My family is not wealthy, but they are quite decent. Dad works as a manager in a company, and although the salary is not high, it is enough to support the daily expenses of our family. Mom is a traditional housewife who is attentive and considerate and keeps the house in good order. My name is Zhang Xiaoming, I am 18 years old this year, and I am preparing for the college entrance examination. Our family of three had a good time and got along well, and there were occasional small conflicts, but they were all commonplace.
My father, Mr. Zhang, is 45 years old, not tall but athletic, with a kind smile on his face. He is honest and hardworking, hard working, and very good to his family. Mother Aunt Wang is 38 years old, good-looking, gentle and virtuous, and is a standard good wife and mother. She takes care of the housework, manages the family, and dedicates all her love to this family.
My relationship with my parents has always been very good. When I was a child, my mother always took care of me and taught me how to behave in the world. Although my father is strict, he is also 100% supportive and loving to me. They loved me in their own way, and I loved them deeply.
One day, my mother said to me with a solemn expression: "Xiao Ming, you are about to take the university entrance examination, and we have to plan for your future." "
"yes, Mom, do you have any ideas?" I asked.
"I think it's important to have your own house. Mom said, "When you work in the future, you can settle down on your own and don't have to rent a house." "
I was stunned for a moment, I didn't expect my mother to say that. Although it is good to have our own house, I feel that it is still a bit of a luxury and out of reach for us at the moment.
At this time, the father interjected: "However, the cost of buying a house for the child is not small." Besides, Xiao Ming will work and make money in the future, wouldn't it be better to buy a house by himself?"
"Didn't you rely on the help of your parents to get the house we have now?" Mom retorted, "We should lay the foundation for Xiao Ming. "
Dad frowned, obviously disagreeing on this. "That was what the older generation did, and now the social conditions are completely different. He said, "We should teach Xiao Ming to be self-reliant, rather than pampering him." "
I listened quietly and felt the differences between my parents. Mom insisted on buying a house for me, and Dad didn't feel the need for it. They argued over the issue, and the atmosphere became more and more tense.
"You're just too conservative, you don't think about your son at all!" Mom's voice was a little astringent.
"Of course I'm doing it for his good, I just don't want to spoil him!" Dad was also a little angry.
I knew it was just a small friction between the family, but I still felt a little uneasy. I don't want my parents to have a rift in my relationship because of what happened.
In the days that followed, my mother became more and more obsessed with the idea of buying a house for me. She began to search for listings online and inquire about housing prices. Sometimes they even drag me to see the property.
"Mom, what are you doing in such a hurry? I still have a few years before I can work. "Whenever this happens, I say helplessly.
"The opportunity is fleeting, and we have to seize it. Mom would say categorically, "When you get to work, the house price will definitely be higher." "
I could see that my mother was kind-hearted, but I couldn't help but be a little frightened by her determination. She used to be docile and virtuous, but now she has become stubborn, and it seems that she really cares about it.
At the same time, Dad stood his ground. Whenever my mother mentioned buying a house, he would shake his head against it.
"We have limited income, and buying a house is a big expense. Dad said, "It's better to keep the money and use it as Xiao Ming's start-up capital in the future." "
"What can you do with that money? Buying a house is the smart thing to do. My mother was very upset when she heard this.
At the center of this controversy, I was torn apart.
On the one hand, I understand my mother's kindness, she is thinking about my future. But on the other hand, I didn't want to burden my dad too much. Again, do I really need a house myself?
Sometimes, I would say to my dad in private, "Dad, don't be too embarrassed Mommy, she has good intentions." "
The father would reply, "Son, you have to learn to be independent, and you can't always rely on your parents." When it comes to buying a house, it's up to you. "
I was caught in a dilemma. Of course, I want my parents to get along, but at the same time, I want them to put aside their preconceptions and understand each other. However, both sides were resolute, and there was nothing I could do. I can only pray to myself that this dispute will stop soon.
Otherwise, our relationship will only grow more and more strained, and eventually tear apart. In that case, our happy little family would be shattered, and I would be burdened with a lifetime of guilt and pain.
One day, my mother suddenly said to me, "Xiao Ming, I have decided, I will buy you a house no matter what." "
"I know what your dad thinks. Mom interrupted me, "But it's a matter of our mother and son, and it has nothing to do with him." I have my own way of raising money. "
As she spoke, her mother pulled out a passbook on which she had saved over the years. I was taken aback, although the amount is not astronomical, but for a housewife, it is quite considerable. It turns out that my mother has been secretly trying to save money just to buy me a house in the future!
