Do you dare to explore her past? The fog of the mind on the blind date of the older leftover girl
In other words, in this big city, there are not a few older leftover women. They go to and from work every day, they are busy, but they always think about finding a reliable person to live with. Blind date has become the main way for them to find their other half. But, on this blind date, how can it be so simple!
I remember that day, the sun was shining, and Xiaoling and a gentleman who looked quite sven made an appointment to meet at a café. As soon as the two sat down, they began to chat. The man is very polite, asking questions and asking questions, and Xiaoling also answers them one by one. But ah, chatting and chatting, Xiao Ling began to mumble in her heart. She wondered if she should tell this man about her past, the relationship that ended because she was young and ignorant, and the pain left by that incident, these were her little secrets.
Xiao Ling hesitated for a long time, but finally mustered up the courage to say it. She thought that men would understand her and accept her. But yes, she was wrong. As soon as the man heard her words, his face changed. He was hesitant and didn't know what to say. Xiao Ling looked at him and understood in her heart. This man can't accept her past.
Alas, Xiaoling felt quite lost. She felt that she had been honest enough, but why couldn't she find anyone willing to accept her? She began to wonder if there was something wrong with her, if her past was destined to be a stumbling block to happiness.
On the other hand, Xiaoya also encountered a similar situation. Xiaoya is a very good girl, she is beautiful and has a good job. However, her emotional road has not been smooth. I talked about a boyfriend before, but I broke up for various reasons. After the breakup, Xiaoya was very depressed for a while, and even began to doubt her own value.
Later, Xiaoya decided to start over, and she told herself to face the past bravely. So, when she went on a blind date, she also chose to be honest with each other. However, this honesty did not bring her good luck. On the contrary, many men shook their heads and walked away as soon as they heard about her past. Xiaoya felt very uncomfortable, she felt that she had worked hard enough, but why didn't she get recognition?
These leftover women, their hearts are quite complicated. On the one hand, they yearn for love and find someone to rely on, and on the other hand, they are afraid of being hurt and going through those painful memories again. Therefore, when they go on a blind date, they often hesitate and don't know whether to talk about their past.
Actually, I think these leftover girls are quite brave. They dare to face their past and be honest with each other on blind dates. This kind of courage is not something that everyone can have. Of course, we can't deny that there are still certain prejudices and misunderstandings about women's past in this society. Many people feel that once a woman has had a bad experience, she is destined to be labeled and pointed at.
However, I would like to say that a person's past does not represent all of her. We cannot judge a person's present and future by her past. Everyone has their own story, and everyone has their own pain and regrets. We should learn to understand and tolerate, rather than blindly blaming and rejecting.
In this competitive and stressful society, finding love is not easy. Especially for those older leftover women, the pressure and difficulties they face can be imagined. Therefore, we should give them more support and encouragement so that they can bravely pursue their own happiness.
At the same time, I also hope that those men who are on the blind date can be more understanding and tolerant. Don't easily deny a woman's character and worth because of her past. After all, love needs to be built on trust and understanding. True happiness can only be found when we truly understand and accept a person with our hearts.
In the end, I would like to say that whether you are a leftover woman or a leftover man, don't give up hope of finding love. Everyone has their own fate and timing, as long as we maintain faith and courage, we believe that one day we will find that person who is willing to spend our lives with us.
So, don't be too nervous and don't worry too much when facing a blind date. Just be honest with each other, don't hide it. After all, this blind date is like a treasure hunt, you have to be patient, courageous, and wise. Only then will you be able to find the treasure that truly belongs to you – the person who is willing to spend your life with you.
In short, although there is a lot of fog in the minds of the older leftover women on the blind date, as long as they maintain confidence, courage and honesty, they will definitely be able to find their own path to happiness. And those men who are on the blind date, please give them more understanding and tolerance! After all, love is not achieved overnight, you have to take it slowly and work hard!
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