The boss of flowing water, the iron-clad mother.
Two days ago, my brother panicked, what made this boss have trouble sleeping? It turned out that someone wanted to raid his nest! My brother said angrily: "Why is the quality of people like this now?"
The boss, who is in his 40s but looks like he is in his 50s, babbles like a sister-in-law in Xianglin and tells me about the tragic experience of being attacked in the belly and back.
It turned out that the boss had recently become seriously ill because of his mother-in-law's sudden illness, so he had to rush to Beijing, and he had to accompany his crying daughter-in-law. Looking at the fat daughter-in-law who is becoming more and more haggard and full of sadness, even if she is looking for flowers and willows on weekdays, but she still has a little conscience after all, she can only grit her teeth at this time and fight side by side with her wife.
The younger brother originally planned to inspect the branch in Beijing first, and then take an annual leave, plus a May Day holiday. In this way, I can have a month in Beijing and accompany my daughter-in-law steadily.
But who knows, there was a thunderbolt on a sunny day, and the family turned against the king of the mountain.
In his Linjiang mansion in Shanghai, an uncle in the owner group is said to have met him during the mask period and drank tea in the club, which can be regarded as a bit of friendship! But now, this uncle actually took advantage of his younger brother's absence to secretly launch an offensive against his nanny.
This made the younger brother panic immediately, and he directly Aite the uncle and boss in the owner group, yelling:
"If you have the ability, you rob my woman, rob my aunt, what kind of ability are you?"
This roar ushered in everyone's laughter, it turned out that this stalk was not the first time it appeared in their owner group. The last time I caused this was during the mask period. There is a female overlord and a mother of three babies, and she yelled angrily in the owner group:
"You have the ability to rob my man, but you don't have the ability to pry my aunt!"
And the owner of "Aunt Pry" seems to be a young lady, and this one is unequivocal, she replied: "I didn't look down on that man in your family at all, but your aunt is really fragrant!"
Hahaha, haha, this noisy one makes people laugh!
I didn't expect it! In a group of so-called high-net-worth individuals, the frequency of fighting and scolding for the aunt is so high. Alas, on this matter, the younger brother helplessly spread his hands and said:
"You don't know how important my two aunts in Shanghai are to me. Gold medal Wang Mom! It's so rare!"
By the way, the term "Wang Ma" is a new Internet meme, referring to those very tough, and not very bird-friendly domestic aunts, who rely on their true skills to dominate this field.
That's really: the broom bravely fights the tiger in the mountain, and the stir-fry spoon is good at cooking the dragon in the sea.
That's true!
A subordinate like his younger brother can manage tens of thousands of employees with an iron fist, but in front of his mother, who cooks at home, he also has to be accompanied by a smiling face, the reason is very simple, Wangma's strength is unmatched!
It's like, every time my brother goes abroad, he will pout a face, and he will be unhappy when he goes to any corner of the earth. But there was no way, in order to make a living, he also had to run around the docks, and the city that really made him feel relaxed. According to him, only Shanghai.
"Shanghai is the sea, and I am a fish! As soon as I return here, I feel like a fish diving into the sea. ”
Why do many high-net-worth individuals identify with Shanghai?
To be honest, I don't know.
The city of Shanghai has its unique Shanghainese culture and diverse and inclusive lifestyle, but at the same time, there is also a group of high-quality domestic service staff here. "The quality of Shanghai Auntie is very high. ”
In my brother's circle, many people sighed: "A good aunt can bring you a new life, and even make you extremely dependent." Therefore, not to mention taking her own "gold medal mother" on vacation, or to immigrate, this thing is not new.
A while ago, my brother had a big friend who was going to live in Japan for a long time. The only thing he can't hold on to is that he needs to convince the Wang Ma next to him. Wang Ma frowned and said awkwardly:
"I'm not used to it over there, the last time I accompanied you to Los Angeles, I stayed for two years, oops, it's really uncomfortable. ”
The reason is simple, these housekeepers can make your life extremely comfortable. My brother was very touched by this. He says that a high-level domestic worker can change your life.
