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Daisaku Ikeda has said that it is human beings who govern the environment, and that they should be able to rely on their own wisdom to build their families into what they aspire to be.
We all hope that our families will be prosperous, and we hope that we can rely on our families to make our careers flourish, at least with a lot less worries.
That's why we work hard to live and make ourselves the pride of our family, and make our family our pride.
So, what kind of family is considered to be thriving?
There are nothing more than the following three aspects, come and see if you have it at home!
01: Whether the family atmosphere is strong
Family atmosphere is the most intuitive portrayal of whether a family is prosperous.
A harmonious family heals, while a family that operates in a separate way hurts.
If people are in a harmonious family atmosphere, they will feel very relieved and warm, have the strength to fight the twists and turns in their careers, and have more confidence to return to the harbor of happiness and tranquility.
It's like a front-line soldier with plenty of supplies in the rear, who will always give himself the courage and strength to charge.
And an indifferent and detached family not only does not give people comfort, but it is even more dangerous, making people often feel isolated and helpless, without anything to rely on.
In a strong family atmosphere, it is easy for all family members to understand and support each other and be willing to work with each other to overcome difficulties.
This kind of reassuring relationship is the most beautiful appearance of family affection.
On the contrary, in a family that lacks this kind of atmosphere, all members are very indifferent to each other, and it is easier to be careless about small things, and it is easy to gloat because of the embarrassment of the other party.
This environment makes people feel very depressed and frustrated, and they are even reluctant to have any communication with each other.
In contrast, a family that can create a harmonious atmosphere will make people willing to pay for the family and make the family more prosperous.
02: Whether the home environment is clean and tidy
Whether the environment is clean or not, although it may not seem to have much impact on the prosperity of the family, but when you think about it, it has a significant impact.
You must know that a neat and orderly family not only improves the quality of life of family members, but also reflects the life attitude and spiritual outlook of the whole family.
People who live in a chaotic environment must be tired and hardworking, so that there is no extra leisure to decorate the family.
Moreover, they do not pay much attention to the sense of belonging to the family, and only feel that it is an inevitable place after work, and they do not have a sense of belonging to the family.
In the perception of these people, home is no different from a hotel, they have worked hard enough to have enough to eat, and they really don't have the time and energy to devote to the family.
Of course, such a person will not bring much warmth to other family members, and over time, this home is really just a habitat, and everyone is depressed and unable to fight against the bumps in life.
03: Is homeschooling successful
It has been said that homeschooling is the best investment.
An important indicator of a family's prosperity is how much energy is invested in the education of the next generation.
This does not mean that going to a prestigious school is a success, but that we must have a high-level and unwavering attitude towards the character, ability, sense of responsibility, and even the national position of the next generation.
Parents and elders influence children's behavior and thinking through words and deeds, and what kind of ideas are instilled in them will make them what kind of people they become.
is like Qu Wanting and others, because of her mother's exposure to her ears, making her a person with a very poor sense of right and wrong, and even complacent because of what her mother did to make a profit for herself.
Therefore, some netizens said that the reason why this family was finally ruined was because there was a mother and a daughter.
And Gu Ailing, who is bound to serve the country, is also educated by her mother, not only becoming a world-renowned athlete, but also making the whole family begin to prosper.
Therefore, family education is an important indicator of whether a family is prosperous and whether it can continue to thrive.
If the family is strong, the individual is strong, and if the individual is strong, the family is prosperous.
These are mutually reinforcing and closely linked.
We all want our families to be prosperous all the time, just as we want our country to be prosperous and strong.
Only when we live in such an environment can we feel peace and beauty, and only then can we live happily and be blessed for a long time.
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