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Preface
How many people in the world can escape marriage and have children?
But they still don't come into contact with them until half a hundred.
Why does marriage make them avoid snakes and scorpions?
If you are not married, why do you still have a partner and even children?
How special are these actresses?
In the entertainment industry, no small thing can escape the public's attention.
Among them, the most criticized is the complex feelings.
Whether it is the entanglement of interests or the contact of various feelings, their feelings become extremely unstable.
But there are also sober people among them, who are very special and do not consider marriage a necessity.
And Xu Jinglei is one of them.
Xu Jingbud
Speaking of Xu Jinglei, she will think of her name as a "talented girl".
But if she was given a chance to choose, she might not want the name of this "talented girl".
And her relationship history is as complicated as her person, and she has four relationships just known to outsiders.
But even so, until she is 50 years old now, she has not entered into marriage.
Even when he talked about it, he bluntly stated that he had to play for a few more years.
But why did she think like that?
This may be glimpsed from her upbringing.
Today's Xu Jinglei talks about the happiness of not having marriage, and when she was a child, she lamented the misfortune of not having freedom.
Unlike Xu Jinglei, who has complicated feelings, his father is an extremely serious worker.
He had suffered himself, and he did not want his daughter to suffer because of it.
Therefore, Xu Jinglei has a fulfilling study schedule.
But is the arrangement imposed on her body really what Xu Jinglei wants?
Of course not.
When she was a child, Xu Jinglei was not confident because she was dark and thin.
Learning calligraphy is the most attentive, but Xu Jinglei is often attracted by the laughter outside the house.
Unable to resist her father, her only desire at that time was freedom.
And it's like a child who didn't get sugar when he was a child, and when he grew up, he pursued sweetness.
Xu Jinglei is also fascinated by the feeling of freedom.
When Xu Jinglei grows up, the only thing she pursues is to be happy.
As long as you can enjoy yourself, it doesn't matter if you are called a "weird guy".
Wang Shuo, who appeared when she had a quarrel with the teacher due to conflicting opinions, became the enlightenment of her feelings.
The age difference of 17 years did not stop the progress of the relationship between the two.
But this relationship didn't last long and ended invisibly.
Xu Jinglei, who has been in love for many times, is immersed in every relationship, and has been hurt but has never regretted it.
In 2010, he also entered the stage of talking about marriage with his then-boyfriend Huang Jue.
It's a pity that it ended with the betrayal of the other party.
It was also this experience that made her no longer believe in marriage.
After that, Xu Jinglei met her lover Huang Lixing, who had been with her for 14 years.
The two have been together for many years and have not blushed, but she still has not married her.
Perhaps for her, marriage is just an extra contract.
And family will also become a stumbling block to her pursuit of freedom.
Yu Feihong
If Xu Jinglei is indulged in feelings, she disdains marriage.
That Yu Feihong is completely opposite to her.
is different from Xu Jinglei's feelings, which are complex but above board.
Her feelings for Yu Feihong were hidden by her very deeply, and there were more rumors.
Born in a family of high intellectuals, she was taught that "you can't be an embroidered pillow" since she was a child.
It is this kind of teaching that makes her understand that feelings are not a necessity in life.
Yu Feihong's performance towards the outside world is extremely self-disciplined, and she is very planned in everything she does.
Even became famous earlier than others, becoming a child star at the age of 8, starring as the heroine at the age of 15, and entering Hollywood at the age of 22.
And when she was 28 years old, "Xiao Li Flying Knife" became a classic in the hearts of countless people.
Her rise to fame is almost legendary, which has also stopped many suitors.
And Dou Wentao is one of them.
As the longest-serving existence that has accompanied Yu Feihong, the two often enter the discussion area as a couple.
But for the speculation of the outside world, the attitude of the two is completely different.
In Yu Feihong's description, Dou Wentao is just her best friend, and she doesn't even think of herself as a woman at all.
Dou Wentao's response to this relationship is "the mountains look up to the top and stop at the best".
Although it is vague, it seems from the years of companionship, except for the fans of the authorities, who can't see the friendship in it.
She also yearns for marriage, and regards it as a normal thing, but now she is just looking for the right person.
Until now, Yu Feihong is 53 years old, but it is still Dou Wentao who accompanies her.
Perhaps for the two, companionship is the best confession.
Wu Junru
is also companionship, but some people are wishful thinking, and some have gained family.
Wu Junru, who has been unmarried with her partner for 34 years but is pregnant with a daughter, may be a combination of the two.
Speaking of Wu Junru, no one may know it, but if it is said that her partner Chen Kexin is a little unfamiliar.
But it was this man who made Wu Junru willing to give birth to a child for him without a name, and even took the initiative to resign from his job.
What kind of ability did he have to make Wu Junru so desperate.
One is an actor who shows his head, and the other is a director and screenwriter behind the scenes.
Although many people don't know it, it doesn't mean that they are not famous, and the Academy Awards alone have Chen Kexin's 4 trophies.
"Start with talent and be loyal to character" can summarize the relationship between the two.
And why the two are not married is related to Wu Junru's first relationship.
