8-year-old children are carefree children, enjoying the pampering of their parents and experiencing the fun of childhood.
However, the 8-year-old boy in Beijing is facing life and death. Because his mother was about to die of cancer, the boy couldn't cry in the face of the great changes in his life.
Recently, Beijing Satellite TV's Lifesource Channel made a video of the palliative care team and accompanying children to "recognize death".
The boy in the video is only eight years old, and his mother has advanced breast cancer and has been fighting cancer for nearly eight years. Shortly after the boy was born, his mother was diagnosed with breast cancer.
The doctor said: Do everything possible to create a chance for the child to finally meet and say goodbye to the mother, because, if this is not done, the mother's death may become a lifelong trauma for the child.
When the doctor told the boy the news of his mother's imminent death, the eight-year-old boy couldn't help crying when his mother couldn't see it.
"The death of a loved one is one of the saddest things in life, so when you are sad, allow yourself to cry and speak out. ”
The doctor enlightened the boy and asked him, "What kind of gift do you want your mother to leave behind?" ”
The boy choked up and said, "The way I like it is to be able to kiss her, and nothing can replace my mother." ”
At these words, not only the child cried, but the doctor's voice was also choked, and even you and I in front of the screen were also teary-eyed.
The hospice team doctor in charge of hospice care patiently enlightened and guided the boy to correctly understand death.
The child's innocent and childish words have aroused the empathy of many netizens who have the same pain
I was 20 years old when my mother left cancer, and the sky was falling at that time, crying every day before going to bed was a compulsory course for me, and now I am 38 years old, and I still haven't let go.
It seems that the doctor's guidance to the boy to guide the boy to correctly understand death seems to be really necessary for the education of life. A 20-year-old netizen still can't get out, let alone an eight-year-old child.
My 13-year-old mother left, and now in her 40s, the only way to miss my mother is to buy kissing shrimp crackers, because that is what my mother likes to eat most but is most reluctant to buy.
I have a colleague whose child is also so old, my mother is gone, and my father remarried. When I watched the little boy crying in the video and said, "Nothing can replace my mother", my heart was like a knife, I must live well and raise my child as an adult.
In the comment area, there are strong mothers who are still fighting against the disease for the sake of their children, even if they are suffering from cancer, and every comment makes people cry when they read it carefully.
This strong mother, when her daughter was five years old with terminal cancer, all the beliefs that supported her at that time were that the child has now fought cancer for ten years and entered a stable period.
A 32-year-old with advanced lung cancer and a mother of an 8-year-old child, when the treatment is painful, it is the child who supports her, and she must survive it, at least until the child reaches adulthood.
"Nothing can replace my mother", the child's words made countless netizens teary-eyed.
It is both distressing and uncomfortable, and it also makes netizens more aware of the meaning of a healthy life and learn to love themselves more.
Because of the education of life in the video and the boy's love for his mother, netizens pay more attention to the present and cherish themselves.
Love yourself well, and then you can love your children better. Live hard, if nothing else, just to love our children.
After experiencing the death of my mother, I now want to try to live a healthy life, if I am gone, the most pitiful thing is the child.
Don't be angry anymore, love yourself well, and in order to accompany your children to grow up for a longer time in the future.
Mothers, usually less angry, must live well until the child, get married and have children, the child is married and has a family, there is no need for us so much, and you can go at any time if you want to go at that time.
Write at the end
The doctor communicates with the child in such a guided way, paying attention to the child's inner and mental health. Let children understand birth, old age, sickness and death, in the face of natural rules, sometimes manpower is irresistible, so that children can face the death of their mothers more calmly.
After all, the child is still young, and healthy growth is very important to the child, since the mother's departure is irretrievable, the child should be allowed to open the knot and reduce the psychological trauma caused by the mother's death.
Life education is invaluable, and I salute the doctors of the Hospice team.
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