When people reach middle age, the greatest hope of parents is to hope that their children will start a family as soon as possible, form a new family, have children, and fulfill the wishes of their generation.
As the saying goes: ugly daughters-in-law always have to see their in-laws, when the relationship between men and women develops to a certain extent, it is also a matter of course to go home to see both parents.
Especially when the woman goes to the man's house, it is generally more grand, and the man's parents will attach great importance to it and prepare wine and food to entertain them, for fear of snubbing the other party and leaving a bad impression on the woman.
Recently, a girl followed her boyfriend home, and when she left, her boyfriend's father threw a big red envelope here, the girl was very surprised, thinking that it was money, so she quickly opened it to see, but she didn't expect that it was a piece of paper with "Male Secrets" written on it.
According to the girl's explanation, she and her boyfriend have been in love for more than a year, the relationship between the two is very good, and it has reached the point of talking about marriage.
After eating, when the two of them wanted to leave, her boyfriend's father casually threw a big red envelope into the car, which was engraved with a big double happiness word, and after the girl saw it, she quickly reached out and took it, and it was difficult to suppress the joy in her heart: This must be a big red envelope given to me by my uncle, and I don't know how much money it contains.
The girl opened the red envelope with joy, but she didn't expect that it was a piece of paper with dense words written on it, which was very neat and clear, and the title at the beginning turned out to be four big words: Male Secrets!
The girl was immediately stunned, glanced at it a few times, and found that what was written in it was to teach her how to give birth to a boy, which made her feel very speechless and embarrassed, and quickly threw it away after reading it.
The girl felt very depressed, her originally good mood was broken, and her impression of her boyfriend's family also changed a lot, and she even began to re-examine the relationship, whether she should continue or not.
After watching it, netizens were surprised and also felt funny, and they directly persuaded the girl: You will regret marrying in the past, so break up now.
It can be seen from the actions of his boyfriend's father that he is very patriarchal, backward in his ideology, and bent on wanting his eldest grandson, this son and daughter-in-law are not yet married, so he is looking forward to them having grandchildren, and if he gives birth to a granddaughter, he will definitely be unhappy.
What age is it now, and there is a patriarchal mentality, which is really terrifying.
This father-in-law even has to interfere with his son and daughter-in-law having children in the future, but it is conceivable that when the young couple get married and live, the in-laws interfere too much, and it is difficult to live happily.
Some netizens bluntly said: Hurry up and break up, no one will give birth to a boy in the future, and it is a bit disrespectful for my boyfriend's father to do this.
Some netizens said: According to scientific statistics, the birth of a boy or a girl seems to depend on the chromosomes of the man, and the man plays a decisive role.
In fact, giving birth to a boy or a girl is random, no one can predict, no matter what the purpose of the boyfriend's father, in short, his approach is inappropriate, and it has given the woman such pressure from the beginning, if the woman does not give birth to a boy after marriage, such a marriage is difficult to maintain.
On the contrary, in modern society, more and more young couples want to have a well-behaved and lovely girl, and now it is no longer the patriarchal era before, and the thinking of the older generation should be changed.
The boyfriend's father's approach is a little ridiculous, even a little ridiculous, and I hope he can realize his mistakes and not interfere too much in the married life of young people.