Many people, when they reach the age of fifty or sixty, ponder the pursuit of poetry and distant places, and also want to live in their favorite cities for a while.
Some elderly people live in the northeast in summer and feel the cool breeze, and in winter they go to Hainan to watch the sunrise and sunset, and the environment here is like spring. Several times a year, they migrate like migratory birds.
There are also some elderly people who have bought a house with a sea view, thinking about listening to the sound of the waves and feeling the sunlight pouring into the windowsill.
When we reach the age of seventy, we will find a fact that it is better to stay at home than to go out.
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It's better to be outside, but it's better to be at home.
As the saying goes: "A golden nest and a silver nest are not as good as your own kennel." ”
The above sentence illustrates several practical problems.
First, the elderly live in their children's homes, help with the baby, can do laundry and cooking, and the children are naturally very welcome. When the baby goes to school, the old man's legs and feet are not good, and he can't do housework, so he will be disliked.
It's better to live in your own cottage and live with your husband and wife.
Second, it is indeed difficult for the elderly to adapt to the outside environment after the age of 60. Verbal communication, integration into the environment, relationship handling of neighbors, living habits, etc., all directly cause the elderly to be very uncomfortable.
Third, people will always have the idea of returning to their roots. After many years outside, it is natural to miss home, and the emotions become stronger and stronger. He Zhizhang became an official until he was over 80 years old, and then insisted on returning to his hometown, writing the famous sentence "The young man who left home and the eldest returned, and the hometown accent did not change and the sideburns declined".
People are old, but the local accent is still there, listen to it, talk about it, and it is very kind.
For the elderly who are not in good health, they are familiar with all kinds of medical treatment in their hometown and can cope with it by themselves. When you get to a strange place, it's hard to cope.
The good of the family is in the bottom of my heart, and I can't say it clearly, and I can't say it completely.
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The scenery is picturesque, and it is tiresome to see more.
Tourism pension, this pension method, should be familiar to us.
Always on the road, accompanied by the scenery, and in the company of people who have the same hobbies. It's a very pleasant thing.
Ideas are very different from reality, and reality will defeat your ideas.
After the age of 70, it is not impossible to maintain a vigorous state. For most of the elderly, it is inevitable that they are unable to do it.
Things like driving, cycling, walking, and being in a hurry may be unbearable for the elderly.
If you suddenly get sick on the road, you will be in big trouble. It can even be life-threatening.
Someday, you'll find yourself unable to walk.
It's a big circle, and you have to go back to square one.
If you spend five or six years looking at countless landscapes, you will get bored in your heart. On the one hand, you feel that the scenery is similar, and on the other hand, your mentality of looking at the scenery has changed, and you no longer have the original enthusiasm, and you have begun to think about the retreat for the rest of your life.
There is a lyric that says well: "When the scenery is seen through, maybe you will accompany me to watch the long stream." ”
With people with affection and righteousness, the vegetable patch at the door is a scenic spot, and the window of the hut is the whole world when you open it.
The old couple lived in the old house and spent the rest of their lives slowly, and in each other's eyes, they were all landscapes.
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There are many people and cars on the street, and it is safest to be at home.
The elderly should consider how dangerous they are when they walk around, and how worried their children are.
The elderly who cannot return to the countryside have to stay in the city.
Perhaps, the old people will think that square dancing, walking, tai chi, and fishing in the suburbs are good days. But I don't know that where there are many people, there are also many dangers.
If the elderly go out alone, in a dark place, or in a strange place, they may lose themselves.
In some small alleys, after a few turns, people are confused.
On the "Yangtze Evening News Network", there is a message: Mr. Wang in Nanjing's Liuhe District brought his parents in their 70s to the city to enjoy happiness.
The mother decided on her own, pushing her father, who was in a wheelchair, out shopping.
After walking a few streets, my mother was very anxious because she couldn't find her way home.
Fortunately, the local police found out about the situation in time and then escorted the old man home.
The parents said that they looked at any road, they were all the same, and the surrounding communities were also the same, so they were anxious.
Mr. Wang said: "I thought I would have time to take them out for a walk and recognize the way, but today there was something temporary, but I didn't expect them to go out and get lost." ”
In addition, Mr. Wang is very busy at work, because his parents are lost, and he has lost a lot of time.
When the elderly go out less, they actually cause less trouble to their children and leave less trouble for themselves. Be sure to go out, and also call your children and explain it clearly in advance, and keep in touch along the way.
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The sky is cloudy and sunny, and bad days are less likely to go out.
As you get older, it becomes more difficult to cope with unusual weather.
High temperatures, cold, heavy rain, strong winds, snow and other weather, not to mention the elderly, even young men, have to weigh it.
It is a drizzly winter day, and you must be fully prepared to go out to avoid rain, and you have to prevent your body from being overwhelmed. The ground is slippery, what shoes to wear, think clearly.
I can't go far when I go out, I buy necessities such as groceries, and then I go home in time and don't linger outside.
Some elderly people want to make up the number when they encounter a happy event at the family of relatives and friends. Therefore, regardless of the weather conditions.
Think about it, because you go to a happy event and you get injured, or you have a cold and cough, then it will consume a lot of energy and money. It's better to have someone piggyback on a red envelope, and there is no need for people to be there.
For things like knocking around, it's even more important to reduce.
If the weather is bad, you are soaked, or you are dizzy, and when you go to someone else's house, others are also worried, and you may get into trouble.
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After the age of seventy, going out less and staying at home more will also lead to boredom.
Some elderly people use mobile phones and TV to kill time. Turn on the TV and make a loud noise to drive away loneliness. This is the wrong way to do it.
It is recommended that the elderly develop some hobbies and enjoy the lonely time.
Old couples can cook, clean, and discuss food together, and one can read a book, write down his experience, and make tea. But if you have a hobby and find a way to pass the time, a small family will also have fireworks.
Home is not only a house, but also the starting point of the teenager and the destination of the elderly.
Author: Cloth Clothes Coarse Food.
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The pictures in the article come from the Internet.