1. The status quo of celibacy and self-reliance
In a corner of Hong Kong's bustling city, the independent and strong Wong Sin Mei lives alone but firmly in her own bachelor apartment. Although her life seems somewhat simple, it is full of rustic and fulfilling satisfaction.
At this time, she leaned against the floor-to-ceiling glass window of the balcony, quietly stroking the three pet dogs accompanying her, her eyes revealing deep love and care.
At this moment, she seems to have temporarily alleviated the loneliness deep in her heart through close contact with her pets. However, her fleeting loss of consciousness reveals that deep down she is reminiscing about the good times of the past.
As a well-respected veteran host, Huang Xinmei's career suffered a heavy blow after her sister Huang Xinying's "safe food" scandal was exposed, and her annual income is now only one-third of what it was before the incident.
However, since she was a child, she has been well versed in the way of thrifty housekeeping, and she is quite satisfied with her current income situation, which is enough to meet the needs of daily life.
Huang Xinmei silently devoted herself to the work at hand alone, seemingly unfazed on the surface, but it was difficult to hide the faint sadness in her eyes. The friends around her have already entered the marriage hall, and she is still alone at the age of 38.
However, she soon adjusted her mentality, returned to her usual calm and calm look, and devoted herself to her work.
2. Review of the relationship
Huang Xinmei once again fell into the sweet memories of her love affair with the wealthy Ma Guifeng. It was supposed to be a happy marriage, and she tried her best to take care of it, but it ended regrettably because of her sister Huang Xinying's "stealing food" scandal, which is really regrettable.
Back then, when Ma Guifeng first met Huang Xinmei, he was attracted by her unique temperament that is capable and neat and feminine. Although there is a 10-year age gap between them, it is not a problem for Ma Guifeng.
The Ma family was not optimistic about this relationship at first, because Huang Xinmei came from an ordinary family and was far from the status of the Ma family. However, Ma Guifeng's firm determination and deep affection for Huang Xinmei made the Ma family irresistible, and they could only regard it as a "love test" in their son's growth.
Huang Xinmei is 100% satisfied with this gentle and successful boyfriend. Their love story was low-key and heartwarming, and it was not until more than half a year later that it was carefully announced to the outside world.
In order to give her boyfriend enough security, Huang Xinmei acted extremely cautiously, and even tried to avoid letting Ma Guifeng appear in the official photos.
In the more than two years since then, they have come step by step, cautiously and firmly. However, who would have expected that her sister Huang Xinying suddenly broke out the scandal of "stealing food", which not only deeply hurt Huang Xinmei's heart, but also involved her.
Faced with this sudden change, the Ma family had to make a difficult decision to persuade Ma Guifeng to break up with Huang Xinmei to avoid more disputes that may arise in the future.
This decision undoubtedly brought endless pain and regret to the two parties. Ma Guifeng loves Huang Xinmei deeply, and Huang Xinmei also does her best to maintain this relationship. However, due to the disparity in family background and the pressure of social opinion, they can only reluctantly choose to end this relationship, and their hearts are full of grief.
3. Divorce past
In fact, before meeting Ma Guifeng, Huang Xinmei had already experienced the twists and turns of her marriage. She and her ex-husband Thomas are a couple who have known each other for many years, and after more than five years of sweet love, they did not hesitate to enter the palace of marriage.
However, the good times are always short-lived, and it is a pity that in just four and a half years, they chose to separate due to a long period of living in a different place.
Recalling that marriage, although Huang Xinmei looked sad, she still tried to squeeze out a wry smile. She admits that although she used to be a wife, she has not actually experienced what it is like to live with her husband.
At that time, she had the opportunity to go to Taiwan with Thomas to develop, but in order to pursue her hosting dream, she resolutely chose to stay in Hong Kong and fight for her career.
Although Thomas ostensibly expressed his understanding and support for Huang Xinmei's choice, the reality of their separation eventually made the relationship between them gradually fade. When their love entered its tenth year, the emotion of regret finally overcame the belief of perseverance, and the two finally chose to break up, and this relationship came to an end.
What is even more ironic is that during the divorce proceedings, the lawyer advised Huang Xinmei to ask for alimony, after all, they have spent ten years together.
This divorce experience undoubtedly brought great trouble to the young and promising Huang Xinmei, however, as a highly professional host, she did not fall into trouble, on the contrary, she continued to work with extraordinary perseverance and diligence, in order to win back the respect and recognition of her ex-husband with her personal strength.
Fourth, the analysis of growth experience
We can't help but ask, why does Huang Xinmei have such a tenacious and independent personality? The answer undoubtedly comes from her upbringing.
