The former Internet celebrity "Xiao Ma Yun" was returned, and then returned to the countryside to become an ordinary person, how is he doing now?

Cuckoo Mom

2024-04-29 21:48Posted in Shanxi Parenting Creator

Do you still remember the child "Little Ma Yun" who resembled Ma Yun back then? He was also a big hit back then, I don't know how he is now?

This child, named "Fan Xiaoqin", lives in Jiangxi, and it is said that his hometown has now become an Internet celebrity check-in place.

His popularity has to start with a photo.

One day 9 years ago, Fan Xiaoqin's cousin, who lived in the city, came to visit the door, and after seeing Fan Xiaoqin, his cousin was shocked by his appearance - isn't this exactly the same as Ma Yun?

So, my cousin casually took a photo of him and posted it on the Internet.

Unexpectedly, as soon as this photo came out, it caused a sensation on the Internet. Even Ma Yun himself was stunned when he saw the photo, thinking that his family had put a photo of him when he was a child!

We also know that once a person becomes famous, right and wrong will follow.

Since Fan Xiaoqin's face entered the public eye, countless media and brokerage companies have heard the wind and want to package Fan Xiaoqin as a star.

Of course, Fan Xiaoqin's family didn't understand this, so they chose a company and let them take Fan Xiaoqin away.

It is conceivable that when a child suddenly becomes famous, his life is simply turned upside down.

At that time, he was interviewed, on TV, on shows, and even met with Ma Yun himself, which was hot for a while.

He performed in the program group, and sang as soon as he opened his mouth: "Ali, Alibaba! Alibaba is a happy young man~!"

If he had been remembered by everyone, he might have been popular until now. Unfortunately, due to mental retardation and short stature, he was unable to cope with the change of tides.

Except for looking like Jack Ma, he has nothing else to remember. Slowly, the public lost interest in him, and he gradually faded out of everyone's field of vision.

So one day, four years after leaving home, he was sent back to his former humble and poor rural home.

From the past in and out of luxury cars, left and right people accompanied, and sought after by the public, to no one cares about it overnight, losing everything, this kind of gap, if it is placed on ordinary people, may not be acceptable to anyone, at least it will take a long time to get out.

But perhaps it was caused by mental retardation, Fan Xiaoqin didn't feel much, even if he returned to the state of a dirty child, he didn't seem to complain, and only lived his life with peace of mind.

The farce ended, Fan Xiaoqin disappeared from the public's field of vision, returning to his original life trajectory.

However, recently someone found him on the short video platform.

In the video, it is his ordinary daily life, such as helping his father hand tools, going down to the river with his brother to fish, and eating ordinary three meals a day.

From an ordinary child to an internet celebrity, to being forgotten, and then to returning to ordinary life. Fan Xiaoqin's experience is like a roller coaster.

However, I feel that such a dull life now is not necessarily a bad thing for him.

The bright spotlight life is really a huge test for a child. Even if a child is of sound mind, his three views and psychology are not mature, and he may not be able to resist becoming famous overnight.

And when you grow up ordinary and peaceful, when your mind is mature enough to cope with the tests of life, and then you become famous, maybe at that time, it will be better.

Nowadays, information is developed, and even many children from ordinary families can be regarded as "little Internet celebrities" and "little celebrities".

Watching them perform hard in front of the camera, say pretending to be mature, and behave in a way that doesn't match their age, sometimes I really don't feel like it.

Pushing children to the public too early and making them "Internet celebrities" and "celebrities" can bring a series of pressures to children that they cannot bear.

(1) Psychological pressure

Becoming an influencer usually means bearing the constant attention and evaluation of the public.

This pressure is already heavy for adults, and it is an excessive burden for children who are not yet fully mature.

In particular, those negative, critical comments may be unbearable for Hazi, which can lead to anxiety or depression symptoms.

(2) There is no way to protect privacy

As a public figure, your child's privacy may not be protected.

Their lives, families, and even schools may be made public, which may not only affect their normal lives, but also become a potential safety risk.

(3) Acceptance of education

If a child spends a lot of time and energy on performances or activities, his formal education may be affected.

In this case, they may not be able to have the same stable and well-rounded educational experience as other children.

(4) Values are misguided

If children are taught from an early age to pursue fame and external recognition, they may develop self-centered and materialistic values that ignore hard-working, compassion, and other socially valued qualities.

In short, I personally do not recommend that parents rush to make their children famous. He can be recognized for his efforts and talents, but he appeared in the public eye early, busy performing, giving interviews, participating in shows, etc., so let's wait until he grows up.

What do you think about making your child famous?

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