Title:
"The wife is scared when she sees her husband, so she can only hide in her mother-in-law's room, the reason is ridiculous"
Essay:
When people hear that a wife is afraid to see her husband, or even dares to hide in her mother-in-law's room, the picture in their minds can be varied and strange. But to explore the reasons for this, I am afraid it will be ridiculous.
This story takes place in a calm town, where the hero Xiao Ming and the heroine Xiao Fang are a loving couple. They have been married for five years, and they originally lived in harmony and happiness, until one day, Xiao Ming suddenly found a book "How to Become a Master of Marriage", and since then he has never been interested in marriage relationships.
Xiao Ming began to study various marriage psychology, such as "communication skills between men and women", "how to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law", and so on. However, his enthusiasm often turns into a nightmare for his wife, Xiaofang.
Whenever Xiao Fang saw Xiao Ming holding a book ready to share the latest marriage theory with her, her heart was like being stirred by a blender, and she was extremely entangled. Because in her eyes, Xiao Ming is more and more like a "doctor of marriage", but he has become his "experimental subject".
"Honey, I learned a new skill today called 'Active Listening', let's give it a try!"
Xiao Fang only felt that her scalp was numb, she was afraid that she would say the wrong thing and touch the "theoretical red line" of Xiao Ming's learning, so she chose to hide in her mother-in-law's room so as not to be caught in the "whirlpool" of marriage studies.
Ironically, Xiao Ming is not aware of the pressure his actions have caused on his wife, and he simply thinks that he is trying to improve his marriage. Whenever Xiao Fang dodged, he was always at a loss and at a loss.
And Xiaofang's mother-in-law saw all this clearly. She knows the pain in her daughter's heart, and she also understands her son-in-law's good intentions. As a result, she became a "mediator of the marital relationship".
"Brother Ming, if you do this, Fangfang will be afraid. The mother-in-law reminded softly.
Xiao Ming finally realizes the seriousness of the problem, and he begins to reflect on his behavior, trying to communicate with his wife in a gentler way, so that she can feel truly loved and respected.
After some hard work, Xiao Ming finally got rid of the identity of "Doctor of Marriage" and became a good husband who really knows how to get along with his wife. And Xiaofang gradually opened up and reinvested in their happy life.
The story may be a little absurd, but it reflects the jokes that many real-life couples have misunderstood and misunderstood. Marriage is not a theory in a book, but a life that needs to be experienced and managed by both parties. Only true understanding and respect can lead to the other side of happiness.