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Text: Xie Wenqing
Minglan stopped Mo Lan from doing things for Lin Xiaoniang, Minglan was very obvious, she didn't hide it, and she revealed it directly, so everyone would understand it at a glance.
I felt that I couldn't find a point to dig deeper.
However, when a family sits together for dinner and talks about it, it is different, everyone has their own position and thoughts, and they all express themselves in different ways.
Through the way of expression, we can get a glimpse of a person's personality, different ways of doing things and ways of thinking.
Although it will not be permanent for a long time, it will definitely be the same with a high probability.
Therefore, this article will be interpreted in detail through dialogue analysis.
Analysis of Character Dialogue (Family)
Dialogue Characters:
Sheng Hong, the eldest lady, Mo Lan, Liang Han, Rulan, Minglan
Conversation Background:
Mo Lan married into the Earl's Court as she wished, although the way was a little unbearable and the process was a little bumpy, but in the end she got her wish.
Lin Xiaoniang was beaten to death by Sheng Hong for the affair of indulging in women's cheating.
Minglan married Gu Tingye, an upstart in the court, and was also named Mrs. Decree.
Whether it is from the family that he married into, or the official, and now his personal identity, he has properly crushed Mo Lan.
Detailed analysis of the content of the dialogue:
Mo Lan: In a few days, it will be my little mother's birthday.
When Mo Lan said this, the camera showed Sheng Hong, Sheng Hong just stopped eating the food in his mouth, and then the camera was given to the eldest lady, and the eldest lady also slowed down significantly.
We have to admit that Sheng Hong once loved Lin Yushuang deeply, although this woman has deceived him countless times, but we have to admit that this woman has also given him the most wonderful love in his life.
That lingering and sympathetic emotion seems to bind Sheng Hong and Lin Yushuang tightly together, making their relationship go beyond simple love and become an emotional bond that is difficult to give up.
In Sheng Hong's eyes, Lin Yushuang is not only a beautiful woman, but also a person who can touch the depths of his heart and make him feel the truest and purest emotions in his life.
They have had many sweet moments, and in those moments, every smile and every look of Lin Yushuang can make Sheng Hong intoxicated, as if he is in a dreamlike world.
When they are together, whether they whisper or hug each other affectionately, they are full of endless tenderness and sweetness.
However, this love is not without its flaws.
Lin Yushuang's deception and betrayal made Sheng Hong's heart hurt so much that he couldn't breathe. However, even after knowing the truth, Sheng Hong still couldn't let go of his feelings for Lin Yushuang.
He tried to hate her, to forget her, but every effort ended in failure. Because deep down in his heart, Lin Yushuang has become an indispensable part of his life.
This kind of love is complex, with sweetness and tenderness, as well as pain and struggle. But it is this complexity that makes their love more real.
Perhaps, this is the reason why Sheng Hong can't forget Lin Yushuang.
Mo Lan's reminder evoked Sheng Hong's memories for a long time at this time.
Mo Lan continued: There is something to say, a day husband and wife for a hundred days, and I hope that my father can read on the love of the past, for my little mother, greatly do a ritual, move her tablet from Yizhuang, and enshrine it in Yuqingguan, so that you can enjoy some incense, so that you will not be completely lost!
While Mo Lan was talking, the camera returned to Minglan , who kept her head down and was silent, her eyes empty.
The eldest lady slowed down because she was surprised, she was thinking or reminiscing, probably thinking about her past relationship with Mo Lan's little lady. Her slow motion reflects the complex emotions inside her.
Minglan bowed her head and was silent, thinking about how to stop it, Minglan didn't stop it directly, but the kind of stop that wanted to stop it, but also didn't fall into the handle, but it was not limited to when it couldn't be stopped, it was hard.
Big lady: Shut up, dare to mention this again.
The eldest lady is so direct, completely ignoring, and willful. This kind of life, not aggrieved, when you are angry, when you have something to say, recklessly, but also refreshing.
Mo Lan: Yes, I shouldn't have mentioned it.
Mo Lan's biggest advantage is that he can adjust his posture in a timely manner and not easily collide with others.
