Retirement is a watershed moment in life, and the first half of life is always busy with work and family, in order to provide a better life, it is like a spinning top that keeps spinning. Now, retirement gives us the opportunity to enjoy more free and leisure time, to get back to ourselves, and to focus on more hobbies.
After retirement, the spinning top that used to be spinning non-stop suddenly froze, and there was more time for leisure, but at the same time, there were many more boring and lonely emotions.
When we are at work, we have to rush to the day's work tasks, and time passes. However, once you retire, the days become longer and longer. At this time, the elderly will feel empty and helpless inside. This sudden change is a challenge for most people.
After retirement, many people like to visit their homes to chat, drink tea, and play. This became their most common pastime, sometimes going to the east house for a while, and tomorrow they would go to the west house for a walk. It's a relaxed and formal way of life.
There are also tricks to visiting people, and sometimes not everyone welcomes you. Some people may not be afraid to speak up because of the problem of face, but we have to be smart and not let ourselves be the kind of people who lack manners.
When you retire, no matter how you're doing, don't visit people you don't trust. It's a business wisdom and a protection and respect for yourself.
One: Don't go to your old subordinates' homes, I'm afraid you won't be welcomed
The relationship between superiors and subordinates is like a relationship between lips and teeth, and some unpleasant things will inevitably happen in daily work. But we need to look at these conflicts with a calm mind, solve them rationally, and enhance teamwork and cooperation. Only in this way can the work be smoother and more efficient.
If you're a superior, you tend to take the initiative at work. You can easily use the power in your hands to satisfy your own desires and achieve your own goals. However, we should remember that a good superior should not abuse his or her power at will, but should uphold the principles of justice, fairness, and humility in the best interests of the company and its employees.
Maybe you have an early conflict with your subordinates, but because you are in a high position, you may not pay much attention to it. But for subordinates, as the oppressed party, they are actually very uncomfortable in their hearts, and they care about this situation very much. This possibility exists and needs to be taken seriously and dealt with properly.
If you are being treated unfairly at work, then this situation can leave you feeling frustrated and resentful. Over time, this negative emotion becomes more intense and difficult to dispel itself. It is very important to deal with the issue of injustice in order to maintain a good and positive mood.
No matter how boring you are, it's best not to visit the homes of old subordinates, as they may not welcome you.
And when you retire, you don't have that energy anymore and you no longer need to rely on the support of others to maintain your status. In other words, people won't value you as much as they used to.
When you arrive, he may seem cold. But we don't have to stick our own enthusiasm on someone else's cold ass for this, because it's really not necessary. We can face it in a relaxed and formal manner, and don't get involved in our emotions.
Two: Don't go to the homes of people who have sick people at home, they won't have the heart to welcome them
When you retire, it is advisable not to visit families with sick people to protect your health and safety.
For caregivers, they need ample time and energy to handle the care of patients. And after completing the care tasks of the family, what they need most is to be able to get enough free time to take a good rest. This allows caregivers to regain their energy and better fulfil their responsibilities.
People who have sick people at home are usually not in a very happy mood. In this exhausted state, your arrival may be troublesome for them.
No matter what purpose you visit someone's home, they usually won't snub you. They are willing to put aside their precious downtime to chat with you and meet your emotional needs. It's a kind of respect and love that makes people feel warm and comfortable. Respect and concern for others is the most basic and important courtesy, no matter when and where.
Who should meet his needs? He doesn't want to force himself to smile at guests when he's down.
For him, it was also a kind of mental torture and torment, which made people feel uncomfortable, but they were embarrassed to refuse.
When we retire, we need to be self-aware and clear-sighted. If we know that certain people won't welcome us, then we don't have to go through the trouble of trying to scold them. It was a smart decision.
Your frequent visits may cause some discomfort, but it doesn't have to be a direct response......
In your free time, it is better to accompany flowers or pets. These activities not only kill time, but also calm the mind. It's definitely a good choice.