When Dad learned of Mom's decision, he was shocked.
"Are you crazy?" Dad snapped, "That's all your savings over the years!
"This is for Xiao Ming's future. Mom said firmly, "If you don't want to help, I'll have to come by myself." "
Dad's face was gloomy, and he seemed to be completely shocked by Mom's determination. I've never seen my parents so tense. A sense of foreboding arose.
"Then let's get a divorce!" Dad suddenly yelled, "You insist on this, we don't have a common language anymore!"
"Divorce is divorce!" Mom's eyes were also red, "Anyway, I'm going to buy a house for Xiao Ming, you love me!"
In the midst of my parents' quarrels, I felt more disappointed than ever.
I was disappointed in my mother's willfulness, and she insisted on investing all her savings in buying a house, despite my father's opposition. I knew she had good intentions, but it was too impulsive.
What disappointed me the most was the gap between my parents. They were originally a loving husband and wife, but now they have such a serious disagreement over such an issue, and even talk about divorce! I am saddened to realize that if this contradiction is not resolved in time, it will only plunge the family into a greater crisis.
I began to regret why I asked to buy a house in the first place, because I gave my mother the wrong hint that led to what I am now. My guilt, self-blame, and helplessness were intertwined, and I was almost crushed by the weight of my emotions.
Seeing the growing threat of my parents' divorce, I could no longer sit idly by. I decided to take the initiative to stop this family crisis from escalating. Otherwise, this happy home will be completely shattered. I can't tolerate something like this!
Seeing my parents arguing so far, I finally couldn't bear it anymore and decided to take the initiative to stop this family crisis.
"Dad, Mom, stop arguing!" I shouted, "It's me who asked to buy a house, why are you so noisy about this kind of thing that you want to divorce?"
"No, that's my business!" I interrupted my mother, "The reason for your quarrel is entirely because of me. How can I sit idly by and watch your relationship break up?"
"But Dad, you're too stubborn about Mommy's decision, aren't you?" I looked at my dad and said sincerely, "Mom has a good heart, why can't you respect her heart?"
There was a moment of silence in the room. My parents seemed to be awakened by my words, and they both looked confused and guilty.
Seeing that my parents finally showed signs of understanding the happy knot, I was secretly glad and decided to keep up the good work.
"Mom and Dad, you see, how terrible and irrational it is to quarrel and want to divorce for a trivial matter?" I continued, "We are a family, so we should love each other and understand each other. "
Dad nodded, as if moved by my words. "You're right, Ming. The reason why we quarreled to this point was because we were both too stubborn and didn't empathize with each other's positions. "
"But what about buying a house?" Mom still asked worriedly, "I really mean it's good for you, Xiao Ming." "
I walked up to my mom and patted her on the shoulder. "Mom, I know your kindness. But have you ever wondered if I really need a house? In today's society, renting and buying a house are optional. "
"And even if I do need to buy a house in the future, it should be my own business. I said firmly, "You and Dad have done so much for me, and I don't want to burden you any more." "
My mother was moved by my words, and tears welled up in her eyes. "Xiao Ming, you have grown so big, I still treat you as a child. "
Dad also came over and hugged me and Mom. "Yes, our son is already able to take charge on his own. From now on, his life will be up to him. "
I was moved to lie in the arms of my parents, and my heart was extremely relieved. The original tense family crisis was solved with my persuasion. I know that our family's relationship will never break down so easily.
Since then, there has never been such a violent argument between the parents. They learn to be considerate of each other and respect each other's ideas.
My mother saved the savings that she was going to use to buy me a house, and she planned to use it as my start-up capital in the future. Dad also promised that if I did need to buy a house in the future, he would give his full support.
As for myself, I cherish this warm family even more. I know that no matter where I go in the future, this home will be my solid back. With the love of my parents and the support of my family, I have infinite strength and courage to pursue my ideals.
When the college entrance examination came, I got a good score as usual and was admitted to a good university.
On the day I said goodbye to my parents, I stared at their faces for a long time, and my heart was full of mixed feelings. It was their earnest teachings and their unwavering perseverance that brought me up to where I am today. And I'm finally grown up, and it's time to embark on a broader path in life.
"Mom and Dad, thank you for your continued love for me. I said, "I'll try to be a good boy who lives up to your expectations." "
My parents nodded with tears in their eyes, and in their eyes, I saw endless love and blessings.
Yes, I have the best parents in the world, and I will cherish them with my own actions. With the support of my family, I am confident about my future life. I will definitely use my own hands to create a new world!