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"Life and death are vast, what are we afraid of meeting in a dream?" When we dream of deceased relatives and friends, perhaps God has given us some secret hints through dreams.
These hints are like treasures hidden in the mist, waiting to be discovered.
Dreams, since ancient times, have been another secret realm of the human mind, connecting the past and the present, the living and the deceased with endless imagination and deep emotions.
During the Warring States Period, an important representative of the Taoist school - Zhuangzi. One day, Zhuang Zi took a nap in the afternoon, and in his dream he turned into a light and free butterfly, fluttering on the flowers and plants, completely immersed in the joy of butterflies, and forgetting all the troubles and constraints of being a human being. In his dreams, the fragrance of flowers, the softness of the wind, the warmth of the sun, everything is so real, as if that is his whole world.
However, when Zhuangzi woke up from his dream and found himself still lying in bed, all the beauty of Fang Cai was nothing but an illusion in a dream. He couldn't help but fall into deep thought: in the dream just now, I was indeed a happy butterfly, but after waking up, I was Zhuang Zhou again. So, is it Zhuang Zhou's dream of becoming a butterfly, or is I, as Zhuang Zhou, actually part of the butterfly's dream at this moment?
As the "Zhuangzi Qi Theory of Things" said: "Fang Qi dreams, but I don't know his dreams." "The world of dreams, both illusory and real, conveys to us a message from the depths of our hearts in a unique way.
When we reunite with our deceased relatives and friends in our dreams, these dreams are not just accidental brainwave dances, they may be giving us "five tips" from the heavens, with far-reaching meanings and pointing to a prosperous future.
1. Cherish the present moment and live in the present
"Life is like a dream bubble, like dew and electricity. This ancient philosophy, in the language of Buddhism, profoundly reveals the transience and impermanence of life.
When we reunite with our deceased relatives and friends in our dreams, the deep nostalgia and reluctance seem to tell an eternal theme - cherishing.
When I dreamed back, I met the old people, and the short-lived warmth and beauty were like dewdrops in the morning light, shining in the sun, but disappearing in an instant.
Such a dream, it tells us that every moment in life is so precious that we need to cherish it with our hearts.
In Hamlet, Shakespeare quotes Polonius: "Seize the moment and do not wait, for the opportunity is fleeting and will never come again." "When we can truly live in the moment, cherish everyone around us, and cherish every detail of life, our lives will be more colorful.
"The Yellow Emperor's Neijing" emphasizes that "tranquility and nothingness, true qi comes from it, spiritual inner guard, and illness and safety never come", in which "tranquility and nothingness" is a kind of detachment from the world, focusing on the current attitude of life.
Being able to let go of past attachments and future worries, and truly live in the present, can our body and mind be truly relaxed and nourished.
Cherish every meeting with the people around you, cherish every challenge in your work, and cherish every detail in your life.
2. Relief and forgiveness
In the corridor of dreams, we shuttle between reality and illusion, dialogue with the deceased, those unfinished knots and unspoken words in the past seem to find an outlet for catharsis in this dark and mysterious dream.
It is these dreams, in their unique way, that teach us how to let go of past grievances and regrets, how to learn to forgive others, and more importantly, how to forgive ourselves.
"Chu Ci" said: "The road is long, and I will go up and down to seek." "The road of life is long and full of unknowns, and we stumble on this road, which inevitably leads to friction and misunderstandings with others.
As the dream revealed, these frictions and misunderstandings should not be a stumbling block to our progress, but a stepping stone to our growth, pushing us forward.
"Life is not like a participant. Tonight and night, a total of this lamp candlelight. "Reuniting with the deceased in a dream makes us more aware of the impermanence and transience of life, and we should learn to cherish the present, let go of past grievances, and embrace everyone and everything in life with a tolerant heart.
Through forgiveness, we can lighten the burden of our hearts and avoid further harm and conflict.
In real life, there are specific practices we can try to practice forgiveness.
First, face up to past hurts and resentments, acknowledge your feelings, and find appropriate ways to vent and release those emotions.
Second, try to empathize and understand the other person's position and feelings, so as to cultivate a tolerant heart.
Finally, resolve conflicts and rebuild relationships with others through active communication and action.
"Forgiveness is the only way to freedom and happiness. "Let's forge ahead on this path for a better future.
3. Inherit the legacy and move forward bravely
In the depths of the dream, the deceased appeared with a gesture of encouragement, and their words seemed to still echo in their ears: "Keep going, don't forget your original intention." ”
Although they have left us, their will and dreams are transmitted to us through dreams, inspiring us to move forward on the road of life.
The wisdom in "Zuo Biography" also emerged at this moment: "Be prepared for danger in times of peace, be prepared for thinking, and be prepared." This sentence also applies to each of our lives, under the inspiration of dreams, we should think more about how to prepare for a rainy day in a stable life, prepare in advance, and bravely face the challenges ahead.
And the fantasy journey in "Mirror Flowers" also makes us understand that all kinds of circumstances in life are a practice. The courage and strength of the deceased in dreams is the motivation for us to keep moving forward in real life.