The Huang family has a total of four beautiful and moving daughters, who are not only outstanding in appearance and extraordinary in temperament, but also high-profile stars in the entertainment industry. However, before they became popular, the living conditions of the family could be described as quite difficult.
When Wong was young, her family had to live in a dilapidated tenement flat of less than 23 square metres in Wong Tai Sin Upper Estate in Kowloon City.
It wasn't until after the birth of her sister Huang Xinying that the family's population reached the standard of public housing, and the family was fortunate enough to move into a slightly more spacious public housing flat, although the area is not large, but the living environment has improved a lot compared to the previous one.
The impoverished childhood life shaped Huang Xinmei's frugal character. Even though she has now become a leader in the hosting industry and earns a lot of money, she still maintains a simple lifestyle, commuting by MTR and carrying heavy loads herself.
For any form of waste, even if it is just a jewelry ring worth tens of thousands of yuan, she will feel extremely regretful, and even have the idea of retreating.
The four sisters have been experiencing the hardships of life with their parents since they were young. At that time, their greatest pleasure was to play with a baby turtle bought from a market in the old district of Kowloon City.
The baby turtle became their only playmate in their impoverished life. However, this difficult time is the happiest and most precious childhood time in Huang Xinmei's memories.
Later, his father transitioned from the accounting profession to open a TCM clinic, and the family's financial situation gradually improved. With a thrifty attitude towards life, the four sisters successfully survived the most difficult period and ushered in a new chapter in their lives.
Fifth, the far-reaching influence of the family
In addition to the shaping of Huang Xin's beautiful character by the growth environment, the deep imprint she received from her family cannot be ignored. As the eldest of four sisters, it is an unshirkable responsibility for her to take care of her younger sisters.
Faced with the storm in the city caused by her sister Huang Xinying's "stealing food" scandal, Huang Xinmei's emotions were extremely disappointed, and she even "blacked" her sister in anger. However, no matter how emotions fluctuate, the bond of reason and affection always prevails.
She said frankly: "She made mistakes, and I and the whole world clearly understand it, but she will always be my own sister, how can you expect me to treat her?"
At that difficult time when the Huang family was under pressure from outside public opinion, Huang Xinmei supported the whole family with her broad mind and built a solid backing for her sisters. Even after eight months of online violence herself, she persevered and eventually made it through.
In addition to the unwavering support of her younger sisters, her parents' influence on Huang Xinmei is also far-reaching and significant. Her mother always stood silently behind her, giving her endless encouragement and strength, and becoming her most solid spiritual support.
And the father, although an infidelity incident in the early years has brought a shadow to the family, he is the pillar of the family after all, and after the merits are offset, the positive impact on the daughters still cannot be erased.
It is precisely because of the deep love and ardent expectations of her family that Huang Xinmei can gradually grow into such a strong woman who can bravely cope with various difficulties today. She has the ability to take on heavy responsibilities independently, and at the same time has a broad mind of selflessness and tolerance, this unique personality charm makes her sit firmly on the throne of the first sister in the hosting world.
6. Future prospects
In terms of career, although the current number of invitations has decreased, Huang Xinmei is convinced that the status of the first sister will not be shaken. She knows that this is only a short-term pain, and the ecology of the Hong Kong entertainment industry will inevitably change, and as a senior practitioner, she must keep up with the pace of the times and constantly improve herself.
As long as she continues to maintain a professional and dedicated work attitude and continue to learn and improve, when the industry is back on the upward track, she will surely become a popular figure again.
After all, it is rare for a host like her to have both excellent professionalism and affinity.
In the exploration of the emotional world, Huang Xinmei's steps appear steady and firm. She admits that she is caught between seeking a relationship and escaping her worries. On the one hand, like her sisters, she longs to enter the palace of marriage and give birth to her own warm little family, but on the other hand, due to the frustration of the past two emotional experiences, she has developed a trace of fear of married life.
However, Huang Xinmei did not back down because of this. She is actively expanding her social circle, looking forward to meeting the destined person in the process, rather than just waiting for love to come.
For the ideal partner in her heart, she is not demanding, as long as the other party is an affectionate person who can understand and tolerate each other.
For the public's expectations for her, Huang Xinmei feels a great responsibility. As a hard-working, beautiful and successful single woman, she undoubtedly carries the expectations of many people, hoping that she can marry into a wealthy family or find a satisfactory husband as soon as possible.
However, she never took these "compliments" from the outside world to heart, and always adhered to the concept of seeking truth from facts and being simple and unpretentious, and made unremitting efforts to realize her dreams step by step.
After all, it is up to us whether we can truly live a happy and fulfilling life. As long as we are kind and down-to-earth, one day, the bright future we aspire to will come as scheduled.
It is with this belief that Huang Xinmei has made steady progress in the journey of life, never giving up and never being discouraged.