The truth about extramarital affairs: cheating men use mistresses more than feelings!
Why did the man cheat on the mistress? What kind of feelings did he have for the mistress.
Most of the showdowns between cheating men and their wives are half true and half false.
Wives who want to settle their extramarital affairs need to get out of the showdown with cheating men.
Extract useful information, and then analyze the real psychology of the cheating man and the mistress.
Only by prescribing the right medicine and taking the right path can we completely solve the extramarital affair.
Before, an original partner asked Jiaxin if the cheating man really loved the mistress.
The mistress of her husband's cheating is a woman her husband met in the workplace.
The two people are not in the same company, it is considered a cooperative relationship, and there is not much contact.
will develop into an extramarital affair, and the reason why the cheating man says is,
He made a mistake at work, and Xiao San helped, so he had a good impression,
The cheating man also said that with the presence and help of the mistress, he was able to get a quick promotion and a salary increase.
So he was reluctant to break up with Xiao San, and hoped that the original partner would leave this extramarital affair aside for the time being.
Because the mistress is married and has children, the cheating man said that the mistress will not divorce easily.
The conditions of the third husband are better, and the two of them can be regarded as having an emotional foundation.
Extramarital affairs should not affect the marital relationship, and can also bring benefits to the cheating man, and the original partner will also benefit.
Therefore, the cheating man believes that the original partner should choose to accept it, rather than destroying the extramarital affair.
Probably most men don't know, what is it that women can't accept?
Most women who are cheated on don't care so much about interests, but about emotions.
The original partner thinks that this cheating man has feelings for the mistress, which is what she can't accept.
Because the mistress gave the cheating man help, the cheating man developed feelings for the mistress.
Instead of just for the benefits brought by the mistress, the cheating man insisted on continuing the extramarital affair,
Compared with a man cheating for the sake of profit, the original partner couldn't accept it, and he changed his mind.
Jiaxin wants to persuade the original partners who were cheated that the cheating man may not have much sincerity towards the mistress.
If they really treat the junior, they won't emphasize the benefits brought by the junior.
said it was for love, but it was just to look good-looking, otherwise what would he be.
A man who sells himself for profit? His male self-esteem does not allow him to say that.
So in fact, the cheating man uses the mistress more than the emotion!
How to solve this extramarital affair?
In fact, compared to cheating men who cheat simply for love,
This kind of cheating man is more difficult to solve than love for the mistress.
Because the junior is more about representing interests, and the loss of the junior is the interest.
The original partner wanted to make the cheating man willingly break up with the junior,
Even if you want to clean up the relationship with the mistress, you must make the mistress a factor that is not conducive to cheating men.
There is still room for this extramarital affair to operate.
Because the junior has a husband, and the husband's conditions are very good, so good that the junior is reluctant to divorce.
This is a point that the original partner can take advantage of, so that the third husband's husband doubts the relationship between the third and the cheating man,
Most men are even more intolerant of cheating on their wives.
has the opportunity to take revenge on the man who greened himself, and the third husband will definitely not be soft.
So the cheating man will be retaliated against by the mistress's husband because of his relationship with the mistress,
The cheating man has paid a certain price, and it may be even more to continue the affair.
The cheating man will naturally completely break off the relationship with the mistress in order to protect himself.
In addition, it should be noted that if the original partner still wants to continue the marriage,
Don't go directly to the mistress's husband and let the cheating man know that you caused his loss.
Let the cheating man think that the mistress was accidentally exposed, which is more conducive to the original wife.
A cheating man who cares so much about his interests, if it is found that it is his wife who causes his interests to lose.
Even if he broke up with Xiao San, he was sorry for his wife for cheating before.
It is inevitable that there will also be resentment towards his wife, and the cheating man may cheat again.
So many things, not letting the cheating man know, are the most beneficial to the original wife.
The vast majority of extramarital affairs are actually not difficult to solve, and they can be resolved completely.
The reason why many original partners can't solve it is because they don't understand the psychology of cheating men and mistresses, and they don't understand these truths in extramarital affairs.
So I can't find a way that really suits me and can make the cheating man and the mistress completely break off the relationship.
In fact, as long as you understand the true psychology of the cheating man and the mistress.
Knowing that a cheating man has taken advantage of love with the mistress, interests are the preferred choice of cheating men.
As long as wives grasp the relationship of interests, they can make the cheating man continue to cheat and become a loss of interests.
The vast majority of cheating men will definitely choose to break off the relationship with Xiao San in order to protect their interests.
will even bite back on Xiao San, trying to protect his own interests.
There is no true feeling, and the cheating man is more used than the emotion for the mistress.
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I'm Jiaxin, a marriage defender who focuses on the separation of third parties.