"Life is an adventure, and only by facing it bravely can we reap growth and joy. This sentence coincides with the encouragement of the deceased in his dreams, and they all tell us: only by moving forward bravely can we live up to this life.
4. Reflection and growth
The reunion in the dream seems to open a window into the past, allowing us to revisit those lost times.
In this mysterious dream, we reunite with the deceased to look back on the past life together, which is a rare opportunity for spiritual growth.
The story takes place in the Warring States period of the Zhao State, which was on the edge of the Central Plains but faced frequent incursions from northern nomads. The traditional Central Plains chariots and hoplites were clumsy and inefficient in the face of mobile and agile cavalry. Faced with this dilemma, King Wuling of Zhao (Zhao Yong) was deeply aware that without military reform, it would be difficult for Zhao to protect itself, let alone expand its territory.
As a result, King Zhao Wuling made a shocking decision - to implement "Hufu Cavalry Shooting". This policy required the Zhao army to wear short-sleeved Hufu and learn how the nomads fought on horseback and archery. However, this change was strongly opposed by conservative forces in the DPRK and China, who saw the move as "abandoning Chinese traditions and emulating barbarians" and a betrayal of the laws of their ancestors.
In the face of many obstacles, King Wuling of Zhao insisted on his opinion, saying: "The sage can strengthen the country and do not follow the law, and Gou can benefit the people, not follow his etiquette." He knows very well that only by following the trend of the times and learning from the strengths of the enemy can he be invincible in troubled times. In the end, King Wuling of Zhao, with his firm determination and superb political skills, successfully promoted the implementation of Hufu cavalry shooting.
The reform achieved remarkable results, and the combat effectiveness of the Zhao army was greatly improved, not only effectively resisting the invasion of foreign enemies, but also greatly expanding the territory, and once became a powerful country among the Seven Heroes of the Warring States. The foresight of King Wuling of Zhao not only consolidated the national defense of Zhao, but also left a valuable spiritual wealth for future generations, proving the importance of courage to change and innovation.
"Don't forget the past, the teacher of the future. The story of Zhao Wuling's king Hu Fu cavalry warns future generations: in the face of difficulties and challenges, we should learn from history, dare to break conventions, and have the courage to innovate and change.
"Don't forget the past, the teacher of the future. "By looking back, we can learn lessons that can provide valuable guidance for the future.
Dream is such a magical platform that gives us the opportunity to reflect and grow together with the deceased.
The wisdom in the Analects shines brightly at this moment: "I am three times a day, and I am a body." This sentence teaches us to reflect on our actions every day, examine our mistakes, and constantly improve ourselves.
The reunion in the dream provides such an opportunity for reflection. In dreams, we can look back on the past with the deceased, draw wisdom from their life experiences, reflect on our own shortcomings, and promote personal growth and perfection.
There is also a saying in "Zengguang Xianwen": "Looking at the present should learn from the past, and the past cannot become the present." This quote tells us to be good at learning from history and the experiences of others to guide our future.
Reuniting with the deceased in a dream allows us to draw wisdom from their experiences, avoid repeating the mistakes of the past, and better chart our own life path.
5. Believe in the connection between the universes
Dreams, the whispering of soul communication, quietly bloom in the night, silently telling the mystery of life. It is not bound by life and death, and shuttles freely through the universe, like an invisible silk thread, connecting us with our deceased relatives, the long river of history, and even the entire universe.
This connection has long been noticed by the ancients. There is a cloud in the "Book of Filial Piety": "The body is skinned, and the parents who receive it dare not destroy it, and the beginning of filial piety is also." This is not only the cherishing of the physical body, but also a kind of reverence for the connection between the inheritance of life and the universe.
When we meet the deceased in a dream, it is not only a nostalgia for our loved ones, but also a profound experience of the mystery of life.
It makes us understand that although the physical body will fade, love and memory are like invisible connections, forever connecting us to the universe, to history, and to our loved ones.
This connection also reminds me of many stories from ancient and modern times, both in China and abroad. For example, the ancient legend about the lovesickness between Vega and Cowherd, every year on the night of Qixi Festival, magpies build bridges and let them meet. For example, when we look up at the starry sky and think that the stars in the sky are actually sharing the same universe with us, this sense of connection arises.
Albert Einstein once said, "The most incomprehensible thing in the universe is that it is incomprehensible." This sentence not only expresses awe of the mystery of the universe, but also implies that there is some deep order and connection in the universe.
It is this connection that allows us to meet the deceased in our dreams, and allows us to feel the weight of history and the vastness of the universe.
To sum up, dreaming of deceased relatives and friends is not only a journey of the soul at night, but also an awakening to the depths of the soul.
These "five tips" are like the brightest stars in the night sky, leading us to a brighter and more positive attitude towards life.
Let us respond to the revelation of dreams with actions in reality, cherish the present, let go of the past, move forward bravely, constantly reflect on growth, and believe in the eternal connection between lives.
On the stage of life, we are both actors and audiences, interpreting and understanding with our hearts, so that every scene of life is full of meaning.