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I am Uncle Li, an ordinary Chinese old man, who is now over seventy years old. I have a son, the son's name is Li Qiang, he married a daughter-in-law, and gave birth to a son, who is my grandson, whose name is Xiaoqiang. My wife and I have been living ordinary lives until our son got married and had children, and our lives changed somewhat.
I remember vividly that it was nine years ago, when I first held my newborn grandson. At that moment, I seemed to see hope for the future and felt the pace of my own aging. Since then, my wife and I have started our lives with our grandchildren.
At first, we were a little unfamiliar with this new character, but gradually, we found the joy of bringing our grandchildren with us. Every morning, I would wake up early, make breakfast for my grandson, and take him to the park to play. Looking at my grandson's smile makes me feel extremely happy.
As time passed, the grandson grew up. He went to school, and my wife and I were still with him. We helped him with his homework and told him stories, and it was like going through the time of parenting again.
But as my grandson grew older, I began to feel some contradictions. My wife and I are no longer younger, and our lives are becoming more and more difficult. Although my son has a stable job, his salary is not high, and he cannot fully cover his grandson's tuition and other expenses. We were willing to help, but we were also feeling a little pressured.
Still, we try our best to give our grandchildren the best possible care. That all changed until he got into college. When he was in college, I took the initiative to give him 60,000 yuan. I hope he can study well and make a difference in the future. But I didn't expect that my act of kindness would cause an embarrassment that I never imagined.
It was a family dinner where we all got together for dinner. His grandson, Xiaoqiang, is already a college student, and he looks much more mature. I thought proudly that maybe it was my help to him that made him where he is today.
But at this moment, my grandson said something that made me ashamed......
I looked at my grandson Xiaoqiang with shame, and I didn't know what to do. I tried to hide my inner loss and embarrassment, but that sentence was like a sharp blade, piercing my self-esteem and expectations.
"Grandpa, I really don't need your money. Sun Xiaoqiang's voice was calm and firm, "I have my own plans, and I don't want to cause you trouble." ”
Hearing him say that, I felt a pang of pain in my heart. I was stunned, and the chopsticks in my hand stopped in mid-air, and for a while, the atmosphere at the table became awkward. My son and daughter-in-law also looked at me, their eyes full of worry and uneasiness.
"Xiaoqiang, how can you say that?" the daughter-in-law spoke, with a slight reproach in her voice, "This is what Grandpa gave you for your good." ”
"Yes, grandpa is here for your good. The son also persuaded him, "You are still young and ignorant, and grandpa is thinking about your future." ”
Sun Xiaoqiang shook his head, "I know, but I really don't need this money." I have my own plans, I will work hard and I don't want to rely on others. ”
His words made me feel helpless. Perhaps in his eyes, the love and help I gave was just a burden, and he hoped to be able to break through life on his own. I understood his thoughts, but at the same time I felt an unspeakable sense of loss and loneliness.
"Xiaoqiang, you ......" I wanted to say something, but I didn't know how to say it. I was willing to help him, but I couldn't change his choice. This helplessness and loss made me feel a pang of hopelessness.
The atmosphere at the table grew heavier, as if an invisible wall separated us from each other. I ate silently, but my heart was filled with unspeakable bitterness.
It wasn't until the dishes on the table were finished that Sun Xiaoqiang suddenly opened his mouth to break the silence, "Grandpa, I know your intentions, I will work hard." ”
Hearing his words, I raised my head and looked at the firmness and confidence in his eyes, and the pressure and loss in my heart seemed to be reduced a lot. Perhaps, I should not force him to accept my help, he has his own choices and plans, and I should respect his decision.
"Okay, Xiaoqiang, as long as you know, grandpa will always support you. I smiled and said to him, "No matter what difficulties you encounter in the future, you can come to me, and I will always be by your side." ”
Grandson Xiaoqiang smiled slightly and nodded, "Thank you, grandpa." ”
At this moment, I felt that the loss and embarrassment in my heart gradually dissipated, and was replaced by an inexplicable relief and peace of mind. Perhaps, the love and help I give is not manifested in material things, but in spiritual support and encouragement.
The atmosphere at the table also became lighter, we started talking about household chores again, and laughter filled the room again. Although there were some misunderstandings and conflicts between me and my grandson, this did not affect our family relationship and relationship.
I know that no matter what the future holds, I will always stand behind my grandson, silently supporting him, praying for him, and cheering for him. Because he is not only my grandson, but also the hope and future in my heart.
After the dinner, there seemed to be some subtle changes in the relationship between my grandson Xiaoqiang and me. He stopped relying on me as much as he used to and started to show his independent side. Although I feel a little lost, I am also glad for his growth and progress.
A few days later, my grandson, Xiaoqiang, called me and invited me to attend an event at school. He said it was a volunteer activity organized by the school and needed the help of some elderly people. I gladly agreed to his invitation, thinking it was a good opportunity to learn about his life.
When I arrived at the school, my grandson Xiaoqiang was already waiting at the door. He greeted me in a neat school uniform with a big smile. Seeing his appearance swelled up in my heart with pride and relief.