I said, is it so evil?
This is indeed the case.
My brother pulled out a small essay for me from his phone.
What is the content? It is in solidarity with my brother. My bridge turned out to be the one, and the third baby mother who was also pried by the aunt, she appealed:
"Everyone must abide by the rules of the rivers and lakes, and don't pry the nanny casually. ”
Here, the mother of the three babies explained the importance of a nanny aunt to their family. In her words.
My family is: the boss of flowing water, the king mother of iron. I changed two husbands, but it was my aunt who stayed. Without my husband and the male boss, this family can still be turned, but without my aunt, my family will be paralyzed.
This Sanwa Bao's mother is an import and export trader, we don't know what to do, anyway, in their building, everyone sees the beginning and the end.
But what is certain is that the residents here are considered high-net-worth people, after all, the housing prices are there, and there is no small apartment in this building, from more than 200 square meters, to three or four hundred, some people simply buy two sets, that is to say, the housing area of the family is more than 500. That's what happened to this mother.
This mother, who has a housing area of more than 500 yuan, has three babies, and these three babies have their own backgrounds. This mother has been married three times, and three babies come from two fathers, think about it!
No way, many female bosses who work hard in the mall have more complicated stories, why? Anyway, now this mother lives with her mother, her eldest treasure is already in high school, the second treasure is in elementary school, and the third treasure was only obtained during the mask period, and she is still babbling.
According to this mother, the aunt who was favored by others and planned to pry it away was her housekeeper. This housekeeper's eldest sister started as a child-rearing sister-in-law. As early as seventeen years ago, when the eldest was just born, this aunt came to her house, in fact, the aunt's first job was an assistant to the sister-in-law.
It's that the child has his own 24-hour nanny, and the nanny brought a helper, and this helper is now the housekeeper. At that time, the housekeeper didn't know much about the housekeeping industry, but she had a heart that loved to learn and strive for progress.
Pay attention to this mentality, or rather, this spirit, which is a must for successful people in any industry.
Whether you are in an institution, a teacher, a company, or a state-owned enterprise, there are three kinds of people who are not easy to progress in their careers.
The first type of person is the lazy donkey.
The so-called lazy donkey just doesn't want to grind at all. When you get to a certain industry, you want to lie flat. If you can do less and do less, you can do less and do less, you can worry about it every day, you can say that the leader PUA him at every turn, his colleagues are targeting him, and the leader sends him too much work, which is not fair!
The second is the stupid donkey, the so-called stupid donkey, that is, in the industry, always do the work in front of him. Without the idea of breaking through upwards, they always stay in the same state, and this kind of person is not easy to progress.
The third case is, stubborn donkey.
It's a lack of team spirit, and I can't get along with anyone, and I'm particularly sensitive and irritable. In case of trouble, it will not be solved in a roundabout way, it will always explode directly or simply ostrich policy.
The real gold medal queen mothers are able to avoid these three big pits, and they are running dexterously and the road to success.
When the housekeeper's eldest sister first came, she was a nursery. She is very diligent and willing to accept her own work. The cleaner needs to be substituted, and she goes on. I also asked people for advice on how to clean it. The cooking master is off today and needs to leave early, so she also goes up to the kitchen to help chop vegetables and spoons.
Anyway, it is posted at work 24 hours a day, in the words of this eldest sister: "Hey, I am much more tired than working in my hometown factory, and now the living and working environment is very good, and the income is not low, why don't I do more." ”
The housekeeper's eldest sister is very simple, easy to speak, and happily pesters some small entanglements every day, and small frictions can also be easily advanced and retreated, and actively lubricated, her optimistic temperament is deeply liked by everyone.
Here, let's interject a sentence as well.
