There was a girl whose mother told her when she was very young:
"You have to be prettier and better to have people like you. ”
So she began to work hard, serious skin care, exercise, reading, and never dared to expose her flaws in front of everyone.
Finally, at the age of eighteen, she was liked by many people, and some people appreciated her because of her self-confidence.
Today, she has achieved a lot and is very confident.
- It's not that no one likes you, it's that you're not confident enough.
Because I'm a looker, I know I have a lot of imperfections, and I've been working on it. I hope that I can be better and that more people like me.
But many people have told me that you are not good-looking, and your abilities are very average, and no one will like you at all.
Actually, they are right, and I really haven't been liked by many people.
- Your self-confidence will make others look at you impressively.
The American writer Emerson said, "Self-confidence is the first secret of success." ”
If you always have low self-esteem because of your appearance and figure, then others will not be impressed with you. They will only see your shortcomings and lose faith in you.
The more confident a person is, the more he can let others see his value, and only then can he be convinced that he is excellent and excellent.
In "When Happiness Knocks on the Door", there is a sentence: "When you are suffering outside, you come home only to find that your family is waiting for you." You'll feel like you're the happiest person you can be. ”
Therefore, when a person is confident, it is the happiest moment in his life.
On the road of life, everyone has their own unique scenery. But no matter what, we should have a confident heart to face all kinds of difficulties and setbacks in life.
- Don't be afraid, go forward boldly, and there will always be someone who sees your light.
When a young boy was very young, he was asked, "What do you want to be when you grow up?" and instead of answering, he thought about it for a long time, and said, "I want to be a brave man." ”
He later met a boy who was just as brave as he was, and the boy also said, "I want to be a brave man." "The two boys played a lot of games together, and at one point, a boy and a girl came from a distance, both dressed in black.
The boy asked the girl, "You look beautiful, but why don't you wear black?"
The girl replied, "Because I'm afraid of the dark." ”
The boy said to the girl very seriously: "Well, if you don't want to wear black, then don't wait for me any longer." ”
So you see, maybe we won't be the best, but there will always be someone who appreciates the unique light in us.
- As long as we are willing to work hard, nothing can stop us from becoming good.
In fact, each of us has our own unique charm. Even those with physical disabilities are bound to have someone who loves, respects, and appreciates them.
All we have to do is not to be discouraged, not to give up, and to believe that we can be better.
If you don't know what to do, start with something you're interested in. We do multiple-choice questions every day, and only by constantly choosing will we find the most suitable for ourselves.
When you feel like life isn't going your way, think about what you already have. Stop complaining about yourself that no one likes it, no one loves you.
As long as we work hard to live, life will definitely treat us well.
- Changing oneself is to be better oneself.
There is a saying in "The Little Prince": "What matters is not the length of life, but the depth of life." ”
There are many people who are tired in real life, not because they are not good enough, but because they are afraid that they are not good enough and will be hated by others.
A lot of people in this world don't like you, but they are trying to get closer to you, hoping that you can become better and become a better version of yourself.
You have to believe that there are always people in this world who will like you the way you are, because they are growing up like this, but later.
I hope we can all be like ourselves and be liked.