In the world of feelings, no one can live without anyone, and no one can live without anyone.
Whether it is love or marriage, it takes two people to work hard together.
A good marriage requires both husband and wife to work together.
To be together, we need the affection of two people, to be together, we need to understand and support each other, and to be together, we need mutual respect and love.
The most important thing in a good marriage is one word: "love".
Two people are together, from strange to familiar to love, and have experienced some ups and downs and ups and downs, which is why two people have a happy life today.
It's not easy to fall in love, and it's even harder to stay together. If you want a good marriage relationship, you must understand each other, support each other, and care for each other.
Only in this way can the relationship go farther and farther and the marriage better.
- Don't be "self-centered"
In a marriage, the most fearful thing is that each other only cares about themselves and never thinks about each other.
Some people do not hesitate to hurt the dignity of their other half in order to satisfy their own desires, regardless of the feelings and moods of the other person.
You feel like you can do whatever you want, you think you're great, and that kind of behavior can make your partner feel very sad.
Once you have this kind of thought, it is easy to disappoint, sad, or even doubt your own worth.
In fact, the most important thing in a good marriage relationship is "mutual respect". Each should consider each other's feelings and be considerate of each other.
If the other party needs your help with something, you should also help him and care for him in time.
Instead of focusing only on your own feelings and desires, without taking into account the feelings and emotions of the other person. This will make the other half feel very cold, and slowly will become disgusted with you.
The most feared thing in marriage is "self-centeredness", often calling each other and pointing fingers. Doing so will only make the other half feel undignified and worthless, creating a sense of "not being respected".
Therefore, it is important to remember that there must be mutual respect and understanding in marriage.
- Know how to think about the other person
After getting married, we always have to do a lot for the family. And to do these things, you have to consider the feelings of the other person.
There are some things that we can't just think about ourselves and ignore the feelings of the other person. Sometimes, we may feel that we are right, but that doesn't mean the other person will accept it.
Only in this way can the other person feel your love and care for him.
Sometimes, when we do things, if we don't take into account the other person's feelings, it is likely to cause great distress to the other person. At this time, you should learn to reflect on yourself instead of blaming yourself.
As a husband or wife, you should think more about the other person's feelings. When dealing with conflicts between two people, you need to understand that both people are independent individuals and need to respect their respective opinions.
- Learn to understand each other
As the saying goes, "Everyone has their own patterns of thinking and behaving." ”
In life, everyone has their own emotions and will have some shortcomings. Marriage is like a mirror, if you smile at it, it will smile at you, and if you cry at it, it will cry at you.
In married life, there is more understanding and tolerance between each other, and more tolerance and understanding, and the relationship will go deeper and deeper.
In life, we often encounter situations where you happily tell your friends, "Today I bought another piece of clothing that I liked." ”
My friend replied to you lightly: "Alas, I just bought a dress with a colleague, what is there to be happy about." ”
It's the same in married life, when you tell someone how you feel, but no one listens to you, no one understands your feelings.
Many times, when you vent your feelings and moods on others, the result is often not understood and supported.