Some people are born with a unique temperament of a "funeral committee", and the role of such people in the group is the meat between the teeth and the sand of the shoes. Although the lethality is not great, the discomfort it brings to people is not small, and no one wants to be colleagues with them.
It's not that a person should have no emotions, but that a passionate, cheerful and lively person is a beam of light wherever he goes, and in this way, the housekeeper's eldest sister is like a beam of light, shooting into this 500-square-meter mansion!
First of all, she has a good relationship with her employer. Note that in the beginning, both she and the hostess were difficult to reach. Because there are five nannies in this family, but at a certain opportunity, the housekeeper's eldest sister and the hostess's mother, a grandmother with a sad face and anxious about many trivial matters, chatted......
Her enthusiastic temperament affected the grandmother, making the grandmother laugh happily, and since then the grandmother has valued her very much, and handed over many things to her to do. This housekeeper sister is like James in the NBA, nicknamed Magic, he can play the full position. All five positions on the pitch are up to the task!
This is what the housekeeper's eldest sister's employer said about her. Indeed, she is a good hand at taking care of children, patient and gentle, and runs around with children.
Cooking is also a good hand. A set of Sichuan cuisine, although it is not the standard of the hotel, but the level of home cooking, so that the employer can eat very comfortably. He had no problem driving, and at his employer's house, the eldest sister learned to drive. It should be said here that it is not easy for a nanny to learn a car book at her own expense. Many people don't learn in their lifetime.
Even this eldest sister can do some kung fu. She is tall and big, and once the children in the family were at school and had a conflict with others. At this time, the housekeeper's eldest sister immediately rushed over with a loud voice and blocked in front of the small employer.
Note that the quality of this eldest sister is really not low. She knows that she can't make physical contact with others, but she can be as loud as she wants to be and as high as she can. She kicked a small tree and scared the little foreigners straight back. It was said that she had Chinese kung fu, and she no longer dared to bully her small employer.
That's it, a gold medal queen mother, shining in the employer's house, do you think this is the end? no no no!
In addition, it was not long before her employer discovered that she had another skill, which was her very good coordination skills.
As long as there are people, there will be contradictions, and solving these parents' conflicts is a compulsory course for managers. Bosses who can manage large companies and do big business outside do not necessarily have the time and energy to appease a few staff members at home.
So the housekeeper's eldest sister went to work, and she arranged several waiters at home properly. If you are really not suitable to work here, you will be fired immediately, and there will be no delay!
I heard that there is a little big sister nanny. In his 30s, because of his relatively high education, he has always refused to obey the management, and he has made mistakes repeatedly.
The employer just wanted to fire her. But the housekeeper's eldest sister said very angrily: "We can't let her go like this, she left like this, it's unfair to the rest of the people, and she has caused us a lot of losses." ”
So the eldest sister directly found the intermediary company and submitted the evidence. She angrily reprimanded the little sister for the mistakes she made at work.
For example, if a piece of clothing is deliberately put in the washing machine, something can go wrong, and a four-figure coat will be scrapped! The employer is naturally angry and angry at the cleaning aunt.
But after checking the camera, the housekeeper's eldest sister clarified the matter. She helped the cleaning sister clear her grievances. At the same time, he also solemnly reported this matter to the nanny agency. In this regard, the housekeeper's eldest sister explained: "I can't let the good people be wronged, and I can't let the bad people get their way." In this house, such incidents cannot be allowed to happen again. ”
This practice not only punished the nanny who left, but also sounded the alarm bell for the nanny who stayed. Working in this home, you can't tear each other down, everyone must cooperate sincerely, just like that, a lot of trivial friction in the family has been basically eliminated since then.
Because, the housekeeper's eldest sister let out a statement: If anyone demolishes my table, I will knock on whose job.
Now, this mother of the third baby has handed over all the mess at home to the housekeeper eldest sister. She said with satisfaction: "If I go on a business trip now, I can call my eldest sister, and I can walk with my legs raised, which is very reassuring." ”
The children do their homework, attend extracurricular classes, and learn to speak, and even my special mother can be well taken care of.
