"My name is Zhang Xiaohong, I am 28 years old this year, and I am an ordinary housewife. Since marrying Xiao Ming, the only son of the Zhang family, I moved to this small county town and started living with my in-laws. "
"At that time, the old couple were still alive, and the younger couple were also young and strong, and everyone was happy and prosperous. But just last year, my father-in-law passed away suddenly, and the atmosphere in the family began to tense. "
My mother-in-law often said to me with a cold face: "Your daughter-in-law is just not angry, and she hasn't even given birth to a son." "Xiao Ming is often influenced by her and dictates to me.
Once, while I was cooking in the kitchen, my mother-in-law began to count me down again: "You are a white-eyed wolf, eating white food." Xiao Ming didn't dissuade me next to me, I really couldn't stand it, and tears came out of my eyes.
"If it weren't for your father's sake, I would have kicked you out a long time ago!" My mother-in-law's words hit me like a heavy blow. Xiao Ming didn't even say a fair word for me, I think he was completely influenced by his mother-in-law.
In this way, I began to run back to my parents' house often to avoid right and wrong. My mother's family saw that I was depressed and didn't talk much, after all, they also knew that my life at my in-law's house was not easy.
"Xiaohong, you can come back and stay for a few days and have a good rest. When my mother saw me crying again, she could only comfort me softly.
But within a few days, the mother-in-law called, and she was violent: "Your daughter-in-law just has no interest, and she can't stand it if she is not at home for a few days? If you dare to run back to your parents' house again, don't come back!"
I clutched the microphone and tears welled up in my eyes again. Xiao Ming didn't explain to me on the side, looking at me with a little reproach and disappointment in his eyes.
"A daughter-in-law is a daughter-in-law, and if she has married a family, she is a member of our Zhang family, how can she be so unproductive, and she wants to evade responsibility before she even gives birth to a son?" My mother-in-law's words hit me like a punch.
I choked up and said, "Mother-in-law, I have tried my best, but there is no child fate in my life." "
"That's yours or not, don't quibble here!" The mother-in-law scolded sharply.
Listening to my mother-in-law's reprimand, my heart was mixed. Ever since I married into this family, I have been trying my best to serve my in-laws, but why do I always get looked down upon? Is it because I haven't had any offspring? I've really worked hard, but God just hasn't given me this fate.
I looked at Xiao Ming's cold eyes, and my heart was very hurt. We are very affectionate, but since my father died, he seems to have been completely influenced by his mother-in-law, and he has become more and more cold to me. I really love this home.
"What's the matter, marrying into our Zhang family is the Zhang family, how can you be so unproductive?" The mother-in-law slapped the table hard, full of anger in her heart.
She thinks that her daughter-in-law is a white-eyed wolf, the master of soft rice, and she has never given birth to a child since she got married, so she is simply a drag bottle. If it weren't for her son's face, she would have swept this unproductive daughter-in-law out of the house a long time ago.
Xiao Ming was also nervous in his heart. He knew that his wife had done her best, but her mother-in-law's rebuke had stabbed her like a sharp sword. He wanted to explain to his wife, but he didn't dare to offend his irascible mother-in-law.
"Daughter-in-law, if you dare to flee back to your parents' house again, don't come back!" The mother-in-law scolded fiercely, and her words were fierce.
I lowered my head, tears welling up in my eyes, but I gritted my teeth and replied, "Okay, mother-in-law." "
Seeing this, Xiao Ming could only sigh and did not relieve me. I looked at him and was disappointed.
"Your daughter-in-law is a sinner, and she has harmed my son! If it weren't for you, my son would have had a lovely grandchild." "
"Nonsense! You're a broom star, you can't even give birth to offspring!" The mother-in-law said angrily.
"Daughter-in-law, listen to me, if you dare to flee back to your parents' house again, give me a divorce! My son is still young, and he can marry a new daughter-in-law who can have children!" My mother-in-law's words hit my heart like a hammer.
"Okay, mother-in-law. I lowered my head, tears welled up in my eyes, and I choked up.
At that moment, my heart was at war. Should I leave this home, fly away, and live my own life? Or should I continue to endure and wait for a miracle to happen? My heart was confused.
I looked at Xiao Ming's indifferent eyes and made up my mind. I can't be shamed by them like this, I'm still young, my life shouldn't stop there!
"Xiao Ming, let's get a divorce. I took a deep breath and uttered these unspeakable words.
Xiao Ming and his mother-in-law were both taken aback by my decision and looked at each other. They never imagined that I, the daughter-in-law they regarded as a drag bottle, would make such a decisive choice.
"Yes, mother-in-law, I want to divorce Xiao Ming. I know you've always looked down on me and thought I was a scourge, so I'll leave this house. I said firmly.
"But you all look down on me! I can't stand this anymore!" I cried out.
In this way, the contradiction between the three of us finally ushered in a turning point.
My resolute remarks surprised my mother-in-law and Xiao Ming. They never thought that I, the daughter-in-law they regarded as a drag bottle, would make the decision to divorce.
"Xiaohong, don't be impulsive. "Xiao Ming tried to dissuade me.
"Yes, don't bite a lion for your daughter-in-law, what way out do you have in the future after divorce?" The mother-in-law's tone was a little flustered.
I looked at them with a determined look in my eyes: "I've made up my mind." Mother-in-law, you have always looked down on me, and Xiao Ming has also been influenced by you and has become more and more cold to me. I know that you want your son to marry a new daughter-in-law who is destined to have children, so I will leave this family and live my own life. "
When I said this, my heart ached. I truly love this family, but they always hurt me and look down on me. I've tried my best, but I can't get into their eyes.