"Grandpa, you're here!" my grandson Xiaoqiang ran over and took my hand, "Thank you for your willingness to help." ”
I smiled and touched his head, my heart was full of emotion, "Xiaoqiang, what are you praising me for? I am your grandfather, I should help you." ”
My grandson, Xiaoqiang, smiled and led me into the school gate. The whole campus is filled with the atmosphere of youth, and I can't help but feel emotional, time flies, and in the blink of an eye, my grandson has grown up.
After the event began, I participated in some volunteer work with my grandson, Xiaoqiang. Together, we cleaned up the surroundings of the school, helped the teachers tidy up the classrooms, and talked to some of the children. In this process, I felt the maturity and sense of responsibility of my grandson Xiaoqiang, and my admiration and appreciation for him became deeper and deeper.
"Grandpa, you've worked hard. My grandson Xiaoqiang patted me on the shoulder, his eyes full of gratitude, "I'm glad you came to this event." ”
I smiled and shook my head, "What's the hard work, I'm happy to be able to do things with you." ”
We chatted and continued our work. On this sunny afternoon, I felt a deeper emotional exchange with my grandson, and that feeling made me feel extra warm and happy.
After the event, I walked out of school with my grandson Xiaoqiang. He escorted me to the door and said with a smile, "Grandpa, you have to come again next time there is an event." ”
I nodded and looked at him with joy, "Of course, I will definitely come back next time I have the chance." ”
My grandson Xiaoqiang smiled and waved goodbye, and I returned home satisfied. The experience of that day made me feel the growth and progress of my grandson, and it also strengthened my determination to support him. He may no longer need my material help, but I am willing to be there for him all the time, giving him moral support and encouragement.
Perhaps, that's what I'm supposed to do as a grandfather.
As the days passed, my grandson Xiaoqiang gradually grew up, and I gradually accepted his independent choice. Although there is often a little loss and regret in my heart, I know that this is the only way to grow.
During my grandson's four years at university, my wife and I visited him often to bring him some home-cooked food and care. Every time we see him, he greets us with a big smile, which makes us feel extremely relieved and satisfied.
In the year when I was about to graduate from college, my grandson Xiaoqiang called me and said that he was coming back and wanted to have a good time with us. When I heard the news, I felt an inexplicable joy in my heart, after all, this was the last time he went home in college.
"Grandpa, I'm coming back!" grandson Xiaoqiang's voice was full of excitement, "I miss you and grandma." ”
I smiled and said to him, "Xiaoqiang, we miss you too! ”
On the day my grandson returned, my wife and I prepared a sumptuous dinner early to treat him. The moment he appeared at the door, I saw the joy and anticipation in his eyes, and my heart was full of emotion and joy.
"Grandpa, grandma, I'm back!" his grandson Xiaoqiang shouted as he carried his luggage.
I stepped forward with a smile and patted him on the shoulder, "Xiaoqiang, welcome home!"
After dinner, our family sat around the living room and chatted about our grandson's life at the university. My grandson, Xiaoqiang, talked about his experiences and feelings, and my wife and I listened with relish, our hearts filled with pride and relief for him.
"Grandpa, grandma, thank you for your continued support and love for me. Sun Xiaoqiang suddenly said, "Without you, I wouldn't be where I am today." ”
My wife and I looked at each other, and an indescribable sense of emotion and excitement welled up in our hearts. Looking at the sincerity and gratitude in my grandson's eyes, I felt that all the efforts were worth it.
"Xiaoqiang, you are our pride. I said with emotion, "No matter what difficulties and challenges you will encounter in the future, we will always support you." ”
Grandson Xiaoqiang smiled and nodded, "Thank you, grandpa, grandma." ”
This night, our family sat together, talking and laughing, warm and happy. The growth and progress of my grandson Xiaoqiang makes me feel extremely gratified and proud, and I believe that his future will be more brilliant and beautiful.
I silently prayed that my grandson Xiaoqiang would be able to bravely face the challenges of life and realize his dreams and ideals. And I, on the other hand, will always stand behind him, silently blessing and supporting him.
Time is in a hurry, and in a blink of an eye, Sun Xiaoqiang has graduated and started his career. My wife and I often think of him, and our hearts are full of concern and blessings for him.
One day, I received a letter from my grandson, Xiaoqiang. When I opened it, it was full of his gratitude and thoughts for us, and a group photo was attached to it, which was a photo of him at work.
"Grandpa, grandma, how are you? I'm doing well here, and my work is going well. Without your support and encouragement, I would not be where I am today. Grandpa, grandma, I miss you, and I hope to have the opportunity to come home again to see you. Thank you for your continued care and love, and wish you good health, happiness and well-being! ”
After reading this letter, my wife and I were moved to tears. The growth and progress of our grandson Xiaoqiang made us feel extremely pleased and proud, and his words warmed our hearts.
"Look, it's a letter from my grandson. I handed the letter to my wife, with a hint of excitement in my voice, "He's really well written." ”
His wife took the letter and wiped her tears, "Yes, Xiaoqiang is really a filial child." We want to bless him well and hope him is well. ”
We silently prayed that our grandson Xiaoqiang would be well in the distance, and that he would be able to return home and reunite with us as soon as possible. He is the hope and future of our lives, and we will always pray for him and cheer him on.
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