preface
At the engagement banquet between Chen Maidong and Zhuang Jie, Chen Maidong's father attended, and the father and son did not compete against each other, but were filial to their fathers and sons.
Such a harmonious scene is really warm and touching.
However, hasn't Chen Maidong always hated his father?
I remember the last time I mentioned his dad was at a class reunion.
At that time, his old classmate Liang Wei advised Chen Maidong:
When Chen Maidong heard this, he was a little annoyed and angry, but based on his cultivation and quality, he just replied with 4 words dissatisfied:
Even Zhuang Jie knew that he couldn't put his father in front of Chen Maidong.
But not long after, Chen Maidong shook hands with his father and made peace, and happily invited his father to his engagement banquet.
Could it be that his resentment towards his father for more than ten years was faked?
In fact, Chen Maidong really hated his father, and it was true that he was reconciled.
Reason 1: Grandma Lin's death
Grandma Lin is Grandma Chen's best friend, she has never been married in her life, and naturally she has no heirs.
Loving the house and Wu, Grandma Lin treats Chen Maidong as her own grandson.
As for Chen Maidong, he also regards Grandma Lin as important as his own grandmother.
When Grandma Lin was 72 years old, she was diagnosed with terminal cancer.
Grandma Lin wanted to leave with dignity, and during her treatment at the hospital, she refused to be visited by everyone except Chen Maidong.
As Grandma Lin's dying companion, Chen Maidong accompanied Grandma Lin to the last journey of her life in the hospital.
Although it was only a short 7 days, it was the most difficult and longest day for Chen Maidong.
Seeing Grandma Lin pass away in front of his eyes, Chen Maidong's heart was still very devastated.
Although Chen Maidong had already been mentally prepared, the impact of family affection was still too strong, making him unable to extricate himself for a while.
After Grandma Lin left, Chen Maidong was depressed for a while, and locked himself in the room alone in a daze and meditated......
I guess Chen Maidong should have thought of his father for a moment at that time.
In the face of life and death, what is the resentment of the past?
Reason 2: Zhuang Jie's persuasion
As we all know, Zhuang Jie once had 2 fathers, but they all left unexpectedly.
For Zhuang Jie, who longs for her father's love, she is envious of Chen Maidong, because Chen Maidong's father is still alive.
Therefore, after Zhuang Jie is with Chen Maidong, she will definitely persuade Chen Maidong openly and secretly to let go of the past.
Zhuang Jie's experience made her know how to cherish and forgive, so she can stand in Chen Maidong's perspective and give him some different perspectives and thoughts.
You think, Zhuang Jie is a sales elite, this title is not for nothing, even her mother praised her:
With Zhuang Jie's three-inch tongue, it won't be long before Chen Maidong will be convinced by her, and then reconcile with his father.
@紫说影视
epilogue
To put it bluntly, this cannot be explained simply by "forgiving" or "not forgiving", but more reflects personal growth and choices.