At that time, Wu Junru and Du Dewei were in love vigorously.
At that time, she had not yet entered the showbiz, so she would not worry about the impact of her career at all, and even brought her feelings directly into variety shows.
But no one expected that such feelings would disappear quietly.
Some people speculate that perhaps Du Dewei chose to betray, and it was even revealed on the Internet that she had gone to the hotel to meet another woman.
But this news was also refuted by Wu Junru after that.
At that time, the two had broken up, but when she saw the distress of another person next to Du Dewei, she couldn't fake it.
Maybe it was because she was sad to pay her true feelings, so when Chen Kexin proposed to her later, she chose to refuse.
Chen Kexin was not disappointed because of this, but respected Wu Junru's choice.
The two started living together in 2004 and welcomed their daughter Chen Shizhi in 2006.
Although they are not married, the relationship between the two does not need to be proved by other means.
For the sake of her family, she quit her radio job in 2009 to spend time with her family in addition to filming.
Until this year, Chen Shizhi was 18 years old, but the two were still not married.
Tingna Guan
Wu Junru has been in love for 34 years as always, and not everyone can have it.
is more hurt by love, among which Guan Tingna is one of the leaders.
She is a superstar who was picked up by Zhao Benshan.
But because of Zhao Benshan, he also fell into the whirlpool of public opinion.
When Guan Tingna said that her 10-year relationship was over.
The first choice that many people think of is Zhao Benshan, but he was clarified by himself.
It is not yet known who the person who made the beauty sad.
But a person can withstand the wait for several decades, which even made Guan Tingna have the idea of suicide.
And she was also in the live broadcast, crying directly and saying that she would not fall in love with other men again.
She also kept her promise, and until the age of 41, she still hasn't sent any information about her partner.
But there is also speculation that they may have found their life partner.
Qu Ying
Compared with Guan Tingna's ten-year relationship that was only revealed in the live broadcast.
All the pain is shown on the face, but it makes the audience feel unclear.
Qu Ying's feelings gradually became disappointed.
Four years after her debut, she became a "Mou Girl", thinking that it was an upward period in her life, but it was linked to her feelings.
During a commercial performance, Qu Ying and Luo Zhongxu's feelings were connected.
At the age of 25, she was still very naïve, thinking that she was about to experience a sweet love, but she didn't expect it to be a betrayal.
Since both of their careers are on the rise, they didn't reveal it to the outside world at first.
Until an accident exposed the feelings of the two.
Car accidents happen that no one can predict.
Anything becomes meaningless in the face of life and death.
Qu Ying left all her work, took care of her and prayed every day, and finally ushered in a miracle.
And her strength deeply moved Luo Zhongxu, and vowed never to separate.
But this vow was broken by him soon after.
When the news of Luo Zhongxu's scandal with a Korean actress spread, Qu Ying couldn't believe that this would be the man who promised him forever.
But the photo was in front of me, and even the inquiry was pale.
The two finally broke up, and then Luo Zhongxu also revealed in a variety show that it was just a misunderstanding.
But the truth can only be known by Luo Zhongxu himself.
After breaking up with Luo Zhongxu, Qu Ying thought that she would not enter love again, but the world is unpredictable.
Her heart-sealing love was finally broken under Li Yapeng's high profile.
The two eventually made their relationship public in 2000, but she never imagined that she would repeat the same mistakes again.
In just one year, her world changed dramatically.
When the scandal between Li Yapeng and Zhou Xun came out, Qu Ying's detective class, who learned the lesson of "misunderstanding", sought the truth.
But when the relationship between the two was shown in front of her, she realized that everything was her own struggle.
Qu Yingneng's acquaintance with Zhang Yadong comes from her song "Twenty Years Back in Time".
Because the temperament image is very consistent, the two got to know each other because of the creation of MTV.
may be a rare confidant, and the two gradually have feelings intersecting.
She no longer trusts in love, and did not accept Zhang Yadong's marriage request for the first time.
But it turned out to be the most correct decision.
The two have been in a sweet relationship for 11 years. There were no incidents.
Qu Ying was also persuaded by friends around her to marry her boyfriend.
But everything happened too fast, perhaps because of experience, after Zhang Yadong chose to betray, she immediately chose to divorce.
The facts also proved how right her decision was.
After breaking up with Qu Ying, Zhang Yadong seemed to have no worries and had emotional entanglements with many actresses.
Since then, Qu Ying has completely let go of her attachment to her feelings.
After returning to her career, she finally bloomed her style.
epilogue
"Half a hundred are still unmarried" is not a shackle that restricts their progress.
Maybe they are still looking for the other half of their lives, but that doesn't stop them from getting better.
Be the most special person in the crowd and the most unique version of yourself.
They are not afraid of the eyes of others, nor are they afraid of the unknown path ahead.
Now they are not bothered by the aura of actresses, they only belong to themselves.
Information sources:
[1] "Very Quiet Distance" Yu Feihong
[2] "Luyu has an appointment" Wu Junru
[3] "Venus Show" Xu Jinglei, Qu Ying