I am Gu Jue, 56 years old this year, retired for many years, with a pension of 4,500 per month, living alone in a three-bedroom elevator room.
divorced from her ex-husband for ten years, her son followed her ex-husband, and now she also works and has a girlfriend.
A few days ago, my son made a video with me and told me that he was going to bring his girlfriend to visit me on May Day.
I am very excited and very relieved that my son is finally sensible and knows that he will come to visit my own mother during the holidays.
However, my son not only sent me the high-speed rail train, but also sent me the recipe for a few days of his visit, and asked me to prepare a red envelope of 8,800.
The son finally left a message saying that it was best to have both of them, so that his girlfriend could have a good impression of him.
The so-called good impression he said was just an illusion to the girl, that is, his own mother was not only capable, but also rich.
I replied to my son's message, saying that I could try to make the recipe as much as possible, and if it didn't work, I could go directly to the restaurant.
As for the two 8800 red envelopes that my son wanted, I can't give them, but my girlfriend, and my future daughter-in-law has not yet arrived, so I will give a thousand yuan red envelopes.
My son angrily sent me a few voice messages to the effect that he was embarrassed by what I did.
If I make his girlfriend unhappy because of the red envelope and break up with him, he will never visit me again.
I thought about it all night, and I felt that my son did not come to visit me, but came to me to make a marriage, and by the way, he made a tooth sacrifice.
The next morning, I also bought a high-speed rail ticket, locked the door and went out to play, why can't I be chic when I have money.
I also sent my high-speed rail ticket to my son and told him that I couldn't meet his request and that I would go out with my sisters.
My son replied to me with a very uncivilized picture, and I knew he was angry, and then my ex-husband's phone called.
My ex-husband asked me why I treated my son like this, and said that I had treated my son badly for ten years, and this was the best time for me to make amends.
I asked my ex-husband to figure out whether I was sorry for their father and son, or whether their father and son were open-minded when they saw money, and they were mothers if they had milk.
I think back then, my ex-husband got together with the little rich woman in the unit, and my son was already in high school and didn't understand anything, so he actually stood on the same line with his ex-husband, so I was more generous and forbearance.
After the divorce, the son knew that it was all his ex-husband's fault, and he was very polite and humble to them, and whoever gave him money to spend was his own mother.
After retiring at the age of 50, I went back to the house left by my parents to live in retirement, and I sold the house there at a high price.
After so many years, my son remembered the money in my hand and reconciled with me, just to take what he wanted from me.
I'm not stupid, after my parents passed away, my brother took the initiative to transfer my parents' house to me and let me live in the same city with them.
And I'm not an emotionless person, I discounted my parents' house, and I paid my brother half of the house money.
Now, I have a monthly pension and hundreds of thousands of pension money in my hand, and as for my son's marriage, I will be worthy of him if I give hundreds of thousands.
As for my house and pension money, depending on my son's future performance, if it is still the same as now, I'm sorry, I have a nephew.
My ex-husband and I are in a campus relationship, we worked hard all the way to middle age, he has a successful career, we have a house, a car, and a son.
But my ex-husband was bored with me in all kinds of ways, and he said that I was menopausal at every turn, and I was not as feminine as the little rich woman in his unit.
I was blocked at home several times, which made me sick, and when I got divorced, my ex-husband also wanted to transfer the property, so I blocked his way early.
All I need is a small house, the rest is converted into cash, there is no emotion, I only want practical benefits.
My ex-husband said that I was premeditated, and I want to say that everything has a cause and effect, and don't be too realistic or too proud.
The little rich woman is rich, she came from her ex-husband "pit", and sooner or later she will return it.
I remember that there is a saying that if you come out to mix, you have to return it sooner or later.
I heard an old colleague chatting about her ex-husband and his little rich woman, and an investment made them lose all their money and quarreled all day long.
My ex-husband is a person with a heart, and after divorcing me, although he was with the little rich woman, he didn't get a license to remarry her.
Now the two of them are also tearing up very much, and the little rich woman asked her ex-husband for a sum of money and went back to her son in the south.
My ex-husband is now living alone again, and my son has a girlfriend and wants to buy a house and get married, but he has no money, so he thinks of me.
Stringing these clues together, it's just that, after weighing the pros and cons, I am the best choice for my ex-husband and son.
My ex-husband asked my son to come over and test me first, to see if I still have feelings for them and whether I am still as accommodating as before.
If I still care about their father and son as much as I did before, my ex-husband will propose to remarry me, and everything about me will naturally belong to my son.
But my son never thought that ten years could completely change a person, and I was no longer the woman who was wronged and treated them as father and son.
My son wants to order, but I don't give him a chance, and my son wants two 8800 red envelopes to save face, and I don't satisfy him.
Angry, the father and son, one no longer replied to me, and the other called directly and said that I had no family affection.
People are like this, what they do is a last resort, and they can't help themselves, what a helpless choice.
When others don't do what they think about, they start blaming others and morally kidnapping others.
In the face of such an ex-husband, it is impossible to remarry, and it is also impossible to dedicate everything to his son.
The scars of the past are still there, and it's my mercy that I don't retaliate, and I want me to be good to them regardless of my previous suspicions, and I'm not stupid.
I'm just old, but I'm not confused, I know the ugliness of human nature, and I understand their true nature.
People who don't have character, no matter how good you are to them, even if you dig out your heart, they will still dislike it.
So, I live my own life, and as for how my son treats me, it depends on his own performance.
I have long figured out the beautiful tradition of "raising children and preventing old age", and that is conditional.
Thinking about myself everywhere, I feel that the little rich woman is rich, she is indifferent to me, and the son who makes me endure is not worth my contribution to him.
I don't know if I'm doing the right thing, but I do think my son is going too far, and he wants such a big red envelope before he gets married.
Author: Huagui Zen Heart
Follow my words and go into your heart. You have a story, I have tea, and we can talk about the rest of our lives together.
The pictures in the article come from the Internet.
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