Think about such a nanny, who wants to let go?
In the face of another owner's 1.5 times the annual salary, the nanny housekeeper's eldest sister politely declined and was unmoved, and the other party raised the salary again. Twice as much is mentioned. But the housekeeper's eldest sister is still not moved.
Moreover, she told her employer, who had just returned from a business trip, about the beginning of the scene, in which the employer roared angrily:
"It's easy to shake my man, but it's hard to pry my aunt!"
In this regard, when the aunts chatted together, some people also asked the housekeeper's eldest sister. In this building, the aunts come and go, have their own special elevators, and they often chat in private and ask each other about their work. If there is an aunt, she asks:
"With such a high salary, why don't you change jobs, why do you stick to your current boss?"
When the housekeeper's eldest sister heard this, she smiled and said:
"The family paid me such a high salary, and all they wanted was for me to come to her house, to put in order for her, and to take care of everything. But I'm not able to lose my temper with any employer. Now my employer can give me power, my grandmother, she calls the employer's mother grandma. Grandma and I also get along well, although the old lady has a bad temper, but I can coax her.
If I go to other homes, I can't get it these days, I just have the ability, and I can't show it there, and people don't see me so bright, so I guess I won't have to work for a year, after all, the family that can open 300,000 annual salaries has candidates behind!
To tell the truth, this matter has reached my ears over and over again, and I have picked a thumbs up for this eldest sister. There are levels!
Being able to see clearly in the workplace that the time and place are right for you, these three workers are a big understanding, and it seems that this eldest sister is really a leader in this field.
At the same time, the two nannies of my brother's family are also leaders in the industry. Their deeds will be with me and you.
First of all, cooking rice, Sister Ah Jin is relying on hard power, in the words of her younger brother, it is my blessing to be able to have Ah Jin, and I picked up a leak.
Sister Ah Jin is a chef with a lot of heritage.
Her master can be traced back to a celebrity chef in Shanghai Tang Restaurant before liberation. could have shown her skills in the kitchen world, but fate gave her a shortcoming.
Ah Jin has a major flaw, that is, she suffered a foot injury in her early years, and as she gets older, this injury affects her body more and more.
Chefs used to be called diligent. It was purely physical labor. I heard that the earliest chefs had to learn to shake the sand, ten catties and 20 catties of iron sand in the big stir-fry spoon, and they had to dance, and the environment of roasting and baking on the big stove was not good to carry down and eat, Sister Ah Jin was in poor health, so these couldn't be done.
So she came to a 'dragon diving ditch, tiger falling cat café' lurking in a small boss's house!
In fact, the younger brother also felt that he had met a soulmate after occasionally eating Ah Jin's dishes. He shook his head and sighed, "That family won't eat, but it's a pity for Ah Jin's craftsmanship." Then the younger brother's gluttony teased him several times before he poached the gold medal mother.
My brother, this man is delicious. And in addition to that, he has many social requirements. Entertain yourself at home and entertain some business associates. The weekend private banquet is a business card of the younger brother's family. His house in Shanghai is basically equivalent to a small office, and can even be interpreted as a private club.
The requirements for chefs in this kind of place are very high, to cook a well-thought-out dish, to make the guests able to eat happy and convincing, oops, now this kind of "hardcore princess" is really too popular.
If Ah Jin is slightly dissatisfied, within seven steps, a boss will drag her home. "My brother once said this about her.
However, in addition to his good cooking skills, Ah Jin also has a bad temper, yelling at his employer, and even slapping the table and yelling.
Why? The hard-hearted Wang Ma once got deeply involved in the life of her employer's family, stood up for her wife, and complained about many things.
With her upright character, fiery temper, and unique personality charm, Ah Jin has won the hearts of many people, and also won the dumbness of some people!
This is the power in the workplace!
