Preface
On April 28, a scene at Hangzhou East Railway Station attracted widespread attention. According to eyewitnesses, a woman had an emotional breakdown at the ticket gate because she had not made it to the train, yelling at the child next to her. This incident not only shocked the crowd at the scene, but also sparked a wide discussion on the Internet. We have to ask, what caused this mother to spiral out of control, and how do we look at the social issues behind this incident?
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What happened
It is understood that the incident happened at Hangzhou East Railway Station on April 28, and the woman took the train from Hangzhou East Railway Station to Shanghai Hongqiao, but she didn't know what the child did wrong, causing the woman to miss the ticket inspection of the train. After the incident, the woman broke down on the spot and scolded the child loudly: You are all the victims. The incident happened at the train station, next to a large group of people who were checking tickets and taking the train, witnesses: the child was scolded, he didn't know what to do, he lowered his head and didn't say a word, it looked like he was about to cry.
It may be that there is something to the destination, and the time is more urgent, so you have to take this trip. Missing it caused the mother to break down, but such an act must not be advisable. As a mother, she should be aware of the harm her actions can cause to her children. Children are innocent, and they should not be the object of adult emotional venting. This mother's yelling can not only bring psychological shadows to the child, but it can also affect their growth and character development.
As soon as this matter was issued, it quickly attracted heated discussions among the majority of netizens
A netizen suspected of being an insider commented on what happened, when he was about to leave, the child suddenly cried and wanted to go to the toilet, the woman took the child to the toilet with her luggage, and then the child did not leave, one thing after another led to the inability to catch the train, and also led to the collapse of the woman
When I was about to leave, I started crying here, and I had to go to the toilet again, and I suddenly refused to leave with my luggage. Each one is devastating
Netizen 1 thinks that emotional instability should try not to have children, because your emotional instability is likely to lead to psychological problems in children
People who are emotionally unstable are not allowed to have children
Netizen 2 thinks that the child should indeed be distressed, but the mother's approach must also be understood, it may be that many things are piled up together, which leads to the mother's emotional breakdown, how can there be a mother who does not love the baby, but there are some moments when the mother's emotions will explode
It's okay to feel sorry for your child, but please don't blame your mother, your mother's collapse is never instantaneous, but accumulated in life, and there is no mother who doesn't love her child.
Netizen 3 said that she is also a mother with a child and understands the woman's behavior. The child is usually naughty and often deliberately makes the mother angry, which may be a long-term disobedience that causes the mother to have an emotional breakdown
I have children myself, and children bully their mothers, and sometimes they are sincere
Netizen four said that it is really difficult to take care of a child, the child has to do whatever he thinks, you have to listen to her, sometimes it is not good to do what he wants, it will really collapse
You don't know, some children are really super difficult to carry, they have to go to the toilet after going out for a while, and they don't pee when they go. Not long after leaving, I had to urinate again, and the adults had to find a toilet everywhere. I didn't pee when I found an automatic flush, but I was finally able to pee, and I ended up urinating my pants and shoes. Without a change of clothes, she shouted and cried again, and the good people collapsed
Editor's opinion
Understand the woman's behavior, but disagree with it. You shouldn't scold your child in such an extreme way in public. It may be that the child is usually very stubborn, but the child is still young and does not understand a lot of things, although it is difficult for you to keep your emotions stable. But since the child is born, be more patient and educate well. We have to understand that the child is ignorant, not that everything goes to the heart, which will only make his psychological burden bigger and bigger, so that he will have an emotional breakdown like the woman and can't control it. This matter may cause a psychological shadow of the child, I hope that the woman can solve the child's problem when the mood is stable, and do not let the problem continue, it will become more and more serious, which will lead to the child's psychological growth can not be healthy.
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