She understands that in dealing with people, a soft attitude is often more effective than tough. This is vividly reflected in her subsequent words and deeds.
She lowered her eyes gently, and her voice softened a little: It's just that in the past few days, I have always dreamed that my little mother is crying to me at night, and my heart is very uneasy. I don't know if she's down there, whether she's cold and sinful.
As he spoke, he began to weep, and took out his handkerchief and pretended to wipe away his tears. Mo Lan's trick can be said to have been passed on by Lin Xiaoniang, and Sheng Hong eats this set the most.
Liang Han was moved.
During this period, Minglan picked up delicacies with chopsticks and offered Sheng Hong, which meant to prevent his father from agreeing. The eldest lady dropped her chopsticks directly, her face changed, and she almost started scolding.
Minglan was worried that Sheng Hong would agree. As for Sheng Hong, deliberately pretending to be stupid, he knew that almost no one at this table, except for Mo Lan and Liang Han, would agree.
He used to remind everyone to "eat" and wanted to prevaricate about it.
If everyone pretends to be stupid and doesn't speak, and if they don't speak, they don't object, and no one answers, and it will be over, and the meal will be over.
However, at this time, the eldest lady spoke: Don't say anything meritorious or not, if you say it, it will stain the lintel of my Sheng family.
The eldest lady's sentence is an extremely objectionable sentence, but it is equivalent to once again showing the topic that Sheng Hong pretended to be stupid to avoid in front of the public.
This is the most brainless part of the eldest lady, she doesn't go through her brain when she speaks, and she doesn't look at words and feelings.
I can't understand what everyone means.
Mo Lan said so much, if Sheng Hong wanted to agree, would he still pretend to be stupid and prevaricate by reminding everyone to eat?
It is clear that Sheng Hong disagrees, no matter how Sheng Hong struggles in his heart.
Besides, Sheng Hong had already used dinner to divert the topic of Mo Lan, and she was still rushing upward, how unobservant is this?
Liang Han was puzzled: Mother-in-law, what are these words?
Why is Liang Han confused?
Because Liang Han didn't know what kind of person Lin Xiaoniang was and what she died for.
The eldest lady felt that she had said the wrong thing, and she didn't know how to explain it at this time in the face of Liang Han's questioning.
He prevaricated and said: It's all some chores at home, eat, you eat first.
Liang Han: I think the eighth day of the next lunar month is a good day. It's better for my father-in-law to go to Yuqingguan that day, and the little thing of going to the tablet can't delay my father-in-law for long.
From Liang Han's specific date of "the eighth day of the next month", it can be seen that Mo Lan had discussed with Liang Han before he came.
Therefore, the two of them sang and worked together to promote the successful resolution of this matter.
Sheng Hong hesitated, half raised his head, looked left and right, and sighed: "I happened to rest that day." "It's a promise, although it's not happy enough, but it's also a promise.
Minglan immediately picked out a delicacy for Sheng Hong's chopsticks, and said casually: My little lady is also in Yuqingguan?
Minglan wanted to provoke her father to recall that when she asked her father to do something for her little mother, her father refused to do it, meaning not to favor one over the other.
Liang Han: It's all a family, that's just right, to be a companion with my aunt's mother.
Liang Han is a son-in-law after all, and he knows little about the contradictions between the daughters of the Sheng family's house.
The mistake Liang Han made here was to make inappropriate statements without fully understanding the complex relationships and contradictions within the Sheng family.
This is at home, if in the workplace, it is taboo to make such a mistake.
For example, without understanding the team culture, history, and internal relationships, and in the absence of in-depth investigation and research, you make rash comments and raise sensitive topics in inappropriate situations.
The end result may not only lead to work mistakes or team conflicts, but may also inadvertently touch on the pain points of others, causing unnecessary friction and conflict.
Lay a mine for your future career path. The right thing to do is to either do your homework in advance and investigate thoroughly before making a statement, or just listen and not speak.
Minglan: It's better not to be alone.
You see, Liang Han's words stepped on Minglan 's pain point, and Minglan who has always been rational and cautious also made a counterattack.
The atmosphere froze all of a sudden, including Sheng Hong, who was also a little stunned, it was possible that he predicted that someone would come out to oppose it, but it would definitely not be Minglan .