I speak from strength, and as for temper, the employer has to rely on me. If you have this kind of rank, then often the person who has to make concessions to you in some aspects is likely to have a special affection for you in the long-term contact.
Of course, the premise of all this is a solid business. An ordinary cleaning aunt and a part-time worker can't reach this realm. But I just want to express that in the nanny industry, there are people who can reach this level.
In fact, in nearly 20 years of getting along, my younger brother also developed a relationship with Ah Jin, this old lady in her 60s, every meal she cooked for this family was dedicated, and she and the employer, who was about the same age as her son, also had a kind of emotional attachment to mother and son.
Their relationship has gone beyond employers and aunts to be more like relatives.
When his younger brother was hospitalized for surgery that year, he was just in time for his daughter-in-law and the little lady outside him.
At this time, Sister Ah Jin stepped forward and said that I would take care of my husband. Don't go either of you, it's not appropriate for anyone to go.
In the military hospital where his younger brother sought medical treatment, the nurses were busy and there were few nurses, so Ah Jin was by his side as a family member, which made his younger brother also very moved.
Lying on the bed, he wilted and said to Ah Jin:
"Well, sometimes I am, too. Make a mess of the house. ”
This is not a conversation between an employer and a domestic helper, it is a question asked by a man in his 40s to an old lady.
The younger brother respects the struggle of the old man and is upright. So in line with the principle of heroes and lovers, he sometimes wants to listen to Ah Jin's opinions on many family matters.
Nowadays, Sister Ah Jin's favorite joke is when people ask her, how much money do you earn a month?
"Not a lot, three or four thousand. ”
Hearing this, the other party will immediately widen his eyes and say: "Hey, Handa, you inquire in Shanghai, how can there be a live-in aunt who earns so little, earns so little, you can do it too." ”
Hearing this, Ah Jin curled his lips slightly and said: "I'm over 60 now, I cook at home, and our boss is for me to support the elderly." ”
In view of the fact that other employers can't provide it for the elderly, this gold medal queen mother can finally settle down, but who knows that the gourd is pressed and the scoop is raised.
Another nanny in her brother's family, with her excellent grades, attracted the prying eyes of others.
A few days ago, a retired boss offered an annual salary of 360,000 yuan and wanted to poach Aunt Mimi from his younger brother's family. In this regard, Aunt Mimi hurriedly waved her hand and said:
"I don't understand, I don't understand, how can I be worth so much money!"
In fact, when Aunt Mimi first came to her brother's house, she was also a little timid. She is very slow to do things, which is due to her personality. I've found that some people are born with a snail personality. But Mimi has a unique condition, she loves to learn and study. And there is also a certain cultural foundation. She can be in the housekeeping industry, like a nail, very specialized, which is really worthy of her high salary.
For example, my brother is a very resourceful person. A lot of things don't just use once or twice and then throw them away.
One of his suits was made in England, but a friend accidentally burned a hole in a cigar, what should I do? Aunt Mimi took the clothes and immediately contacted the store on the Internet, and then planned to send it back to the UK to change the cuffs, but the British side said that the new fabric had a color difference with this fabric. So Mimi changed the appearance of the suit after many coordinations, and finally, half a year later, the newly repaired clothes were sent back to Shanghai.
This made the younger brother very satisfied, as he found that his aunt was very international. In addition, my brother's family has a lot of party tasks, and as a live-in aunt, Mimi can do it all perfectly.
I remember when I was staying at my brother's house, I once went to Hilton for afternoon tea with Aunt Mimi.
If ordinary people only take this as a pleasure, but Aunt Mimi doesn't. She picked up her mobile phone and took many photos of afternoon tea, and she was also very interested in table art.
Every time she has a banquet, she decorates the dining table and makes people praise her.
In addition, Aunt Mimi will dabble in arranging flower and bonsai, serving goldfish, raising grasshoppers, maintaining antique furniture, oil paintings, arranging cocktails and plates at banquets, storing cigars and tea, and even tuning the piano.
