01
After I decisively stopped my mother-in-law's 3,000 yuan living expenses, my husband, who has always been stupid and filial, not only did not object, but applauded.
The reason why my husband, a foolish and filial man, was forced to resist was nothing more than my mother-in-law carrying us behind our backs and leaving all the 2 houses to my brother-in-law.
My mother-in-law has been following us to support the elderly, and in order to reward her for her hard work, we also gave her an additional 3,000 yuan a month for living expenses. And the mother-in-law does not refuse to come to this money, and she will take as much as she wants.
It's just that we treat our mother-in-law with sincerity, but my mother-in-law always thinks about calculating our money to rob the rich and help the poor, and help her youngest son. Just because the youngest son gave birth to two sons in a row.
02
My husband and I got married and had children, and my mother-in-law had no other tricks than crying poor. The filial and soft-hearted husband was naturally reluctant to embarrass his mother-in-law, so he could only wronged me.
When my parents saw that I was wronged, they couldn't bear it, so they had to spend most of their savings to buy a dowry house for me, which avoided the misfortune of having to rent a house after I got married.
As soon as we got married, my mother-in-law completely let go of herself and no longer hid it. The brother-in-law got married, and the mother-in-law paid for the house. The younger brother-in-law gave birth to a child, and the mother-in-law paid for it to help raise it.
The brother-in-law and daughter-in-law said a word, and I and my husband said countless words. The brother-in-law and his wife have sweet mouths, and they always coax their mother-in-law around, and they are willing to contribute money and efforts for them.
03
After pulling up the two children, the mother-in-law became useless, and she was an eyesore no matter how she looked at it. The younger brother and daughter-in-law tried every possible way to get rid of her mother-in-law. As soon as my mother-in-law was driven away, she went straight to us.
Looking at my mother-in-law with a handful of snot and tears, my husband's heart became softer, urging me to arrange a room for my mother-in-law quickly. Looking at my mother-in-law who has been living for a long time, I dare not speak out.
Since then, my mother-in-law seems to have taken root in my house. Fortunately, although my mother-in-law is not leaving, she will still help us do some housework and take care of the children in a timely manner.
In view of this, my husband felt sorry for his mother again and persuaded me to give his mother 3,000 yuan a month for living expenses. After all, it was not easy for his mother to do these chores day after day.
04
I didn't want to give, my mother-in-law married my brother-in-law for 5 years, but my brother-in-law didn't pay a penny, but it was my mother-in-law who contributed money and efforts, and even my own old book was hollowed out.
However, my husband has been grinding hard and hard, and he promised that he would work overtime to earn more money, so that I would not be stingy with his mother, and I fulfilled my husband's filial piety.
However, some people regard other people's filial piety and kindness as donkey livers and lungs, which can be tossed and wasted.
In the 8th year of my family's residence, the demolition of my in-law's old house was divided into 2 houses and 500,000 yuan in demolition money.
My husband and I have been thinking for a long time that we only need the bigger house, and the slightly smaller house and 500,000 yuan will be left to the younger brother-in-law.
05
We also happily told our mother-in-law about this decision, but my mother-in-law calmly agreed, turned around and secretly gave all the 2 houses to my brother-in-law behind our backs, with 500,000 yuan for demolition.
After we found out the clues, the brother-in-law had already transferred the 2 houses to his own name, and the 500,000 yuan deposit was also used to change the car.
I found my mother-in-law's theory and asked my mother-in-law to tell me why. As a result, the mother-in-law said that the house was hers, the money was also hers, and she could give it to whomever she liked, and no one could care about it.
A look of hurt flashed in my husband's eyes, but it quickly disappeared. I asked my mother-in-law, why did you give all the 2 houses to my brother-in-law?
06
The mother-in-law said angrily, 2 houses are given to you, which is cheaper for outsiders. You have only one daughter, and sooner or later you will have to marry off. If you get married, won't the 2 houses be cheaper than the son-in-law of an outsider?
My mother-in-law was still puzzled and said, I persuaded you to continue to have a second child, so as to leave a queen for my eldest son, but you refused, and disliked me for meddling in my affairs and interfering with your reproductive freedom. Now that the house is divided and the money is divided, you don't blame me for being selfish. After all, family property has always been passed on to men rather than women.
I was so angry that my emotional mother-in-law was still patriarchal, and I resented that I hadn't given birth to a second son to my husband all these years.
My husband, who was listening, didn't react at first, but after hearing that my mother-in-law was biased towards his brother because she disliked us for having only one daughter, she became angry.
07
No matter how sweet the brother-in-law and daughter-in-law are, but the mother-in-law has a headache and brain fever, and she is sick and hospitalized, when is it not me and my husband who run up and down to take care of her?
I still want to continue the theory with my mother-in-law, but my mother-in-law waved her hand, anyway, my demolition house and demolition money, I can give it to whoever I like, you can't interfere. But raising children to prevent old age, sons must provide for their parents to die.
My mother-in-law didn't say that it was okay, but as soon as she said it, I was completely angry, and I directly stopped my mother-in-law's monthly living expenses of 3,000 yuan. For my decision, the foolish and filial husband clapped his hands for the first time.
Before I could even speak, my husband took the initiative to pack my mother-in-law's luggage and sent my mother-in-law back to my brother-in-law's house.
My mother-in-law has the right to decide who to give the demolition house and the demolition money, so I naturally also have the right to decide whether to take in my mother-in-law, after all, I am in charge of my dowry house.