Hua Ling left the audience with the impression of 'scheming' when she first appeared, she was interested in Shen Dagongzi, who had just quit with Hua Zhi, but unfortunately it was Luohua who was intentionally ruthless.
Although Hua Ling has 'scheming', he doesn't have any out-of-the-ordinary behavior. Perhaps as an inconspicuous concubine in Huafu, she has long been accustomed to the neglected little transparent living state. Until this time, she boldly chose to marry the old and flowery Boss Sun, who was a person who couldn't even look down on her eldest sister's maid, Hua Ling was also the eldest lady of Huafu, and choosing Boss Sun was indeed considered to be married.
Like a flower girl, why did you choose Boss Sun, who is so old and has a group of concubines, to be an official?
Marriage is a woman's best opportunity to change her fate, not everyone has luck to meet beautiful love.
Hua Ling has a clear understanding of her own living environment, her biological mother is an aunt in Huafu, even if the Hua family is not defeated, Hua Ling's husband will not be a big family. Hua Ling is not unambitious and unambitious, but she accepts her fate.
are all born to a father, the status of the concubine and the concubine are different, Hua Ling's status as a concubine has taught her to observe words and colors and be cautious in words and deeds since she was a child. Although she and the other sisters of the Hua family grew up together, the free and easy, self-confident and flamboyant daughter-in-law is not available to Hua Ling, which is the educational concept of respect and inferiority instilled in the children from an early age in the big family.
Hua Ling is smart and keen, when the Hua family is defeated, especially after her biological mother Aunt Qin was assigned to her father, she was divorced by (Hua Zhidai's third uncle), Hua Ling is more and more worried about her future uncertainty.
Hua Ling knows that she doesn't have the ability and luck of her eldest sister Hua Zhi, and when she meets a high-quality man like Gu Yanxi, she can be happy with each other. Hua Ling sees marriage thoroughly and rationally, and her heart's yearning for love is distant and vague. Therefore, Hua Ling has been running for a high-quality marriage that can change her fate from the beginning.
As Hua Ling said to her eldest sister Hua Zhi, although Boss Sun is old and lustful, and the family's business is also messy, he is rich, and Hua Ling can be the eldest lady of the main house after marrying, and the proper house of the Sun family will be a family. Being able to control one's own destiny through a marriage is worth a fight for Hua Ling.
It can only be said that Hua Zhi and Hua Ling's growth environment and education methods are different, so they have cultivated the completely different personalities of these two sisters.
With the wisdom of Hua Ling, she can control her life after getting married.
Boss Sun originally thought that he had married a young, beautiful, gentle and virtuous daughter of the Hua family as a lady who filled the house, and he was very blessed. I never thought that this beautiful lady who was as timid as a kitten before getting married, killed all sides on the first day of passing through the door, and cleaned up the inner house of the grandson family.
However, Hua Ling's attitude towards officials is really gentle, dignified enough, and virtuous enough, no matter how she reprimands Boss Sun's concubines, she really gives enough face to her officials. With such a virtuous wife, Boss Sun obediently handed over the housekeeping of the inner house to Hua Ling.
Hua Ling's comfortable life officially started after marrying Boss Sun.
You see, in fact, Hua Ling was also deliberately hiding when she was in the Hua family, she knew that she was not from a high background, she was low-key in everything, and she never showed off, which is probably the way for sensible concubines to survive in a big family.
However, judging from Hua Ling's personality change after marrying Boss Sun, Hua Ling's heart is not weak, but she is determined and thoughtful. Just like when she made up her mind to marry Boss Sun, who was much older than her, Hua Ling was trying her best to control every step of her life.
This group of concubines of the Sun family really underestimated Hua Ling, and they never thought that the eldest lady would pinch this group of arrogant concubines into the palm of her hand on the first day she got married. Hua Ling's life in Sun's house is much more comfortable and comfortable than when she was in Hua's house.
The concept of marriage of contemporary mature women is set on the characters of costume dramas.
In the drama "Cherish Flowers", the character Hua Ling's choice and management of marriage is simply too sober and too modern, which is a proper contemporary mature woman's view of marriage.
The husband is rich, does not care about the family, and his wife and concubines are like clouds, and as the eldest lady of the family, he does not care about it, not only does not interfere with the officials' search for flowers and willows, but encourages and condones his behavior, as long as the economic power is in his hands.
Holding the family's economic power, housekeeping power, and personnel power, she also inherited the children born by her two predecessors, and rightfully became their mother-in-law, using her husband's money to raise her husband's children and provide for her own retirement. This flower spirit's concept of marriage and love is really amazing!