The eldest lady finally had a little awareness and came out to adjust the atmosphere: the sun is shining, why bother talking about this. Eat, everyone eats first.
Everyone bowed their heads to eat, including Sheng Hong.
If this is the case, this matter will pass smoothly, but, unfortunately, Mo Lan's unyielding nature makes it impossible for Mo Lan to swallow this breath.
She came out of the White Lotus: Now the sixth sister is in a high position, but her father is still in charge of family affairs. I only pity my little mother, alone in Yizhuang, a lonely person, I am a son of man, I....
What is one of the biggest characteristics of the White Lotus?
One of the greatest characteristics of the White Lotus is that it displays an image of excessive purity, innocence and weakness in order to win the sympathy and attention of others.
They are usually adept at disguising their true intentions with a weak posture in order to achieve their goals.
In this scene, Mo Lan shows us a typical example.
She evokes Sheng Hong's sympathy and concern by describing the loneliness and desolation of her little mother in Yizhuang, as well as her helplessness as a son of man who cannot do anything.
She hoped that Sheng Hong would change her attitude towards Minglan because of her pity and weakness, and give her more support and attention.
However, it is important to understand that this image of excessive purity and effeminity is often false, because their true intentions and motives are often not pure.
The White Lotus will use the sympathy and attention of others for her own personal gain, or by manipulating the emotions of others to achieve her own ends.
In our dealings with others, we need to be wary of those who overly present themselves as pure, innocent, and weak, to avoid being deceived by their appearance, and to understand their true intentions and motives in order to make informed judgments and decisions.
Sheng Hong: Mo'er. It's nothing more than wanting to do a Dharma deed and go over.
You must know that Sheng Hong eats the White Lotus very much, Lin Yushuang was the top treasure in the White Lotus, and the one Sheng Hong ate in the first half of his life was a drunk, drunk dream.
That taste, that feeling, is like opium, once it is a little tempting, the limbs in the body will sprout.
Minglan: Dad, you try this fish, I made it myself.
Sheng Hong: Now you have to seal your life, and the spring breeze is proud, but you don't have to gag me!
Minglan was indeed blocking Sheng Hong's mouth with a fish, and Sheng Hong agreed that Mo Lan would do something for Lin Xiaoniang. My daughter, how can my father not understand it, they are all people who understand.
So, since Sheng Hong knew that Minglan and the eldest lady didn't agree to do things for Lin Xiaoniang, why did he agree?
One is that Mo Lan's white lotus touched Sheng Hong's "addiction".
Mo Lan showed her weakness and helplessness, arousing Sheng Hong's sympathy, making him feel Lin Xiaoniang's loneliness in Yizhuang, as well as the helplessness and pain of being a daughter.
This emotional touch made Sheng Hong somewhat inclined to support Mo Lan.
One is that Sheng Hong is worried that his authority will be challenged in front of his son-in-law Liang Han.
Mo Lan's "sixth sister is now in a high position, but the family affairs are still in charge of the father. In such a situation, Sheng Hong wants to show the authority of the head of his family,
As the head of the Sheng family, Sheng Hong wants to have the final say in family matters.
I have to say that Mo Lan is a white lotus who understands people's hearts.
You must know that if Sheng Hong appears too weak or indecisive in front of his son-in-law, it may make Liang Han question his authority.
Therefore, in order to maintain his position and authority, Sheng Hong prefers to make a tough decision, even if this decision is contrary to the wishes of Minglan and the eldest lady.
Mo Lan took advantage of the situation and chased closely: Sixth sister, now that she has married into a high gate, she can't turn back and snub your sister and me! Is it possible, do you want me to kneel down and beg you?
Seeing that Minglan didn't respond, she knelt down and said, "Okay, I can kneel."
Angry, no?
Mo Lan's behavior is indeed very annoying, she adopted the way of the White Lotus, forcing Minglan to submit by showing weakness and pretending to be pitiful, which is enough to show her selfishness and cunning.
Mo Lan deliberately mentioned that Minglan married into a high family, implying that Minglan is now in a better position, but she should not be snubbed as a sister because of this. This kind of remarks is not only rude, but also full of provocation and dissatisfaction with Minglan .
