My name is Wang Xiaojuan, an ordinary college student. In my opinion, the word "privileged" has always filled me with yearning and curiosity. Because my family is not wealthy, but it is also passable. In college, I met a girl named Zhang Yue, who always showed a noble atmosphere in her dress, so I often wondered what her family was like.
It wasn't until one day that Zhang Yue took the initiative to invite me to her home as a guest, and I had the opportunity to get a glimpse of her family environment. The moment I entered her home, I couldn't help but envy the luxurious decoration and expensive furniture. Zhang Yue's parents treated me warmly and politely, which made me feel the warmth of home.
In talking with Zhang Yue's parents, I learned that they are the owners of a well-known company and have a good life, but they also have their own troubles and troubles. Zhang Yue's parents told me that what they care about most is not money, but the harmony of the family and the happiness of their children.
In the days I spent with Zhang Yue, I gradually discovered that although she lived a worry-free life, she often felt lonely and confused in her heart. Her expectations and pressures on her family make it impossible for her to truly enjoy life at times.
One day, we were walking around the campus together, and I suddenly had a question: "Zhang Yue, what do you think is the standard for a girl with a superior family?" Zhang Yue stopped, stared into the distance, and after a moment of silence, said softly: "Actually, the superiority of the family is not just the superficial material conditions, but more the love and companionship between family members. ”
When I heard this, I couldn't help but be moved. Perhaps, the real family superiority is not the mansion and the famous car, but the warmth and sincere emotion. And Zhang Yue, although she looks like she has a superior family background on the outside, she has her own loneliness and confusion in her heart.
Since then, I have gained a new understanding of the word "family privilege". It does not only refer to the external material conditions, but more importantly to the inner world. Perhaps, only by truly understanding this can we better judge whether a person's family is superior or not.