01
Other people's uncles are eating and drinking, while my brother-in-law is eating, drinking, and playing.
Every holiday, my mother-in-law, brother-in-law and brother-in-law will stare at us, and as soon as we move, my mother-in-law will move with affection, and persuade my husband to bring her brother's family with her, saying that your brother's salary is low and the conditions are poor, how pitiful.
The foolish husband will be soft-hearted, and then persuade me to agree, saying that there are only two more tickets, and the two nephews and nieces are young, and they are not old enough to buy tickets, so it doesn't cost much.
For the first time, under my husband's soft grinding, I agreed, and the right should be to repay my mother-in-law for helping me take care of the children and do housework.
But who knows, as soon as I let go, there will be a second or third time. Every time I refused, my mother-in-law used it as an excuse for me to ask for money, and threw me 500 yuan lightly.
02
I have been married to my husband for 8 years, and I have been a free nanny for my in-laws for 5 years. When it comes to holidays, my mother-in-law especially likes to bring her brother-in-law's family to my house to eat, drink and live.
In the first two years of marriage, I was thin-skinned and embarrassed to refuse, so I let them come. It's just that after I had a child, my in-laws and brother-in-law's family were still so uninteresting, and I was a little annoyed.
Sometimes, after working so hard for so long, I think about taking my children back to my parents' house to spend time with my parents after a long vacation.
As a result, as soon as I told my parents about going back, my in-laws called me and said that they were already on my way to my house and asked me to prepare in advance.
03
At this moment, my husband would persuade me to cancel the trip back to my parents' house, saying that his parents, brother and family were on the way, and I deliberately hid back to my parents' house and did not receive guests, which was a bit unreasonable.
Although I was very annoyed, I thought that what my husband said made sense, so I canceled the trip back to my parents' house. But after my in-laws came with my brother-in-law's family, I regretted that I had made a wrong decision.
As soon as my mother-in-law arrived, she began to point out to me that I would arrange a room for them, arrange food and drink, arrange play, and specially explain what dishes my two nephews like, what toys and snacks they like.
The mother-in-law made a series of requests, and the brother-in-law and brother-in-law stood beside them, laughing and silent, as if they had already acquiesced to all the requests made by the mother-in-law.
04
I was a little aggrieved and wanted to complain to my husband, but my husband said, isn't it just some food and toys for the two children, which don't cost much, so I don't want to be so picky and stingy.
My husband has taken care of everything, and I can't drag him back, so I can only use all my strength to entertain my in-laws and brother-in-law's family. It's just that there are many people and there are many requirements, but I am the only one who cooks and serves a large family.
The mother-in-law said that she was old, her legs and feet were not good, and her eyes were not good, so she didn't go to grab the spoon with her daughter-in-law. And the younger brother and daughter-in-law also jumped out and said that their cooking skills were poor and they couldn't get on the table.
Speaking of which, in the end, it is my job to cook, cook and stir-fry, and even clean up a large table of leftovers after eating. After eating, my mother-in-law's family dispersed in a hurry, playing with mobile phones, chatting and watching TV, chatting and watching TV, and no one shared one or two for me.
05
When the in-laws came to the house, it didn't matter if it took some money and manpower to eat and drink, after all, it was still within their own ability. Who knows, but the mother-in-law said that during the long vacation, it is not a matter to always keep the children at home, so she asked to check in the major scenic spots.
But when a family goes out, not only transportation expenses, food expenses, but even tickets are a big expense. However, the two sons of my brother and daughter-in-law, as if they had never been far away, liked everything they saw and wanted to go in when they saw everything, so that we must enter every scenic spot and eat local specialties.
It's okay to enter the scenic spot and eat special products, after all, playing, is nothing more than these activities. However, every time it came to the link of paying money, the uncle and his wife began to play disappearing and urinating.
When my husband and I finished paying, they started to show up again, and they pretended to say that they would make up the money when they went back, and they couldn't let us break the bank. But I said it a few times, but until they left my house, they didn't make up a penny.
06
I have been eaten and drunk by my brother-in-law's family many times like this, and I am a little impatient. After all, our money is not blown by the wind, and once the in-laws and uncles' family come, we have to bleed 30,000 yuan to start. If the mother-in-law brings some special products or souvenirs, the expenses will rise even more sharply
Seeing that it was about to be May Day again, my mother-in-law called again early and asked me to arrange the trip. And my brother and daughter-in-law also sent me the attractions they had planned to go to for a long time, and told me to buy tickets online in advance, and it would be a lot cheaper for a large family.
Looking at the links and pictures sent by my brother and daughter-in-law, I deleted them without hesitation. Two days later, my brother and daughter-in-law sent again: "Sister-in-law, have you booked the tickets? ”
I replied coldly, I have to go back to my parents' house during the holidays, you can do it yourself. As soon as I saw my reply, my brother and daughter-in-law were so anxious that they immediately called me: "Sister-in-law, haven't you said it all, let's go to your house for the festival together, how can you take the child back to your parents' house, then who will serve us as a family?"
07
Seeing my refusal, my brother and daughter-in-law still pretended not to know, and I might as well say straight to the point, you can serve whoever you like, and I have no obligation to serve you. Big deal, I'll leave my husband behind to serve you.
My brother and daughter-in-law hung up the phone angrily, and then my mother-in-law's call came again, but I refused to listen. Anyway, my mother-in-law said those words back and forth, which was nothing more than to make me feel wronged, the family finally had a holiday, so we had to get together and contact the feelings.
My husband also wanted to persuade me to stay, saying that if you leave, who will serve me and the whole family?
I don't care if my husband can handle it or not, I have already made it clear that I will no longer receive my in-laws and uncles' family, but my husband just doesn't listen to persuasion, and insists on taking care of everything and being a filial son, so he will stay by himself and serve his parents and brother's family well.