because it is difficult for men to gain the trust of women, they will naturally be reluctant to be honest with women. This is the reason why men are troubled when confronted with a woman who is constantly suspicious.
As a simple example, if a man's job requires frequent business trips, and the woman has to argue with him every time, then over time the man will stop telling the woman about the itinerary. Not only is this a waste of time and effort, but it can also lead to a lack of communication. On the premise of mutual respect, both men and women should communicate well and find better solutions to maintain a healthy and happy relationship.
In romantic relationships, women tend to feel reserved and hidden from themselves by men. This can lead women to perceive men as not valuing them enough. This is a common situation.
However, women need to put themselves in their shoes and think about why men hide the truth from you, perhaps because there is a problem with trust, and they are always suspicious of others.
Women should know that constant suspicion and speculation can drain men's patience and gradually dilute their enthusiasm. We should be more inclusive and trusting, so that we can better build good relationships.
If women want to be respected by men, they need to change some of their distrustful character shortcomings. Even if you are suspicious of him, you should not quarrel with him frequently, but communicate with him well. This builds better trust and mutual understanding.
02 Pretentious
We often say that a woman who is like a bird can best capture a man's heart. In fact, slightly shyly women are also easily appreciated by men. Such women generally have a good grasp of proportion and grasp the taste of men.
Women who use pretentiousness as a means cannot get the sincerity of men. On the contrary, men's feelings and importance can be damaged by their artificiality and posturing. As a woman, you should not hypocritically shape yourself while pursuing men, which will not be successful.
As the saying goes, "Small acts of artificiality can bring pleasure, but excessive artificiality can cause physical and mental harm." "It is not advisable for a contrived woman to always put herself at the center and not care about the feelings and opinions of others.
In this relationship, she is always in the dominant position, and once something is not as she wants, she will be coquettish and even lose her temper. This phenomenon is relatively discordant, but it is also a lovely expression.
Such women often struggle to gain the attention of men, and getting along with them can be a nightmare for men. No matter how much men take care of them, it is difficult to endure their "princess disease". This kind of behavior is not only annoying, but also detrimental to the establishment of relationships. Women need to learn to be humble and control themselves in order to truly win the hearts of men.
When a man develops an aversion to women, he becomes difficult to value women. At this point, the man will use a variety of methods to avoid the woman, including perfunctory, excuse himself, or force the woman to leave first. In this case, it is very difficult for women because they need to accept this fact and adapt to the change. It takes a long period of effort and commitment to build a relationship between men and women.
03Zen Yu
"Jealous people are unhappy and lonely. ”
In a relationship, it's normal to be jealous. Moderate jealousy is not only a way to express love, but also a way to show how much love cares about the other person. After all, care and attention are one of the most direct manifestations of a relationship.
Moderation is the key to everything, whether it's in a meal or in a relationship, being overly jealous can become jealous, and this character trait is undoubtedly extremely bad. We should cultivate a positive mindset and not let jealousy affect our lives.
From ancient times to the present, men's requirements for women's mate selection have always been gentle and generous, and they are not easy to be jealous. A woman who is easily jealous will inevitably lose the value of men.
Some women can cause a lot of trouble for men because they are too jealous. They ask men when they have normal interactions with other members of the opposite sex, and they blame men when they are a little late to come home...... This kind of discipline does not allow even ordinary social interaction to unfold freely.
Many times, even if you are chatting with a female friend in WeChat, you will consider deleting or blocking it. Whether it's an ordinary friend or a boss or a client, this kind of decision may be made.
There is no doubt that this kind of love is an abnormal emotion that is often difficult for men to accept and more likely to be strongly rejected or even run away.
In a relationship, a woman wants to be valued by a man, and she needs to make the man feel comfortable and happy with you. Only when he truly loves you will he value you in his heart. This is a simple truth, but it is a hurdle that must be crossed on the road of affection. Let's enjoy a good relationship together!
Remind you that jealousy is an expression of love, and although there is a little jealousy, it is not malicious. However, an overly jealous person is a psychological tendency that not only causes suffering to oneself, but also brings harm to the other person.
Conclusion:
People seek love because we want to enjoy the good feelings and get along with each other well and comfortably, not boredom and unpleasantness.
It is noteworthy that these women tend to cause varying degrees of distress and discomfort to men.
Men do not value such women, and even if they have loved them deeply, they can hardly bear to be hurt repeatedly.
Some of people's personality traits may be inherent, but most of them can be adjusted with effort. While everyone has some personality traits in their bones that are hard to change, we can improve our behavior and way of thinking by constantly learning and growing.
If women want to be recognized by men and have a good love, they may wish to try to change themselves and get rid of those bad personalities. Gradually become a new and better version of yourself.
When you change, you will realize that the other person is more welcoming, caring, and respectful of you.
This is the continuous positive influence that a good personality can have on people.