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The eldest brother is like a father, and the eldest sister is like a mother.
My mother, as my uncle's older sister and the eldest in the family, was instilled with such thoughts from an early age.
Men were usually the ones who did the farm work in the house, but in that patriarchal society, the burden of farm work in the family fell on my mother's shoulders.
And an uncle lives a life of playing after eating and eating after playing, and he grows up in doting.
Even if her mother works and gets married, she still has to be kidnapped by her grandmother's morality, and she often has to give money to two uncles who are lazy and have higher hearts than the sky.
They only ask their mothers to give blindly, and they will only keep taking from their mothers, but they never give any help.
When my sister went out to work alone, the money was basically all taken by my uncle, and even if my mother got married, she still couldn't get rid of this vampire.
At the banquet for my father's 60th birthday, my uncle sat down and ate uninvited, and after eating, he asked his mother for 200,000 yuan, and I directly overturned the table in front of him.
01
My mother was born in a rural family in the countryside, and I have a deep understanding of their patriarchal thinking at that time, and even in today's society, there are many patriarchal thoughts.
It is not uncommon for a family to have five or six children, and the youngest child is a boy.
The family's economic situation is enough for a child, but in order to have a boy, they can keep giving birth until the sixth child is finally a boy.
This kind of thinking is the idea of patriarchy, and such a phenomenon can still exist in such a society now, and it is even more common when the patriarchal preference of parents is so serious.
The mother lives in such a family, and the idea of patriarchy is completely instilled in the mother's mind, so that the mother thinks that her dedication to her younger brother is due.
When she was 14 years old, her mother had to drop out of school because her family was poor and could only afford her uncle to go to school, so she had to drop out of school and work in the family field for two or three years.
At that time, many people in the village went out to work and made a lot of money, and my mother was very timid by nature, so my mother did not have such courage.
But making money, which made my grandmother itch a lot, began to push her mother behind her back every day to let her mother go out to work and subsidize the family.
In the end, my mother could only follow the little sisters from the same village to Shenzhen to work, which was the place where many people's dreams began.
My mother has been working outside for so many years, and my grandmother has asked for her money every month, and it sounds good to save the dowry for my mother at that time.
However, every month, a few days before the salary is paid, my grandmother begins to urge when the salary will come, and almost every day she asks if the salary has been paid.
My mother can only leave a little living allowance for herself every month, and the rest is all sent to the family, and she has been working outside for a year, and she is not willing to buy clothes for herself.
But my uncle is very beautiful in the village, but motorcycles are popular, and when I see that others have them, the young and vigorous uncle must also want it, and my grandmother will buy it directly, and the most popular motorcycles at that time are 10,000 smaller.
As soon as the motorcycle stopped at home, it was a symbol of face, and my uncle was in the village at that time, but my mother was living on steamed buns in other places.
There is no way, who let his mother live in that era, and happened to meet a patriarchal mother like grandma, and her mother did not have a very good life before she met her father.
But after meeting my father, my mother's living situation has improved greatly, my father is very rich, why did he marry my mother, and I suddenly realized it after I saw my mother's photo.
When I was young, my mother was better looking than many women with makeup now, and my father fell in love with my mother at first sight, and it was because my father liked my mother too much that my father would try to meet any request made by my grandmother.
The bride price was given a lot, more than twice as high as the normal bride price in the village, but the father didn't care at all, he just wanted to marry his mother and go home.
After my mother got married, I didn't go out to work again, and I was spoiled by my father every day like a princess, but my grandmother and uncle didn't make people worry, and they asked my mother for money in three days.
At first, my father didn't care, because he knew that the life of his mother's family was not very good, so he could subsidize a little, but my uncle and mother intensified their efforts and asked my father for it.
The father is wealthy, although the behavior of the mother's family is very likeable, but after all, it is the wife's mother, and the father can't ignore it.
So I will give as much as I can, but my father's business is not booming, and my father's bankruptcy is followed by all kinds of sarcasm.
There is not even a person to help, my father has been in the business for so many years, so he naturally knows that these people are dealing with money, and now that my father is bankrupt, they must be able to hide.
At that time, in order to make his father make a comeback, his mother also went back to his parents' house to ask for money, but how did the grandmother, who loved money like her life, give her mother money?
also said that the mother is the water spilled by the daughter who got married, how can there be any reason to come back and ask for money, which means that the mother is no longer their family.
Since then, my mother's family has been afraid that we will go to them to borrow money again, so they have not contacted each other since.
02
And after that blow, my father also became a bit of a drunkard, and he wanted to numb himself every day, but grandma and grandfather couldn't manage it at all, and the most important thing to listen to was my mother's words.
Even if the mother said "go home" after getting drunk, the husband and wife immediately sobered up and followed the mother home, but the father was no longer interested in making money, and he lived a chaotic life every day.
There are always expenses in the family, and my mother can only send me to my grandmother's house to work, but my mother, who has no skills and no education, can only do some hard work.
