When we lose someone, we always meet them again in unexpected places over time. The man Zhang Hao (pseudonym) had such an experience. This is a heart-warming story, and it is also a reflection that makes people think about the bride price culture.
A few days ago, Zhang Hao and his friends went to a popular KTV to sing. Just as everyone was in a joyful atmosphere, a figure suddenly entered Zhang Hao's sight, which made him fall into deep contemplation. Wearing an elegant dress, she was slightly mature and demure, and she turned out to be his ex-girlfriend Xiaoyu (pseudonym)!
Zhang Hao's heart trembled involuntarily. Recalling that once beautiful relationship, his heart once again set off rolling waves. He and Xiaoyu met in college, and the two quickly fell in love. However, when they are ready to enter the palace of marriage, the issue of bride price has become a source of dispute between the two.
Xiaoyu's family is superior, and the elders in the family have high requirements for the bride price, and the bride price of 500,000 yuan has put Zhang Hao in a predicament. As a child of an ordinary family, he could not afford such huge financial pressure, and the two sides fell into fierce quarrels and contradictions.
After all, they couldn't compromise, and they chose to break up. At that moment, he looked at Xiaoyu's tearful back and left, his heart was like a knife, and he couldn't wait to travel through time and space and fight for this relationship again.
Years have passed, and he thought that he had let go of this past, but the moment they met by chance, the torrent of emotions came to his heart again. He and Xiaoyu began to talk about the past, and they calmly recalled the beautiful and painful time. The two couldn't help but reveal their attachment to their former relationship, and at the same time began to reflect on whether they missed anything in the original breakup.
And after this story was spread on the Internet, it sparked heated discussions among the majority of netizens. Some people praised Zhang Hao's persistence and praised him for giving everything for love. There are also people who question the bride price culture, believing that this traditional concept is outdated and has become an obstacle to the development of relationships.
And Xiaoyu also expressed her inner complexity and emotion about this encounter. She admits that the initial requirements may have been too harsh, and maybe they could have solved these problems in a better way. Now seeing that Zhang Hao still has a lot of love, she also regrets her persistence back then.
This story tells us that love is not just a simple emotional entanglement, and that traditional concepts such as bride price can also become a burden, depriving a relationship that should be happy and satisfying. The man's perseverance and perseverance are touching, and it has also caused many people to reflect on their choices.
Perhaps, we should treat love with reason and tolerance, and don't let material things become the shackles of feelings. Whether we are facing the bride price or other conceptual constraints, we should look at it with our hearts and be open to this changeable and complex world.
Just after the editor of Toutiao personally interviewed Zhang Hao, he revealed that he would use his Toutiao to record their stories, hoping to arouse more people's resonance and thinking. He hopes that every man who is troubled by the bride price can stick to his true love and bravely face all kinds of pressures in this society.