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In recent years, it has become a trend for the "second generation of stars" to collectively gather money in the entertainment industry!
For example, Chen Feiyu, whose father is a well-known director and whose mother is "the first beauty in the mainland", and Huang Duoduo, whose parents are both well-known actors, and Wang Shiling, whose mother is a famous host, are examples.
But not all second-generation stars were born in the spotlight like them, with excellent living conditions and flowers and applause.
The daughters Li Si and Li Taimi, born to the "Kung Fu Emperor" Jet Li and his ex-wife, are rarely mentioned by the public.
And these two daughters not only did not enjoy the childhood that they grew up under the care of their parents, but also did not live in a luxurious house like other second-generation stars, and they did not have no worries about food and clothing.
The eldest daughter Li Si is still unmarried even now at the age of 36, which makes people have to guess whether the emotional experience of her parents has affected this girl's view of marriage and love......
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1. The short marriage between a father and parents who don't know love
Jet Li and his ex-wife Huang Qiuyan's acquaintance dates back to 1971. Jet Li's family was not good since he was a child, and he was lucky to be selected to study martial arts in a professional school when he was eight or nine years old. It was in this school that he and Huang Qiuyan met fatefully.
At that time, he didn't know what love was, but he just thought it was not bad to be with the beautiful and caring senior sister in front of him.
In the sensitive adolescence, children are curious about love, and Jet Li and Huang Qiuyan, who often walk together, have become the object of everyone's coaxing because of their outstanding appearance.
After a long time, the pair of golden boys and girls naturally came together.
Jet Li, who starred in the movie "Shaolin Temple" in 1982, became an instant hit. The film harvested an astonishing box office of 160 million in that era of extremely low prices, and became a well-known classic.
Jet Li, who has infinite scenery, has long realized that he is not in love with Huang Qiuyan.
But after thinking about it, he still swallowed the word breakup, and recommended Huang Qiuyan to star in "Shaolin Kid", wanting to make her popular as compensation and then mention breaking up with her.
It didn't occur that an injury would dispel his thoughts. Huang Qiuyan's care and patience as always touched Jet Li, making him very grateful.
He doesn't understand love, and mistakenly regards this feeling as the germination of love.
The two got married hastily without a wedding.
In 1988, Jet Li decided to go to the United States to develop because he was dissatisfied with his acting career being controlled by the unit everywhere.
At that time, Huang Qiuyan was pregnant, but in order to support her husband's career, she could only follow Jet Li to the United States. It's just that she didn't expect that this decision would make her regret it for the rest of her life.
Jet Li, who is extremely beautiful in China, never thought that it would be so difficult to break through in the United States, and there was no splash in the scenes he filmed in the United States.
Not only is his income getting less and less, but his expenses are getting bigger and bigger after his daughter is born, so he had to decide to temporarily put aside the idea of breaking into the United States and return to Hong Kong to film, this time he left his daughter and his wife, who was pregnant with his second child, in the United States.
Unexpectedly, coming to Hong Kong again not only ushered in a real turn for the better in his career, but also met the "love of his life", that is, his current wife Li Zhi.
Jet Li and Li Zhi's fate comes from the movie "Dragon in the World", Jet Li fell in love at first sight with this actress with a "rare beauty in fifty years", and bluntly said that he finally understood what love is.
Jet Li, who found true love, did not hesitate too much this time and quickly filed for divorce.
"I'm sorry, I was wrong, I found my true love. ”
Huang Qiuyan couldn't believe that their love for so many years from childhood to adulthood was so easily defeated by a so-called "true love". But looking at her earnest husband, she could only reluctantly agree.
In 1991, the two officially ended their four-year marriage.
After the divorce, public opinion always described Jet Li's self-proclaimed pursuit of true love as "abandoning his wife and daughter", which made him feel resentful repeatedly. But the discriminatory treatment of the two wives and daughters over the years has intensified this public opinion......
2. The mother works in the United States and the father is looking for true love
"Didn't treat his ex-wife and children badly" This is Jet Li's response to various rumors about himself and his ex-wife. He said that he was out of the house and left his only property to Huang Qiuyan, is this really the case?