Either washing clothes and dishes, or helping on the construction site, my mother's white and pure skin, which was originally raised by my father, became rough day by day, and her hands were also thick calluses.
When my father held my mother's hand that day, tears suddenly rained down, and those hands that were once white and flawless have now become full of sores, either rotten or rotten.
There were also rotten calluses, my father cried very sadly that day, and the next day my father got up early and finally came out of the haze.
My father wasn't hit, but he was escaping from reality, from his past failures, and he didn't want to face the face of celebrities in the business world who were now.
Since then, with my father helping to share the burden, and my mother has been much easier, our life has been as dull as ever, and my studies have always been very good.
Life is a normal level of family, saving 20,000 or 30,000 yuan a year.
But my father didn't think so, and my father also tried with money in the middle, but it was all a little bit of a fight, some of which succeeded and some failed.
In the end, I still didn't lose money or make money, because of my family and my reasons, my father had worries, and he didn't dare to let go of his hands and feet to do business.
Because he has to fulfill the responsibility of a father, and when he has worries, the responsibility falls on me, and my father often pulls me to sit down and share my life experience.
My father thinks that he can be regarded as a mentor on my life path, and the teachers at school only teach some dead knowledge, and the most important thing in society is what my father has taught him all his life.
I was able to practice it in school, and I was even more in the position of president of the student union, and many people stayed up until their senior year to become the chairman.
In my sophomore year, I successfully became the president of the student council with my connections at school.
In this position, you have a lot of contacts, a big network, and it's really simple to make money.
Every time I shared my money-making plan with my father, the two of us discussed it together, and all the business in the university was just a small fight in society.
An investment of 120,000 or 20,000 yuan can only make two or three times as much money, and the society is different, my father said at the time that his first pot of gold was enough to live comfortably for a lifetime.
And I'm all petty fights, but it's really my life experience.
After graduating, I didn't look for a job, I didn't want to go to graduate school for a doctorate, I just wanted to enter the society and do business.
The newborn calf is not afraid of tigers, and if others dare not do it, I think I have to try it, and my father didn't care about me anymore, saying that he would let go of me after all.
Repeatedly hitting the wall did not make me feel lost and extinguished the flame of my fighting spirit, but made me more and more frustrated.
One of the most successful businesses was reselling second-hand cars, which was the first pot of gold I earned, although it was not much, but it was enough as a springboard for my upward development.
During that time, I was also confused, and I often went to my father for advice, and my father said that you can't just think about making money, you want to lose money, and if you want to make money, you will continue to reduce costs, resulting in poor quality.
On the contrary, your cost is high, and the quality will definitely receive a lot of people's likes.
In addition, it is necessary to have a pair of eyes that can find business opportunities, and be good at observing, talking less and doing more businessmen to succeed.
With the progress of science and technology and the continuous development of the Internet, I directly and decisively gave up more than half of my business and used it to enter the network industry.
With the rise of short videos, it means that I have succeeded, and at that time, I have really learned what it means to make money every second.
When you have money, you naturally want everyone to know, although my father said that it is good to keep a low profile, but I just want to let the people who looked down on us and didn't help us see what we are now.
On the day of the celebration, I put it at the banquet of my father's 60th birthday, and at that dinner, the wine was Moutai, and the food was all delicacies from the mountains and seas, in order to let them see what it looks like now.
The businessman didn't say that he couldn't get along with money, and there were still many of his father's old friends who were still mixed in the business world, so they would naturally come to such a dinner, and if they didn't come, they couldn't get along with money.
That dinner party really gave my father a long face, but the episode came, and my uncle, who was not angry, came uninvited.
It's a complete gangster, wearing leggings, touching his big belly with one hand on his waist and the other on his arm.
When he came in, he sat down directly on the table and began to eat, and when his mother saw it, he was also very disgusted, but his father said that the visitor was a guest, and he didn't make trouble.
But unexpectedly, after eating for a while, I came to my father with wine and began to toast my father, and my uncle showed his true face after drinking.
"Sister, I'm here today specifically to celebrate my brother-in-law's birthday, but there is another trivial matter, the child is getting married, see if you can get 200,000 yuan to help. ”
The mother didn't want to spoil the atmosphere, so she asked her uncle to wait for the banquet to end, and when the uncle heard that there was a play, he obediently went back to do it.
But how could I bear it, I heard a lot from my father's mouth about what happened to my mother in her mother's house.
directly mocked my uncle and scolded angrily, "You still have a face, you are doing disgusting things, you are not afraid of retribution, and now you still want to pester my mother." ”
The uncle said, "Good boy, I really grew up and my wings were hard, your mother was born to serve me, what's wrong with me asking for money." ”
I was so angry that I rushed forward, overturned the table in front of him, and "fuck off"!
At this time, the security guard rushed in and coaxed him out.
The storyline of this article is fictional, if there is any similarity, it is purely a coincidence, please watch it rationally!