Xiao Ming and his mother-in-law looked at each other and were speechless for a while. They never thought I would be so determined. Xiao Ming's eyes were a little guilty and helpless, while her mother-in-law was shocked and flustered.
Life is short for decades, and we should cherish each other instead of hurting and resentful. The essence of marriage is to love, know, accompany and stay together. Without these, no matter how good the marriage is, it will slowly wear out.
I made up my mind to leave this home, not because I didn't love them, but because I loved myself more. I want to live the life I want to live without being looked down upon and hurt by others. This decision may be the opportunity for fate to give me a new life.
In this way, I left the small county town and came to the big city to work hard. Although a person's life is hard, he is also free. I don't have to be ridiculed anymore, and I don't have to be wronged to pander to others.
Sometimes, I also think about the old days. Xiao Ming's indifferent face and her mother-in-law's harsh rebuke all made me hurt. But now, I feel like I've been reborn, and my life is in my own hands.
After leaving that home, I found a job and lived a stable life. Occasionally, I think about marriage. Perhaps, I will meet someone who truly loves me again, and we love and know each other, support each other, and spend our lives together.
However, no matter what, I will not allow myself to be hurt and underestimated again. I've learned to be independent and strong, I've learned to live for myself. Even if I start a new family in the future, I will definitely defend my dignity and happiness.
Marriage is the crystallization of love, but it should not be a cage either. If you blindly compromise and wronged yourself, your marriage will become an endless pain. I left that home to get rid of the hurt of others and to find a new way out for myself.
Life is short for decades, and we should pursue happiness and freedom, rather than being bound by the prejudices and prejudices of others. I left to start a new life and a perfect end to that marriage.
From now on, I will regain my self-confidence and pursue happiness. The essence of marriage is mutual respect and love, and if these are missing, even the best marriage will slowly wear out. I will learn to love myself, and I hope to be able to love and know others in the future, and spend my life together.
After Xiaohong left, I fell into deep self-blame and guilt. I truly loved her, but I was blinded by my mother's prejudice and hurt the person I loved the most.
"Son, you're so confused!" When my mother saw that I was depressed day and night, she realized her mistake.
"Yes, Mom, I listened to you so much that I broke Xiaohong's heart. I remorseful, "If I had stood up for her and said justice, she wouldn't have left me." "
The mother sighed: "It's all my fault, I'm too stubborn and I've led you astray." Xiaohong is a good girl, and we look down on her so much. "
I nodded, my eyes darkened. If I could do it all over again, I would definitely choose to protect Xiaohong instead of standing idly by.
After leaving the small county, I came to the big city to work hard. It was a tough start, but I never regretted my decision to leave.
Sometimes, I think of the old days. Xiao Ming's indifferent face and my mother-in-law's harsh words all made me hurt. But now, I've finally regained my life, and my life is in my own hands.
I began to love this independent and free life, and I also regained my self-confidence. I yearn for a truly happy marriage, one that loves and knows each other and respects each other. If I meet the right person again in the future, I will definitely grasp the fate.
After the divorce, I gradually began to reflect on what I had done. Xiaohong is such a good woman, but I was blinded by my mother's prejudices and broke her heart.
I began to pay attention to the couples around me and found that they were both considerate and tolerant of each other. But between me and Xiaohong, there has never been such a mode of getting along, and our marriage relationship has always been unilaterally suppressed and hurt.
I began to hate my former self, how indifferent I treated Xiaohong, ignoring her efforts and efforts. If I could do it all over again, I would definitely choose to protect her rather than listen to my mother's prejudices.
Until one day, I made up my mind that I would pay for my mistakes. I began to prepare to separate from my mother and live an independent life to atone for my sins.
"Son, are you leaving your mother's house?" Watching me pack my bags, my mother asked crying.
I nodded: "Yes Mom, I'm leaving and living an independent life." "
"But, what will you do in the future if you leave your mother's house like this?" Mother said bitterly.
I looked at her and said seriously: "Mom, I left to atone for my harm to Xiaohong." Back then, I was blinded by your prejudices, which broke Xiaohong's heart. If it weren't for my hesitation and indifference, she wouldn't have left us mother and son. "
The mother lowered her head and wept silently. Yes, she was so stubborn back then that she led her son astray. If she could understand and tolerate Xiaohong, maybe everything would not have led to today's situation.
"Okay son, take care of yourself. The mother finally relented, "I will reflect on it, and I hope you can live happily too." "
I nodded, leaving tears in my eyes. Leaving her mother's home is to atone for your sins and start a new life.
In this way, I left the small county town and came to the big city. It was a tough time at first, but I never regretted my decision.
I found a job that didn't pay much, but it was enough to make ends meet. Outside of work, I am also learning new skills and hope to develop better in the future.
Sometimes, I also think of the bits and pieces of the past with Xiaohong. If I had stood up for her and said something fair, maybe she wouldn't have left me. But now, everything is doomed from the point of no return.
I began to reflect on the true meaning of marriage, the kind of marriage that loves and understands each other is happy. If I meet the right person again in the future, I will definitely cherish it and never repeat the mistakes of the past.
Life is like this, sometimes we lose something, we know how to cherish it. I lost Xiaohong, and only then did I begin to reflect on my mistakes and start to pursue a new happy life.
Perhaps, this is a chance that fate gave me. From now on, I will learn to be independent and strong, and I will also learn how to cherish the people around me. The essence of marriage is mutual love and respect, and I will definitely keep this in mind.