Chen Maidong in "Spring Lover" is an undertaker, and from the professional knowledge he has mastered, we can see that he is well-known in the field of body plastic surgery.
Because I like to watch short dramas, and I have read a lot of novels and short dramas about undertakers, I have developed a lot of curiosity about this profession.
I once saw a particularly attractive recruitment notice on the Internet that read: "600 yuan a day for the day shift and 1600 yuan a day for the night shift." ”
I can also calculate that according to this kind of income, it will easily exceed 10,000 yuan a month.
However, such a high-paying profession actually has to sleep with the dead, in other words, to be an undertaker, specializing in cleaning up the dead.
According to this algorithm, an expert mortuary like Chen Maidong has a monthly salary of 5~6w is not a problem, after all, the city where he worked at the time was Beijing, and no matter how you look at it, he can be regarded as a high-paid worker.
But the strange thing is that when Chen Maidong saw off his master at the age of 27, he chose to give up the flower world in Beijing and a high-paying job, and returned to the small town of Nanfang to become a mortuary.
According to the income of the town, it is estimated that his monthly salary is estimated to be at the level of three or four thousand, such a full and warm treatment, which makes me curious what caused him to give up his job with a monthly salary of fifty or sixty thousand?
Today, I will analyze Chen Maidong's psychology from my own personal experience (I am also a person who returned to a small county from a big city) to deeply analyze Chen Maidong's psychology.
First of all, Chen Maidong is very likely to resign and go home because of his grandmother.
Chen Maidong's original family is similar to mine, and he is also a child from a single-parent family with divorced parents.
The difference is that Chen Maidong was raised by his grandmother, while although I am a child from a single family, I can still enjoy my mother's love.
The young Chen Maidong was originally a good student, but because of the divorce of his parents, which brought him a big blow, coupled with the pointing and pointing of others, he became extremely sensitive and often fought with others when he disagreed.
From a good student to a troubled teenager, I believe that my grandmother did not worry less about the process of raising her.
This is from the grandmother learned that he and the hedgehog were fighting, and the grandmother was going to carry a knife to the other party's house to find an explanation, you can know that the grandmother is very protective of the calf, and their relationship is very good.
Therefore, it is very likely that Chen Maidong gave up his high-paying job to take care of his grandmother.
Because the grandmother in the play is also alone, there is neither a wife nor a daughter and son to do their filial piety under his knees, and the responsibility of taking care of his grandmother naturally falls on him.
After seeing the prosperity of the big world and mixing in Vanity Fair, we will find that fame and wealth are actually far less important than the relatives around us.
After a long time in Vanity Fair, you will find that the life of fighting all day long for the top position is very boring, but the ordinary small town life is very nurturing.
Secondly, it is easier for excellent people to get a sense of accomplishment when they return to the small town.
In the play, Chen Maidong is engaged in the profession of an undertaker, and this job inevitably involves dealing with dead people all day long.
This is destined to be an undertaker, no matter how high the salary is, no matter how meaningful it is, it is a bad profession, and it is easy to be discriminated against in society.
Chen Maidong is actually a cold straight man, he is not very good at words, and he is not very good at socializing.
No matter how talented this person is, he doesn't have any competitive advantage in the huge city of Beijing.
Because there is never a shortage of talents in big cities, not to mention that there is a mountain and a mountain high, Chen Maidonghui's skills were also learned from teachers in big cities.
It can be seen that the technologies he knows are not necessarily competitive advantages in big cities.
But it's different when you go back to the remote town of Nanfang, there are very few people like Chen Maidong who are engaged in mortuary, plus he can have plastic surgery, which can restore those unrecognizable dead to their original appearance, so that they can leave with dignity.
Such a person returned to the town as a backbone technician, so he entered the establishment without much effort.
There is a detail in the play that shows that Chen Maidong is right to return to the town to develop, and he is important to the leaders of the town.
This detail is that when Zhuang Jie went to the town for a meeting, many people in high school who had a career and worked hard outside came back to participate in this meeting, and Zhuang Jie also greeted them one by one and distributed business cards.
These people who were invited to the meeting have more or less made a lot of contributions to their hometowns, or they are doing well outside and have the ability to contribute to their hometowns.
Chen Maidong also participated in that meeting, and the leader also praised him, saying that he sent away many lonely old people in the town, and he made a great contribution to Nanfang Town, and the leader also named him to help him solve the problem of marriage and love.
The reason why Zhuang Jie later helped the people in the town to sell yams was actually because she saw that Chen Maidong not only praised him by name at the conference, but also appeared on the town's radio.
From these details, we can all see that Chen Maidong, who came back from Beijing, is living well in the town, he has at least become an outstanding young man in the township, Beijing can't give him the space to display his talents, and the town has given him all the space.
Therefore, excellent people actually have more advantages to return to the town, and it is easier to roll up the results, even if you only achieve small and small results, they will be constantly amplified, so that you can gain a lot of sense of achievement.
I feel this very deeply.
It's that I studied in my hometown since I was a child, and my grades are not very good, but because I am studying in a small place, I can easily stand out from the crowd.
But once I ran to the big city, I had a feeling that I was nothing, I had no house, no car, no connections, no background, I had to learn from scratch when I went out to take a taxi and take the subway, and I had to find a job to figure out whether I had said something wrong.
The whole person is full of tension, living hard and tense every day, always worrying that he will be unemployed and unable to pay the rent, and will be swept out of the house by the landlord.
But I wouldn't be so insecure in my hometown, even if I am unemployed, I have a house to live in, and even if I don't have a job, I have food.
Besides, if I'm tired of going to work, maybe I can start a business and open a store, and I have the resources and connections I have, so I don't have to worry a lot like I do in a big city
Although, when I returned to my hometown, I didn't expect Chen Maidong to be so good as to become a celebrity in the town, but I am quite relaxed now. If you think about it, it's good to be able to live a stable life.