Mo Lan made a kneeling posture, and interpreted the behavior of the white lotus to the extreme.
She wanted to show her "sincerity" and "helplessness" in this way, so as to force Minglan to change her attitude. However, this kind of behavior is actually an insult and provocation to Minglan and completely disregards Minglan 's feelings and position.
Mo Lan did not want to communicate with Minglan in a reasonable way, and the act of kneeling was an extreme and provocative way, which would only exacerbate the contradictions and conflicts between the two.
Not only does she disrespect Minglan but she also doesn't respect herself. This kind of behavior only makes people more disgusted with her.
However, this method is especially useful for men.
Liang Han helped Mo Lan up, and said unevenly: How can there be a reason for a sister to kneel to a sister in the world. Sixth Aunt, this is the private matter of the eldest lady of my family, and it is also the matter of my father, and it does not hinder you in any matter?
When Minglan heard this, she threw the chopsticks uncontrollably.
Let's analyze, why did Liang Han's words provoke Minglan to throw chopsticks regardless of her image?
Although Liang Han's words are partly out of consideration for maintaining family harmony and respecting elders, there are some problems with his attitude and rhetoric.
First, he lifted Mo Lan up and hugged him, indicating that he was on Mo Lan's side. He is Mo Lan's husband, and this position is beyond reproach.
However, he did not fully take into account the complexity of the whole incident and the multi-party position. Without getting to the bottom of the background and details of the incident, he made his judgment with ease. This stance shows that he lacks sufficient rationality and objectivity in dealing with family affairs.
Secondly, he said that "there is no truth in the world where sisters kneel to sisters", which on the surface seems to be to maintain the seniority and dignity of the family, but in fact it ignores the complex relationships and contradictions that may exist between family members.
In the family, seniority and dignity are important, but what is more important is mutual respect and understanding. Mo Lan forced Minglan to give in by kneeling, which in itself was disrespectful and irrational, but Liang Han did not point it out.
Finally, he said, "This is the private matter of my eldest lady, and it is also the business of my father, and it does not hinder you in any business?
This sentence clearly revealed his disgust at Minglan participating in this matter.
As a member of the family, Minglan is reasonable in her concern and involvement in family affairs, and she also has her own positions and opinions. Liang Han's attitude is actually rejecting Minglan 's opinion and participation, which is not conducive to family harmony and unity.
This passage, especially the last sentence, is to stimulate Minglan to rise to the point where she threw chopsticks.
Minglan: She wants to kneel herself, not me who wants her to kneel.
Even though he was so angry that he threw his chopsticks, he still spoke in a calm tone when he explained. Minglan is still able to control her emotions.
Father Sheng Hong felt that Minglan challenged his authority: What are you doing? It's not your turn to call the shots.
Minglan bluntly explained: From ancient times to the present, there has not been a murderer worthy of standing in front of the dead.
This sentence is so difficult for Minglan to say, if she is not forced to the extreme, she will not say it.
But Sheng Hong deliberately pretended not to know and asked: What?
Sheng Hong, what kind of god operation is this, is he making the situation uncontrollable, or is he going to show the ugliness of the family and the things of the year in front of you at a glance, especially in front of his son-in-law?
I think it was Minglan who suddenly provoked something that she had subconsciously tried to hide in that short moment!
The matter has come to this point, and the words have been spoken, Minglan must give a detailed explanation: Don't you know yet? Lin Yushuang is the murderer who killed my little mother.
Mo Lan couldn't accept it, so she stood up directly and shouted: You are talking nonsense.
Lin Yushuang is a perfect mother figure in Mo Lan's heart, and of course she can't accept it.
Minglan said categorically: I didn't talk nonsense, Fourth Sister, unless I die, you will never want to put Lin Yushuang's tablet in Yuqingguan.
Liang Han and Sheng Hong both stood up. The eldest lady also had to stand up, as Lan pulled a hand. The information that Minglan broke out was enough to touch the nerves of everyone in the family and caused an uproar in the Sheng family.
