CCTV is the dream of all broadcast hosts, and it is a place for which everyone is willing to work hard. As the hostess of CCTV, they have ushered in the envy of many people, both in figure and appearance, but they still have their own troubles.
Among them are some older single female hosts, although their careers are booming, they have not solved their personal relationship problems for a long time. Long Yang, Chai Lu and Li Zimeng are all facing this problem now.
Long Yang
Long Yang, a gentle hostess standing on the CCTV stage, has a very lively and humorous personality. The talented and quick-witted beauty hosted by the "Poetry Conference" made people unforgettable her. In an interview, the host asked her about her criteria for choosing a mate, and her answer made everyone laugh.
First, there must be a humorous soul like Sa Beining;
the second is to have a magnetic voice like Kang Hui;
The third is to have a smart appearance like Kang Zhen.
It also makes people have to admire her super high emotional intelligence, which not only answered the host's questions, but also resolved the embarrassment of being unmarried for a long time.
Chai Lu
Chai Lu, born in an ordinary family in Xi'an, with congenital torticollis, she not only never gave up in treatment, but also became an excellent host of CCTV with her unremitting efforts. In terms of career, she is brave and hardworking, but she is blank in her love life. She wants her partner to be compatible with her soul, and she values inner qualities more than external conditions.
Li Zimeng
In 2007, Li Zimeng became the youngest host of "News Network". This deliberately dressed mature female anchor for the sake of the effect of the show has left a deep impression on our hearts.
Li Zimeng is the mainstay of CCTV, her language is relaxed, her expression is natural, and her business ability is very outstanding when she hosts the show. Her busy career leaves her no time to take care of her personal emotional issues.
These excellent hostesses all have excellent careers, but none of them are married. Is marriage really a necessity in life?
Today's society is putting more and more pressure on women. In your career, your boss asks you to do your best, and marriage and childbirth are all criteria for the interviewer to consider whether you are suitable for the position. Even before you join the company, you will be asked to promise that you will not get married and have children in the next few years.
In the family, traditional morality requires you to take care of your husband and children while experiencing independence. Many working women suffer because they can't balance their careers and families.
It is not difficult to understand why more and more women in the workplace are choosing not to get married. Work diligently every day, stay up all night for the current work results, sacrifice your personal time to work hard for the interests of the company, continue to learn for the work you love, and make your business ability more sophisticated, even so, the company will still let you be replaced or let you be fired for various reasons after you get married and pregnant.
But is marriage all pain and stress for women? Of course not. A good marriage will make your career go further and make your life happier. It all depends on your partner's attitude towards your work. If he can fully support your career and help you with household chores and ensure your success, then it is much better than if you were on your own.
Marriage will indeed bring certain obstacles to your career, but facing challenges and rising to the challenge is what a woman in the new era should be. Women in the new era can be gentle and moving, self-confident and independent, and they should be brave and resolute.
There is only one life in life, and women should not be afraid of marriage because of some deformed social phenomena, on the contrary, they should seriously manage their marriage, balance the relationship between family and career, let the family become a warm harbor for women, and enjoy the happiness and joy that marriage brings to women. But women don't need to change themselves because of marriage, you can still be the self that is confident, independent, and hard-working, which is not in conflict with marriage.
Of course, there is no need for women to get married for the sake of marriage, if fate has not arrived, you just want to cope with the world's eyes, and marry casually, then most of this kind of marriage will fail, hurting you at the same time, but also bringing harm to the other party.
If you meet someone who is your ideal type, who understands all your thoughts, who can support your decisions, and you are willing to enter a new stage of life for him, then at this time, please don't hold back, don't get entangled, and you will never be able to appreciate the beauty of marriage without trying.
Whether these hostesses are married or not, it is a choice they make as independent individuals. Life is not the same, you just need to know what you want when you make a decision, and only when you know what you really want, then you can make a decision that you don't regret. Regardless of whether women enter the palace of marriage or not, I wish you will always be the little girl who is full of expectations for the future and full of fantasies about love.