The most comfortable days for middle-aged people are really the years when children go to college. The years are like a song, and in the blink of an eye, the children have embarked on a new journey in life, and we, the parents who have broken their hearts for them, can finally take a breather and enjoy the long-lost peace and comfort.
In those years, the pressure before the college entrance examination seemed to be a heavy mountain, which overwhelmed us. In the dead of night, we toss and turn, unable to sleep, and our hearts are full of uncertainty and worry about the future. In those days when we got up early and were greedy at night, we accompanied our children, swam in the ocean of knowledge together, cheered them on, and wiped away their sweat and tears. We are careful to talk and do things, for fear that if we are not careful, it will affect the children's mood and affect their studies.
Now that the children have entered the halls of university, we are finally able to let go of the burden in our hearts. Without the tension and anxiety of the college entrance examination, without the fatigue and hard work of accompanying the students, we seem to have rediscovered our young, free and energetic selves. We can begin to plan our lives, pursue our hobbies, and enjoy spending time with family and friends.
During this time, we no longer have to worry about finding a job for our children. They are young and have unlimited possibilities and potential. We believe that with their own efforts and talents, they will carve out a world of their own in the future workplace. As for finding a partner, we won't consider it for the time being. We believe in fate and that children will meet the right people at the right time. And we just need to silently bless them and pray for them.
It is a great comfort for us that our parents are still able to take care of themselves. They have gone through the baptism of time and become more mature and stronger. They have a wealth of life experience and wisdom and are able to provide us with valuable advice and guidance. We don't have to worry too much, we just need to give them love and support when they need it.
However, when we are immersed in this peace and comfort, we can't help but wonder: how long will this last? Children will eventually grow up and leave us to pursue their dreams and lives. And we will gradually grow old and enter the twilight of life. At that time, will we be able to face the changes of life calmly and enjoy every ordinary and beautiful moment as we are now?
Perhaps, we cannot predict the future, but we can choose how to face the present. Let us cherish this most comfortable day and feel the beauty and warmth of life with our hearts. Let us grow up with our children and experience the ups and downs of life together. Let's spend one unforgettable time after another in each other's company.
At the same time, we need to be prepared for the future. We need to maintain a healthy lifestyle, exercise actively, and maintain a good attitude. We must continue to learn new knowledge and skills, and constantly improve our overall quality and ability. In this way, when we face the challenges and opportunities of the future, we will be able to have enough confidence and courage to meet them.
Finally, let us ask ourselves: in the days to come, will we be able to face the changes of life calmly and cherish every ordinary and beautiful moment as we are now? Perhaps, we cannot give a definite answer. But as long as we maintain a grateful heart, a positive heart, and a brave heart, I believe that we will be able to overcome every difficulty and meet every beautiful tomorrow!