Her words were full of determination and unquestionable attitude, and she clearly expressed her position on the issue of Lin Yushuang's tablet. This resolute attitude shocked everyone present.
Sheng Hong and the eldest lady, as parents, originally hoped to settle this dispute, but Minglan 's firm attitude made them feel helpless and troubled.
They understand that Minglan can't change her attitude easily.
As a son-in-law, Liang Han originally thought that this was just a small problem within the Sheng family, but Minglan 's attitude made him realize the seriousness of the problem.
He began to realize that the dispute between the Sheng family was not a simple family conflict, but involved deeper emotional and principled issues.
Rulan pulled the big lady who wanted to stand up, and this detail also hinted at the tension of the atmosphere.
Rulan may have realized that the eldest lady at this time was too emotional, and if she acted rashly, it might make things more complicated.
At the same time, this also indicates that the next plot will be more tense and complex, and the dispute of the Sheng family will also usher in more intense conflicts and turns.
Sheng Hong retorted emotionally: You are talking nonsense, Oshuang is such a delicate person, how could she kill your little mother? The whole family knows that your little mother died in childbirth. How is this possible?
In psychology, it is said that if a person is extremely secretive of something, he is often extremely afraid of something.
From Sheng Hong's reaction, we can get a glimpse of his complex emotions for Lin Yushuang in his heart and his fear of facing the truth.
Sheng Hong refuted Minglan emotionally, resolutely denying the possibility that Lin Yushuang might kill Minglan Xiaoniang.
He emphasized that Lin Yushuang was a delicate person, and pointed out that the whole family knew that Minglan Xiaoniang died in childbirth. However, this excessive defense and cover-up just exposes his inner fear and uneasiness.
In psychology, if a person tries to hide a fact or emotion, it is often because he is deeply afraid of the consequences of facing that fact or emotion.
Sheng Hong's reaction meant that he was subconsciously aware of Lin Yushuang's true face, but out of affection for her or for the sake of maintaining family harmony, he was unwilling to face this fact.
In addition, Sheng Hong's reaction also reflects his weariness and powerlessness of family strife.
He may feel that if he admits Lin Yushuang's fault, it will cause more family conflicts and even undermine the stability of the entire family. Therefore, he chose to deny it strenuously in an attempt to quell the dispute.
However, the facts often do not change because of personal denials and cover-ups. Although Sheng Hong's rebuttal temporarily quelled Minglan 's accusations, it could not hide the existence of the truth.
If he really wants to maintain the harmony and stability of the family, he should face this issue more calmly and objectively, instead of choosing to escape and cover up.
Mo Lan was anxious: You dare to slander my little mother.
Minglan stood up: The witnesses are all here, if you don't believe it, we can go to Kaifeng Mansion.
Sheng Hong slapped the table angrily, and then almost gritted his teeth and asked Minglan Do you want to ruin the reputation of the whole family?
With the suppressed emotions of gritting teeth to the final outburst, it is a sign that a storm is coming.
This dialogue is full of tension and conflict, and each character shows strong emotions. The interaction between Mo Lan, Ming Lan and Sheng Hong indicates that a family storm is about to break out.
When Mo Lan heard Minglan accuse her little lady Lin Yushuang, she immediately showed anger and excitement.
She firmly denied Minglan 's accusations because she had deep feelings for Lin Yushuang. Her reaction also reveals the fear and uneasiness in her heart, and she fears that the truth will be revealed and will damage her and her little lady's reputation.
Minglan showed a firm and decisive attitude.
She stood up and made it clear that there were witnesses and confessions that could prove Lin Yushuang's fault. She offered to go to Kaifeng Mansion to confront her, which showed her pursuit of truth and insistence on justice.
However, her resolute attitude also intensified Sheng Hong's anger and dissatisfaction.
Sheng Hong's reaction was the most complex and intense.
He slapped the table angrily, almost gritting his teeth and questioning Minglan , which was enough to show the anger and depression in his heart.
He asks Minglan if he wants to ruin the family's reputation, which shows that he attaches great importance to the family's reputation. He ordered everyone to go out, showing his determination to deal with the family feud alone.
His outbursts of rage foreshadowed a fierce quarrel and conflict to come.