At that time, Jet Li fell into a trough for a while, and he did leave the house to her, but at the same time, he also left the loan of the house to her.
Huang Qiuyan has no fame in the United States and no skills that can make money. A mother with two children in a foreign country was miserable, and the property was eventually auctioned off by the bank because she could not repay the loan.
With nothing to do, she thought of Jet Li's parents. In this way, Li Si and his sister returned to their motherland and lived with their grandparents.
In the United States, the mother was too far away to visit the sisters, and the father did not care about the sisters.
At that time, Jet Li's career reached a new peak, and his work schedule was full, not to mention that he was still busy falling in love with his "new love" Li Zhi, and he had no time to take care of Li Si and his sister.
"I love her, I can die for her, I can lose fame or fortune for her. ”
This is Jet Li's description of the love in his heart. He did exactly that.
For the sake of Li Zhi, he also missed the classic movie "Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon", the film was originally intended to invite Li Lianjie to act, but unfortunately Li Zhi happened to be pregnant during that time, and had to turn off the film in order to take care of his wife Jet Li.
Later, Jet Li mentioned this incident and said that he did not regret it, but at the same time, he also expressed his regret for missing this classic movie that has left a name in film history.
Regarding Jet Li's new relationship, which began not long after his divorce, public opinion at that time was embarrassed. The Hong Kong media even ridiculed it like this - "A thousand catties of love and righteousness are no match for four taels of chest".
Jet Li, who had learned from the past, didn't dare to easily get married again, but just fell in love with Li Zhi.
In this very tempting entertainment industry, the two actually fell in love for ten years, got married in 1999, and held a grand wedding in Los Angeles.
The father who started a new family soon had a daughter, which made Li Si's already small fatherly love even weaker. Childhood experiences affected the girl's entire life......
3. The original family brings a lifetime of shadows
The feelings between people are always formed slowly in the process of getting along.
Her father, who is related by blood, is always busy with his own new family and has been ignoring his own feelings and those of his sister. A complete family that is easy for others to get is a luxury for Li Si and his sister.
At the premiere of the 2020 movie "Mulan", Jet Li stood in front of the camera with a smile on his face, and his and Lizhi's two daughters stood next to him.
Later, on the show, he even revealed that he participated in the movie "Mulan" only because of his youngest daughter's words.
At that time, the youngest daughter didn't understand why her father was reluctant to act in "Mulan", she felt that it was very rare for Chinese culture to be promoted like this.
The first time the youngest daughter had such a request, not only did Jet Li not feel uncomfortable, but she was proud of her daughter who had her own ideas. In this way, Jet Li, who has not appeared on the big screen for a long time, took over the play.
Li Si and his sister, who have been raised by their grandparents since childhood, have not received this kind of treatment, and they have hardly seen Jet Li with their two daughters at various events.
But at movie premieres, public welfare fund training camp activities, and celebrity gatherings, Jet Li can be seen with his two daughters.
Over the years, in order to give Li Zhi a sense of security, Jet Li handed over all his income to Li Zhi for safekeeping, and prepared a huge dowry for his two daughters early.
Although he also gave tens of thousands of yuan in gift money and a car when his ex-wife remarried, these compensations and the love for Li Si and Li Taomi sisters are nothing compared to what his current wife Li Zhi receives.
may be the shadow of his parents' divorce, but now Li Si is 36 years old and still unmarried. Even if her mother took her to the United States and enjoyed the warmth of the family, she still couldn't heal the pain she once had.
Now Jet Li is 60 years old, in January this year, some netizens met Jet Li and his family who worshiped Buddha in a local temple in Nepal, and on April 17, another blogger popped out a photo of him watching agarwood and dzi in the art museum.
In these photos, it's not hard to see that the once-famous kung fu superstar has become very old, and I wonder if he will be ashamed and regretful when he thinks of his daughter now......
epilogue
In Li Si's childhood, father's love and mother's love were absent at the same time. A person's family of origin often affects a person's life, and the psychological wounds brought by the family are difficult to heal for a lifetime.
I hope that everyone will be cautious when facing major decisions in life, especially in marriage, and don't hurt themselves, each other, and their children.
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