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The well-known director Chen Sicheng has an intimate dinner with a mysterious woman. I saw Chen Sicheng smiling on the side in the picture, staring at the young woman's every move opposite with ambiguous eyes, as if the relationship between the two was as intimate as that between lovers.
"What a big carrot! Which little white flower did you hook up with this time?" Netizens scolded one after another when they saw this scene, and they were already extremely angry at Chen Sicheng's shameless behavior.
There are even netizens who directly accuse him of "not abiding by women's morals", and he is simply a scum with reduced morals.
However, what makes netizens even more distressed is that every time Chen Sicheng's scandal is exposed, it is always inevitable that his ex-wife Tong Liya will be involved. "Yaya has regained her strength, and her career is in full swing, why do you still put her on the cusp of public opinion?" they appealed enthusiastically, begging Chen Sicheng to let Tong Liya go and stop hurting this poor woman.
Looking back, this celebrity couple, who were once known as hot and affectionate, have experienced countless unforgettable pains in their eight-year emotional entanglements. Those old wounds have long been solidified, and no one wants to open them again, but they have been forcibly torn apart by Chen Sicheng again and again.
At that time, Chen Sicheng was going all out to prepare for the filming of a new drama, but he was troubled by not being able to find the ideal actor. Just when he was in trouble, a woman like a clear spring appeared at the interview scene - it was Tong Liya.
When they first met, Chen Sicheng was deeply attracted by her fresh and refined temperament, as if the heroine in the script instantly jumped on the page. Therefore, at the moment when the supporting actress audition officially began, he did not hesitate to recommend this young girl who had just walked out of the door of drama school to the director.
Since then, the fates of the two have been closely linked and can no longer be separated.
During the filming process, Chen Tong, as the male and female protagonists, naturally produced countless scenes of intimate contact and sweet interaction. Looking at Chen Sicheng, a handsome and dashing man, Tong Liya was obviously deeply fascinated by him, and her eyes, words and demeanor all revealed a seed-like demeanor of infatuation.
However, Chen Sicheng's affection for Tong Liya fell on deaf ears. Even though the TV series co-starred in by the two became famous in one fell swoop, making the audience full of curiosity and exploration about their on-screen relationship, Chen Sicheng's reply in the interview was mainly subtle and introverted, and avoided talking about marriage and love.
On the contrary, Tong Liya was frank and generous with this relationship. At the recording site of a variety show, she confessed affectionately to the camera: "Please send blessings to us from relatives and friends!" After speaking, she threw herself into Chen Sicheng's arms with joy.
However, it is regrettable that Chen Sicheng's response seemed a little reluctant and stiff, as if this belated sweetness was just the result of his reluctance to accept.
Although the marriage process of Chen Tong and his wife was full of twists and turns, they finally tied the knot and walked into the palace of marriage hand in hand. However, to great disappointment, this beautiful story was soon shattered.
Soon after his marriage, Chen Sicheng was repeatedly tracked by paparazzi and photographed intimacy with other women.
As an adult man, when a "cheating" scandal is exposed, he usually chooses to apologize publicly, even if it is just three simple words - "I'm sorry". However, in the face of the revelation of these images, Chen Sicheng behaved as he should, remained silent about it, and his attitude was extremely arrogant.
What's even more jaw-dropping is that in an interview, he went so far as to explain his unique understanding of marriage: "The marriage model of successful people is like polygamy in ancient times, and the original intention of pursuing success is to have more women."
The directness of this kind of remarks makes people question the director's character.
In the face of her husband's indulgent cheating behavior, Tong Liya always chose tolerance and patience. Whenever the media exposed Chen Sicheng's "splitting legs" incident, she always proved on social networks that the two were as loving as ever and were not affected in the slightest.
In a variety show, when the host asked Tong Liya how to deal with the conflict between husband and wife, she replied sincerely: "If there is a quarrel, I will remain calm, and if I fall into a cold war, I will take the initiative to apologize to him."
From these words, it is not difficult to see that Tong Liya is in a relatively weak position in this marital relationship.
When mentioning the sensitive question of "If your husband is unfaithful, will your Excellency forgive him?", Tong Liya, who was like water, replied categorically: "As long as he is willing to turn back, everything can be solved!" It turned out that Tong Liya lived in a traditional family that had been washed over the years, and she was instilled with the concept of "a woman belongs to someone else's family when she marries" since she was a child.
On the day of the wedding, her father affectionately admonished his daughter: "Try your best to take on more housework, and treat your husband only obediently" Because of this, Tong Liya chose to tolerate Chen Sicheng's behavior, and it was this kind of family education that shaped her inferiority complex and fragility in the emotional world.
Looking back on the growth process of Chen Tong and the others, it is not difficult to find that there are huge differences between their backgrounds and personalities. Tong Liya was born in 1983, and her family environment has always been shrouded in the shadow of patriarchal stereotypes.
She has been treated indifferently by her parents since she was a child, and she is endlessly doted on her younger brother, however, she is not discouraged by this, but has won the praise of her parents for her hard work and hard work.
At the age of 15, she went to Beijing as a representative of the school to participate in the cultural festival to celebrate the 50th anniversary of the founding of the People's Republic of China. Subsequently, Tong Liya joined the Xinjiang Song and Dance Troupe, and was finally successfully admitted to the Central Academy of Drama, a famous university, laying a solid foundation for her future acting career.
Although she has not been able to attract the attention of the public since her debut, Tong Liya is still diligent and dedicated to the shooting of various film and television dramas, and with her firm perseverance and unremitting efforts, she finally played the role of Zhao Feiyan in "The Mother of the World" and was highly praised by the audience.
This also became an opportunity for her and Chen Sicheng to meet and fall in love, and the TV series they starred in together made Tong Liya famous.
Chen Sicheng, on the other hand, has shown extraordinary artistic talent since he was a child. Born in Shenyang, he frequently performed on stage during his school years, served as a broadcaster and other public welfare positions, and worked tirelessly to realize his artistic dreams.
After entering Chinese opera, he became more active in participating in various film and television competitions, and the work he directed in his junior year won the Best Newcomer Award.
When he came to prominence, Chen Sicheng, who attracted wide attention because of his participation in the military-themed TV series "Soldier Assault", successfully met many like-minded friends, such as Wang Baoqiang, Zhang Yi and others.
This laid a solid foundation for his future flourishing in the entertainment industry!
At the same time, Chen Sicheng also fell in love with the heroine Shen Jiani during the starring TV series "Love is a Bullet of Happiness". Although this short-lived relationship ended after only one year, he quickly adjusted his state and started a new relationship with actor Cao Xiwen.
However, these emotional experiences did not prevent Chen Sicheng from entering the palace of marriage. He finally spent the rest of his life hand in hand with Tong Liya, writing a new chapter in his life together. However, good times are always short-lived, and Chen Sicheng's cheating scandal is like a bolt from the blue, instantly breaking their original sweet life and plunging Tong Liya into the abyss of pain.
The huge difference in the growth environment and values of the two undoubtedly became the fuse for the breakdown of this marriage. Chen Sicheng pursues a free and freewheeling lifestyle, while Tong Liya has always been strictly constrained by family education and excessively suppressed her true feelings.
This contradiction accumulated day by day, and eventually led to the tragic ending of the two parting ways.