I think it's admirable to be able to have such a high level of skill and perfection as a nanny. In every industry, there are people who strive for excellence, and this kind of person will receive a generous reward sooner or later.
In addition, Mimi, a middle-aged aunt from Shanghai, also pays special attention to her appearance. Even as a nanny, Yi has a pair of delicate and white hands, and she wears gloves for all cleaning work.
My brother appreciated this very much, and he said that many aunts don't wear gloves when they work, why? In the door, Mimi lay on the ground and carefully waxed the floor. But as soon as you go out, you still have exquisite makeup, elegant hairstyle, wear a beautiful little fragrance suit, and go to the beautiful 'Bai Xiangxiang'!
''Actually, I bought it all online!''
Mimi's most expensive small incense suit is only 400 yuan. She always laughed and said that she was a good look.
Ten pieces of chemical fiber silk scarves, flat imitation sheepskin ballet shoes for less than 100 yuan, the only thing that can be taken is her bag. It's Gucci's, and it's a department store point card for it. The little lady gave her the bag as a New Year's gift.
Say a few words to her face-to-face, you won't think that she is a cleaning aunt carrying a bucket and a rag, you will think that Yi is a typical Shanghai home wife, and her actions are gentle and elegant. Speak like an orchid. Yi speaks slowly, but he can come in both Chinese and English, and his pronunciation is very positive. In the clubhouse, he talked generously with the foreign residents.
Note that Mimi only picked up English after arriving at this house.
She takes classes on her phone every night, writes words on her phone, and takes them out to read when she has nothing to do. Can you imagine an aunt lying on the floor cleaning the carpet, tired, stretching her waist, sitting next to her, taking out her mobile phone from her pocket and flipping out a word list. Well, back ten today!
This is the worker of the new era, this is the high-quality blue-collar worker. If you want to be respected by your employer and be competitive in the industry, learning is a hurdle that cannot be bypassed.
I told Mimi that there was a lot to be done in the housekeeping industry. In the UK, there are specialized home economics colleges. The trained nanny can fly a helicopter in the sky and get a diving certificate when she goes to sea. can massage and bartend, can fight and shoot, of course, forget about this last one, it's useless to our country.
The housekeeping sister with such superpowers, of course, will be cherished by the employer, so there is the scene of the younger brother at the beginning,
The employer angrily reprimanded the strong enemy, and the boss protected the mother!
In my brother's words:
"My girl, you can grab it casually, my aunt, don't try to pry. ”
But I also want to gossip! I asked Aunt Mimi, why don't you jump ship to that family? After all, the salary is high! Mimi heard this, pursed her lips and smiled, and she said:
"Hey, in fact, I'll tell you, auntie, I hate that boss, an uncle, who wears colorful clothes all day long, swinging and swinging in the clubhouse!
Two eyes stared at me, one face, squinting. To say that our husband is not uncolored. I'm sorry. Oh, I'm not saying that the gentleman is good. Oh no.
Ah. You know, I don't speak. Sir, this person is naturally a little colored. But he's not going to do anything to me! He's not going to swing with his eyes. That old man, a pair of eyes swayed, making people look scared, I wanted to run. Speaking of which, it's better to be here. The proprietor is also kind and takes care of me. As for me, I am a chronic child, but I am not lazy, I don't slip my head, I don't tear down dirt, I don't lose flowers, and I live a down-to-earth life. You give me time and I'll do things well. ”
By the way, when Aunt Mimi started work on her first day, the first sentence she introduced herself was this sentence, and I just watched her from the side at that time. Now, three years later, she has really reached the realm of what she said, "doing things well".
"Get things done, do products well, and achieve these two things, and we can succeed. ”
This is what Lei Jun, president of Xiaomi, once said!
From craftsmanship to craftsmanship, from car manufacturing to housekeeping, countless workers are pursuing progress and excellence every day. As a result, our country is getting better and better......
Happy Labor Day, all ordinary workers!
