The self-report of the cheating man: Why do you have to make a fuss for the mistress if you don't love the mistress?
Many cheating men have grievances against their wives.
This resentment is accumulated little by little in daily life, some small contradictions have not been resolved.
Maybe the original partner thinks that these are not problems, but the cheating man holds a grudge,
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Don't think too generous about men, men are more serious than women.
Before, a cheating man came to Jiaxin and wanted to redeem his original partner who insisted on divorce.
This man has been cheating for more than a year, and when he was discovered, he didn't have a little repentance.
The cheating man feels that he is not wrong, and he cheats because of the factor of the original wife,
Because the original partner usually doesn't think highly enough of him, he feels that the marriage is very painful,
So what's wrong with cheating on a junior who is good to him?
In the words of the cheating man himself: I'm just pursuing happiness, am I wrong?
At first, he didn't admit his mistakes, and blamed the problem of derailment on the original partner.
The wife is clamoring to solve the extramarital affair, and the cheating man is not only unwilling to cooperate,
will also help the junior deal with the original match when the original partner and the junior tear each other apart.
Seeing that the original partner is so painful, this original partner will not feel distressed, nor will he feel guilty, and even have a kind of pleasure,
He felt that by cheating, he vented some of the grievances accumulated in his marriage.
This is also a point that many original partners would never think of, a man cheats with a revenge mentality.
Why is the cheating man so bad, and the original wife does not insist on divorce?
In fact, many times, extramarital affairs are carried out on the open card,
What does the original partner think, the cheating man knows it very well in his heart, and will even use it,
Thinking about what this cheating man said, his wife is so painful, and there has been no reason for divorce,
On the one hand, there are many years of feelings, although there are usually contradictions, but there are also good times,
The wife is not only looking at the contradictions between the two people, but also when she is optimistic,
In addition, after a man cheats, he will occasionally coax his wife to give his wife some expectations.
The original partner always feels that cheating can be lived, and marriage can still go back to the past.
With such expectations, wives will choose to stick to their marriage in an attempt to separate the cheating man and the mistress.
On the other hand, for the sake of children, the two have been married for more than ten years and have a son, a daughter and two children.
The original partner also had friends around him, but he was unhappy after getting married and chose to divorce.
The child was given to the man, and the man was unwilling to let him see it, so it was very painful.
The original partner also said to the cheating man, and the cheating man also took advantage of this.
Many of the original partners may not know that what you usually say, your kindness and soft-heartedness, will be used by cheating men to deal with you.
How to solve this kind of extramarital affair, you can find the answer from the questions that cheating men come to consult.
This cheating man came to Jiaxin because the original partner woke up and didn't want to be obsessed and insisted on divorce.
Many original partners do have feelings for cheating men, and they will also have certain expectations.
I am worried that the divorce will affect the children, so if I can save the marriage, I will try to save it.
But some cheating men are really not worth retrieving, not only do they not recognize the mistake of cheating,
also used extramarital affairs as a means of revenge against his wife, and his wife slowly felt the true psychology of the cheating man.
His partner actually resented himself, and after cheating, he didn't care about his children, and he wanted to take revenge on himself.
Even the junior is pregnant, and the cheating man uses this incident to further stimulate the original partner.
No matter how deep the original partner is, his feelings are consumed by the words and deeds of the cheating man.
So this original partner woke up and planned to divorce.
Many extramarital affairs are, once the original partner really plans to divorce, the cheating man has almost no room for redemption.
The cheating man mistakenly thought at first that his wife was just threatening divorce,
But the wife took out the divorce agreement, as well as some evidence of the man's cheating,
Tell the cheating man that if he is not willing to divorce by agreement, then he intends to sue for divorce.
What does the cheating man do, what price will the cheating man pay,
As long as the cheating man is not afraid of the announcement of the original partner and is not afraid to bear the price,
Then don't sign the agreement, don't cooperate with the agreement to get married, and the original partner doesn't care about the court.
The cheating man looked at the firm attitude of the original partner, and finally began to be afraid,
He just wanted to cheat, and he never thought of divorcing for the sake of the mistress.
The cheating man thinks that no matter how much trouble he makes, how he hurts the original partner, as long as he returns to the family in the end.
Everything can be passed, but I didn't think that people's hearts would be cold, and everything would be over when the heart was broken.
A lot of chicken soup is saying that whoever you marry is the same,
But I'll tell you that choosing who to marry is really different,
Someone will be your light, someone will put out all the light in your world.
If you meet someone, you have a bad personality, a weakness in the ability to manage a marriage, and there are some shortcomings,
He will also tolerate you, help you, and even accompany you to change a little bit.
If you meet the wrong person,
Even if you are first-class, have a good personality, and are flawless,
He is also able to torture you beyond recognition with all kinds of operations that make you miserable, nauseous, and tired.
At this time, it is the best choice to stop losses in time.
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I'm Jiaxin, a marriage defender who focuses on the separation of third parties.