When the old man falls, should we step forward and help him up? This was not a problem, but now it has become a serious problem that must be faced.
Because there are always some people with malice in their hearts, they still want to slander each other for the outstretched hands, so that now when we face the old man who has fallen, we are not brave to step forward, but hesitate. Because no one wants to do good and bring unforeseen consequences to themselves.
No, two things that have happened in recent days are a good illustration of this.
On April 28, a young woman on the streets of Beijing chose to wait and see instead of come forward to help her when she faced her aunt who had fallen.
An aunt wearing a yellow top and a blue hat fell down on the road. The streets were full of people, and no one stopped to look at her, and the aunt fell to the ground.
When a girl passed by, she felt that the old man was pitiful, so she stopped to inquire. Although the girl stopped, she still did not step forward to help the aunt, but only offered to call the old man 120.
Although the aunt asked the girl to help her, and she would never lie to her, the girl still did not stretch out her hand, just stood like that—even if the old man said, "You help, it's okay", she still chose to watch.
Fortunately, this time, the old man didn't fall hard, and she finally dragged the road by herself and stood up with the tree.
Is it because the girl is ruthless? Is it the girl who is indifferent? No, but because there are too many cases like this, and the blow to people is too great, so that when we face such a situation, there is no better solution than to retreat.
As one netizen said: "I understand the woman's worries very much." We have a "four non-harm" principle in enterprise safety production: do not hurt yourself, do not hurt others, do not be hurt by others, and protect others from harm. At the top of the list is not to hurt yourself. In the same way, we are willing to help others, but on the premise of protecting ourselves, otherwise we should not act rashly, which may put ourselves in danger. ”
Everyone has a heart for goodness, and it is a personal choice to do good or not to do good. When doing good deeds may drag you into danger and bring harm to yourself, everyone will choose to protect themselves first.
A scene that took place on the streets of Chengdu on April 29. It was a sunny day. An elderly man fell down on a busy street, and a young man passing by got out of the car to help the old man. To his surprise, the old man accused the young man of knocking him down and demanded that he pay for it.
The young man looked confused, he just saw the old man fall, and he couldn't bear it, so he wanted to help the old man, which could also be falsely accused. He explained to the old man what had happened, but the old man did not listen at all, and shouted loudly that the young man had fallen on him and wanted to escape.
Passers-by stood up one after another, especially those uncles and aunts, who all accused the old man of being wrong - the young man and the old man were about five meters apart at the time of the incident, and they only stepped forward to help after seeing the old man fall. But the old man just admits death, and he can't listen to everyone's words at all, so he just drags the young man and doesn't let go.
In this crowded street, there are so many people, and there are cameras everywhere, and some pedestrians have suggested calling the police to deal with it - there are cameras, what is the problem that can't be seen clearly?
As soon as the police intervened, everything became clear, and things were just as the witnesses said, and the old man was eventually taken away by the police.
Respecting the old and loving the young has always been the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, but in modern society, with the increase of economic pressure and social conflicts, people have become cautious and even choose to avoid it when they "can't help". This has made many people feel that society seems to be gradually losing its love for the weak.
We all know that we must have a good heart and should do our best to help those who are in trouble. However, there are always some people in this society who are psychologically dark, which casts a layer of gloom on the joy of helping others.
Faced with the problem of whether to help or not, the author believes that the best way is to severely punish the blackmailers, let them know the pain, and they cannot and dare not do such illegal things. Can we impose heavy penalties on them? Or can we directly detain them criminally? And publish the results directly on the Internet to make an example? And how much deterrent can the current education be to say to the fox not to eat meat?
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