Preface
There is a good saying, "The collapse of adults is often only in a moment." This sentence was vividly interpreted at the Hangzhou high-speed rail station on April 28.
The event passed
Every day, a mother sat on the ground at the ticket gate because she missed the 1509 train to Shanghai with her daughter, crying and screaming uncontrollably. Next to her was a helpless child with tears in his eyes.
From this mother's despair, we can feel her helplessness and anger. She blamed the child over and over again, believing that it was the child's fault that she missed the train.
The crowd of onlookers and staff tried to appease the woman, while on the web, many people criticized the mother's actions. Netizens generally believe that missing the train is the responsibility of adults and should not be borne by children. Many people point out that travelling with children should have allowed more time for the unexpected.
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Netizens are hotly discussed
"This kid is so young, maybe only two or three years old, and his perception of the world has not yet been formed, and he can't understand why he is the target of scolding for missing a train. ”
Of course, there are more empathetic mothers who understand and feel sorry for this mother, and feel that what makes this mother collapse is not only the inability to catch up with the car, but the anxiety of no one behind her to help, which is the emotion that has been suppressed in life, and the mother is not willing to spill in public, we should understand her. ”
"Emotional stability is not only important when choosing a partner, but also the emotions of parents are more important, but unfortunately the child does not have to choose, alas, ........"
Finally, I would like to say
In fact, missing a train, while it may disrupt plans, is by no means an irreparable disaster. In most cases, train tickets can be changed. In this case, what is needed is not excessive emotional catharsis, but calm thinking and timely solutions.
The incident may be a reminder of the importance of staying calm in the face of pressure. As a parent, you need to set an example in front of your children to deal with problems correctly. We all know that children absorb everything around them like a sponge, and the behavior of parents will directly affect their development.
In this fast-paced and stressful society, everyone faces setbacks to a greater or lesser extent. How to manage one's emotions and how to show the next generation how to solve problems is a question that everyone should think about.
The lesson is clear: staying calm in the face of challenges not only helps us find solutions to problems, but also protects the people we love most from unnecessary harm. Doesn't that also tug at your heartstrings? We can share and discuss how we can apply this lesson in our lives.
Stories like this happen all around us may make us re-examine the way we deal with problems. What do you think about this situation? Feel free to share your views and experiences in the comment section.