In 2012, Che Xiao called Wang Liyun: Mom, if you turn off your mobile phone for a few days, someone will interview you recently. A few days later, the news broke that Che Xiao was divorced, and after less than two years of marriage, he got a breakup fee of 300 million.
Wang Liyun looked confused. She didn't expect her daughter to follow in her footsteps so quickly.
After Che Xiao married Li Zhaohui, the richest man in Shanxi, Wang Liyun once privately asked her daughter about her life after marriage.
The daughter told her, "It's the same as when you were with your father." ”
Although her daughter divorced, she knew that it would be sooner or later, but she didn't expect it to be so soon, and she was still a little shocked.
However, for the media saying that her daughter got a breakup fee of 300 million, she said with great certainty: "It is impossible for my daughter to do this kind of thing, there is no need at all." ”
Later, Che Xiao came forward to clarify the matter, she said: "People's money is also hard-earned, how can I ask for it." ”
Wang Liyun knew how the two people felt that their personalities were incompatible, so she didn't interfere too much with her daughter's marriage.
Wang Liyun and her ex-husband Che Xiaotong are both well-known movie stars. At the beginning, they both worked in the General Political Drama Troupe, and after being introduced, the two came together, looked at each other pleasing to each other, and got married.
After getting married, the problem arose.
The difference between the living habits of the two people is too big, Che Xiaotong likes to drink, and sometimes brings friends to the house to drink, making a mess at home, Wang Liyun is very disgusted.
Che Xiaotong is too good, but when it was time to speak, he didn't say it.
When Wang Liyun's father died of illness, she cried so much that Che Xiaotong stood next to her and barely handed over a tissue.
Wang Liyun is too strong, and Che Xiaotong doesn't like her character. So in order to avoid quarrels, and for the sake of their daughter Che Xiao's healthy growth, they endured each other for 10 years and lived separately for 10 years.
After their daughter was admitted to college, they divorced and relieved each other.
Although divorced, Wang Liyun did not say anything bad about Che Xiaotong. No matter where she goes, she praises her ex-husband for being a good person.
For the convenience of their daughters going to each house, the two of them also held the keys to each other's homes. They agreed that whoever remarried, they would hand back the keys.
Wang Liyun will hand over the important things at home to Che Xiaotong for safekeeping when she goes out, she said that if she is gone, these things will belong to her daughter after all, he is the father of her daughter, and she will not give it to her daughter.
Because of their trust in each other, the two became good friends. Every time my daughter has a birthday, or a holiday, the three of them will get together and enjoy themselves like a family.
If Wang Liyun has anything at home, she will ask Che Xiaotong for help. Sometimes when they get together, she will involuntarily nag Che Xiaotong, and her daughter will smile and remind her: "Mom, you are divorced, you can't care about my dad." ”
Seeing that her parents got along so well, Che Xiao persuaded them to remarry, because she knew the difficulties of being single, but Wang Liyun told her daughter: "Some people are not suitable for being husband and wife, only suitable for being friends and relatives." ”
As relatives and friends, they are not only good to each other, but also kind to each other's relatives. Wang Liyun will help take care of her ex-mother-in-law, and if there is anything going on at Wang Liyun's mother's house, Che Xiaotong will also give gifts to her relatives.
After the divorce, Che Xiao, like her parents, never said anything about her ex-husband, when others asked, she said: "I was young at the time, and the main responsibility was on me, Li Zhaohui is a good person." ”
After the divorce, Che Xiao has been in the forefront of public opinion. In order to protect her daughter, in an interview, Wang Liyun said: "The ex-son-in-law is a good child, but I am a divorced person, and I know that a good man is not necessarily suitable to be a husband." ”
Yes, there are good men and good women, but people who can become husband and wife and stay together for a lifetime can only be people who have the same three views and can withstand the trivial run-in of life.
In this life, there is a fate to become a husband and wife, which is the fate cultivated in the previous life. Two people who really can't get together are stunned to be tied together, which can only make both parties miserable, and it is better to separate peacefully and bless each other.
If you can't be a husband and wife, you can still be friends and relatives.
What do you think of Wang Liyun and Che Xiao's view of marriage?