When you're single.
Many girls have dreams and pursuits.
They fought their way through the road.
I hope that one day, I will be able to hold up half the sky.
But when everyone met love.
From this time on, many women will leave their dreams behind and willingly revolve around a man.
I have to admit that women will pay a lot for love.
Over time, their independent side will be gone, and even many women will become unassertive.
Women have no opinions, there will be 4 performances, such a girl is easy to lose herself.
01
Indecision, difficult to make decisions
When you're alone.
Many women have a resolute side.
But love can change a woman.
When women become unassertive, they are often hesitant and find it difficult to make decisions quickly.
Weigh the pros and cons repeatedly and consider the possibilities.
But such a woman is still unable to determine her position in the end.
This kind of performance is mostly due to their fear of the unknown, or doubts about their own abilities.
In a team, this hesitation can lead to a delay in the progress of the project and even affect the overall efficiency of the team.
In love, if a woman has no assertiveness, she is easy to be underestimated by men.
02
Strong dependence and lack of independence
There is no assertiveness.
What will become of a woman?
Often, they show strong dependence.
For example, they habitually seek the opinions and suggestions of others and lack the ability to think independently.
When faced with a problem.
They may ask others directly for their opinions, rather than trying to figure it out on their own.
This kind of dependence not only deprives them of opportunities to grow, but also may put women in a passive position in interpersonal relationships.
Especially in romantic relationships.
When a woman is not assertive, she will be overly dependent on her partner, lose herself, and even lead to an unbalanced relationship.
03
Without self-confidence, it is susceptible
A woman who has no opinions.
They lack confidence in themselves.
Even if you're right.
If there is no assertiveness, women will also be skeptical of their own opinions.
They are susceptible and influenced by the opinions of others.
Even change their position in order to cater to others.
In public, such a woman will not dare to express her opinion because she is afraid of the evaluation of others.
Actually, when getting along with a lover.
A woman who lacks assertiveness will also become very humble and unable to grasp the love of men.
04
Lack of responsibility and evasion of responsibility
In the face of problems.
If a woman, there is no opinion.
Then she may have the idea of fear.
Under the domination of this subconscious, women will show an attitude of evading responsibility.
This evasion of responsibility can lead to a crisis of trust, affect a woman's reputation, and bring them a bad influence.
In the same way, in love.
Women are not assertive and will also have evasive behaviors that will affect how men perceive her.
Regardless of single.
Still, I met a man worth loving.
Women should be aware of the importance of independence and assertiveness, and not lose themselves.
If you are a woman who lacks assertiveness.
Then everyone, you might as well use these methods to enhance your personal opinions and become an attractive woman.
First, increase self-confidence and believe in your own abilities and values.
Second, develop the ability to think independently, learn to analyze problems, weigh pros and cons, and make decisions.
Third, learn to take responsibility and have the courage to face challenges and difficulties.
Fourth, learn to listen to and respect the opinions of others, but also to stand up for your own positions and opinions.
Through continuous effort and practice. A woman can become independent or assertive. And such a woman will also meet a better self.