The atmosphere of the whole scene is tense and oppressive, as if a storm is coming. Everyone's emotions are at their peak, and they are on the verge of exploding. This family dispute is not only about personal grievances, but also about family reputation and status.
Everyone did everything in their power to defend their positions and interests.
Minglan: Fourth sister, if you live honestly, don't pretend to be delicate and aggrieved in front of my father with your little mother and reputation, you and I could have been harmonious. However, if you want to tear this layer of gauze and stuff it into my mouth and disgust me, don't blame me for your face.
In this passage, Minglan has an expectation that Mo Lan can live an honest life, implying that if Mo Lan did not use her little mother and reputation to pretend to be delicate and aggrieved in front of her father, their relationship could have coexisted in harmony.
Minglan showed a rational and tolerant attitude, hoping that the two sides could live in peace and avoid unnecessary disputes.
However, Mo Lan's actions left Ming Lan disappointed and angry.
Minglan pointed out that Mo Lan had to expose the truth that could have been hidden, as if she deliberately tore a layer of gauze and stuffed something disgusting into her mouth.
This behavior made her feel extremely disgusted, and she thought it was a malicious provocation and insult to her by Mo Lan.
Therefore, Minglan finally warned Mo Lan that if she continued to behave like this, don't blame her for not showing mercy to Mo Lan. It is intended to imply that Minglan will take some measures to protect her dignity and rights, and no longer remain silent about Mo Lan's provocation.
From Minglan 's words, it is not difficult for us to see that most of our female friends hate the White Lotus. It's a pity that men like it.
Sheng Hong: How can that be true? Don't think that if you climb the court upstart as a husband, you can sprinkle at will.
Men, especially Sheng Hong, don't like women to be strong. Although Minglan was reasonable in her words just now, her tone was indeed tougher.
Minglan felt aggrieved, her father didn't pay attention, she patiently explained: Dad, I gave my little mother a thing that day, I just ask you to go to the Dharma field to have a look, but you don't want to see it because it's too cumbersome. Why did my little mother die because of a child's dystocia? Why did I go to see her Lang Zhong and never come back? Lin Yushuang's water-like supplements were sent to her, what kind of heart did she have, have you ever thought about this?
Sheng Hong: Shut up. What are you going to do? What are you going to do with all this old stuff, what are you doing with it? You're asking your father!
Minglan: You're forcing me. Lin Yushuang indulged in cheating on women, this has become this family business, you gritted your teeth with hatred back then, but now how long has it been, have you forgotten it all?
During the dialogue, the relationship and conflict between Minglan and Sheng Hong further escalated.
Minglan obviously blamed her father for not agreeing to her for doing things for her little mother, and her father's partiality for the concubine caused Minglan to feel worthless and angry for her little mother.
She used rhetorical questions to expose the murder involved in Lin Yushuang, as well as her suspicions about the cause of Xiaoniang's death in childbirth.
However, Sheng Hong was very dissatisfied and resistant to Minglan 's accusations. He interrupted Minglan and accused her of bringing up the old things, and asked her why she did it. This made him feel angry and helpless.
Because of her anger, Minglan shook off the family affair caused by Lin Yushuang's affair, which was on the one hand disappointment and dissatisfaction with Sheng Hong, and at the same time showed Mo Lan's image of the white lotus.
She was angry at Sheng Hong's forgetfulness and tolerance of Lin Yushuang's faulty choice, which made her feel unacceptable.
Mo Lan: What nonsense are you talking about? It's nothing.
Rulan: Why didn't you .......?
Liang Han: Sixth girl, you have to be cautious in your words and deeds.
Sheng Hong: Do you think that now that you have a husband's family, I, as a father, will not dare to teach you a lesson, right? I will teach you a good lesson today......
When Sheng Hong stretched out his hand to fight Minglan, Gu Tingye arrived in time to stop it.
I won't break down the plot after Gu Tingye arrives, why?
I thought it was too direct, but it was simple enough. Cao Xueqin said: The practice of human feelings is the article, which means that the proper handling of things, understanding the reason, and the summed up experience is the article.
Too direct and simple plot with no digging prominence.
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