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Good and evil are everyone's choices, and they are also changes after experiencing some things.
However, this does not mean that others have to bear and understand their hostility, and some people should stay away from them if they have bad intentions.
In particular, people with the following 3 characteristics must not have deep friendships, otherwise they will suffer deeply.
01: Attacking others in the name of a joke
People with bad hearts will always use jokes to suppress and ridicule others, thinking that they are omnipotent, and are always full of contempt and meanness for others.
They seem to greet each other with a smile, but in fact, they use the most harmless expressions to express the most acrimonious attitudes, which deeply pierce the feelings and self-esteem of others.
Such people are not misleading in their speech, and there is no ambiguity at all, and the purpose they want to express is to slander others.
True humor is never about trampling on the dignity of others, but about expressing one's kindness and making the atmosphere lighter within the limits that are acceptable to all, rather than taking pleasure in making fun of others.
Therefore, we need to be wary of people who use jokes to suppress others at every turn, and even if they later say innocuous remedial words, they cannot hide the fact that they have hurt others.
02: Taking advantage of others in the name of the weak
People who do not work hard will show weakness to others when it is profitable, and let them use them for themselves.
They appear as weakling, using the sympathy and pity of others to profit for themselves, in fact, hoping that they can sit back and enjoy their own success, and control everything in the dark.
They will behave as harmless to humans and animals, and use their lack of ability as an excuse to hide their lazy hearts.
is like Lin Yushuang in "Do You Know If You Should Be Green, Fat, Red and Thin", she always gets along with Sheng Hong as a weak person, and uses Sheng Hong's pity to do evil.
However, even if people such as Lin Yushuang and others can disguise again, they will be seen through by the discerning people and will not be with them.
We need to understand that people who really need help and love will definitely be grateful for the help of others, and hope that they will one day be able to repay the favor.
On the contrary, people with a very bad heart will only ask for it again and again, and will never have the slightest intention of reciprocating.
Therefore, if you don't want to be a stupid person who is always being used by others, you should stay away from these people who use others in the name of the weak, so as not to become a tool for the other party to use and bully.
03: Tease others in the name of easy-going
Some people, seemingly easy-going, are actually very scheming.
They may not be profitable in everything, and some of them are close because they want to do provocative things in the name of easy-goingness.
Such a person does not necessarily have feelings for the other party, but just wants to lure the other party to become his puppet through words and behaviors.
They are good at using words and behaviors to confuse other people's minds and create ambiguity that is emotional and polite.
And a truly easy-going person will maintain a clear sense of proportion and distance from any person of the opposite sex, and will not have any misunderstanding relationship with the other party in his gestures, which is the minimum respect and sincerity between people.
You must know that a person's reputation is very important, it is the business card of walking society, and even determines how far a person's career can go.
As the saying goes, the one who is close to ink is black.
Then, staying away from such people is equivalent to missing some misunderstandings and micro-words from others.
It has been said that the human heart is as inconspicuous as the sunshine.
It's not that everyone is fierce and vicious, but people's hearts are complex and changeable, and it's hard to guess.
However, to see whether a person has good intentions towards others, some clues can still be seen in some behaviors.
If the other party shows the above three states, you should wait and see what happens, and don't arbitrarily include them in the scope of communication.
Of course, it is still very necessary to continue to wait and see, and giving the other party a chance is also an extra layer of protection for one's correct judgment.
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