1. When you grow up, you must learn to face the chaos calmly.
- Silence
2. If you are not honest about your feelings and what you need, then you will never be able to love others honestly.
——Qiu Miaojin, "Crocodile Notes"
3. When I use you, I think of you when I need you, this kind of person is the least worthy of help, and he should refuse decisively, and there is no need to feel guilty.
- Silence
4. When you love, you don't disappoint people, when you play, you don't disappoint the scenery, when you sleep, you don't disappoint the bed, and when you are alone, you don't disappoint yourself.
- Lu Sihao
5. Marriage, which is the spiritual death of any proud person, any independent person.
- Dostoevsky
6. No one's life will always be perfect, but always look ahead, full of hope will be invincible.
——巫哲《撒野》
7. It is becoming more and more clear that people are made by their environment.
- Silence
8. "Excessive hope naturally produces extreme disappointment. ”
- Borges
9. May the young people of China get rid of the cold air, just go up, and do not have to listen to the words of the self-defeating people. Those who can do things do things, and those who can speak up can speak up. If there is a point of heat, a point of light, it will make it like a firefly, or it can shine a little light in the dark, and there is no need to wait for the torch. After that, if there is no torch: I am the only light.
—— Lu Xun "Hot Wind".
10. We have never stopped moving forward and have never given up the pursuit - Wang Guozhen
11. He used to be young and frivolous and felt that he was fearless, but now he understands that only people who do not have any love in their hearts can be truly fearless, otherwise anyone can be weak and vulnerable.
- "Little Poplar"
12. When a woman loses interest in all real men, the only thing that leaves her hope is a man who doesn't exist at all.
- Calvino
13. "When you grow up, you must learn to face all kinds of wars and chaos calmly, and solve all kinds of difficulties ruthlessly." It's useless to be kind, it's useless to be soft-hearted, it's useless to cry, you have to be strong yourself. ”
——Yang Jiang
14. Once people have estrangement, it is really difficult to be as before.
- Silence
15. Man should not be a still life inserted in a vase for people to see, but a melody that spreads on the grassland and dances in the wind. Life is not an arrangement, but a pursuit, the meaning of life may never have an answer, but we must also enjoy this life without answers.
—Virginia Woolf
16. "You're just emotionally at a dead end, not in life." "
—— Yu Hua
17. It is precisely because life is most likely meaningless that it deserves to be lived better. What really matters is not how to live better, but how to experience it as much as possible.
- Camus, The Myth of Sisyphus
18. It is not worth wasting any emotion, not even angry, in a certain category of people. I established this as a principle: to save feelings.
- Zhou Guoping
19. Those who have achieved something in any field are long-termists, because they dare to enter the narrow door and are willing to go the long way.
- Walter Michel, "Delayed Gratification"
20. I often have that feeling that if this thing comes and you don't have the courage to solve it, it will definitely come again. Life is like this, it will make you do this homework again and again until you learn it.
- Liao Yimei
21. Life is so confused in the end, looking forward to spring, and failing it.
——Guo Moruo, "Bottle (Excerpt)".
22. When you're about to give up on your dreams, tell yourself to hold on for one more day, a week, a month, another year, and you'll find that the results of refusing to quit are amazing.
—Nick Hochul, Life Without Limits
23. People have two major obligations in the world, one is to be a good man, and the other is not to get used to other people's stinky problems.
——Wang Xiaobo
24. It's not a waste of life to spend two years figuring out something.
—Camus
25. If you don't eat from other people's meals, don't take other people's words too seriously.
- Su Qin
26. It is true that miracles happen to those who believe in miracles. It's true.
- Rigo
27. Time withers you and me. We would fall like ripe fruit and roll into the grass together. Dear friend, let me lie down beside you and watch the clouds until the earth covers us until we die.
—Janet Winterson, "Written on the Body."
28. All I spend my days pondering is how to maintain a free and playful life without having to work.
——Yataro Matsuura
29. I'm not afraid of storms because I'm learning to steer my boat.
—Alcott, Little Women
30. What outlook can I have on life? I sit here and wait to die. That's my outlook on life.
- Chekhov, "Ivanov".
31. Sweet chaos is needed, and it is hard to live in a world of light and shadow, where you can't tell what you have or what you lose, and you don't have to kill them all.
- Jian Yuan, "I Sprinkle Moonlight for You".
32. Be self-loving, and don't give your whole love, soul and strength generously as a gift and waste it where it is not needed and despised.
- Charlotte Brontë, Jane Eyre
33. Gradually became an adult who has something on his mind, but can't share it.
- Silence
34. People who work all day will not be able to make a fortune. Wealth is a reward for cognition, not for diligence.
- Rockefeller
35. When life is not satisfactory, it is a long vacation given by God, and this is the time to enjoy the holiday. When suddenly one day the holiday is over, the time comes to work, and life really begins. - "The Long Holiday".
36. There are two criteria for judging whether a thing should be done or not: first, you like and be happy when you do it, and you will not regret it after doing it. Second, you may not like and be happy when you do it, but you will regret it if you don't do it. These two standards are basically sufficient, and they are easy to grasp.
- Zhou Guoping
37. There is only one thing that fatigues: vacillation and indecision.
- Zweig
38. The only person you need to compare is:
Past self
The only person you should be better at
It's who you are now.
—Sigmund Freud
39. When people reach middle age, the best state is to undermatch your life and high-deserve your soul, age is just a symbol, adjust your life to your favorite channel, and every period of time hides an irreproducible beauty.
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