Since I retired, I don't know what to do well, and I feel that life is too boring. After learning from a lot of retired big brothers and sisters, I found that everyone's lives are basically similar.
After I retired, I only had a pension of 2300, and I panicked at first, because it was too little, and I felt that I didn't have enough to spend, although I had a little savings, and I was still thinking about how to make money.
I am very competitive, I like to inquire about other people's pensions, but I find that I seem to be low, and the pensions of people around me seem to be higher than mine, I am very unhappy, worried about what I can do with such a small amount of money, how to live!
Half a year after I retired, I became irritable, worried and decadent, had nothing to do at home, and then I didn't like to go out. In addition to chasing dramas, you can sleep without going out for a week, you won't go out if you have some food at home, you can not change your pajamas, you don't comb your hair, you don't wash your face, and you don't know that you have gained 8 pounds in half a year.
My daughter said I was like a rebellious adolescent, and I realized that this was the end of my retirement. Only then did he start looking for something to do and change his state. Later, he opened a tailor shop, and life was back on track.
I'm 56 years old, I've been retired for 6 years, and the psychological changes over the years have changed a lot. What can I do if I am competitive? I have been divorced for more than ten years, and now I am still alone, I can't afford to buy a big house, I can't drive a luxury car. Fortunately, her daughter is still sensible and competitive.
Now I live more and more transparently, the older I get, the more I see things lightly, no matter how big the house is, it's good to be able to live in, no matter how much money I have, it's only three meals a day. I started to subtract myself.
There is more money and less money, and life does not bring death. It's very tiring to hold this and that, so I have a daughter and tell her how much money she has at home and what the password is. Let her spend as much as she wants, but it is much more relaxed.
After opening a tailor shop in the community for a few years, through observation and chatting, I found that in fact, after retirement, everyone's life is basically the following:
1. After the pension arrives every month, take out a part of the living expenses, and basically transfer the rest to the card to save the pension or subsidize the children's life.
Second, reduce social interactions, life circles have become smaller, former colleagues, friends. Dispensable people don't contact, don't come and go, and slowly become estranged. The circle of friends only reads and does not express opinions, nor does it like or speak.
3. Start paying attention to health, go to bed early and get up early, and no longer stay up late. Regular work and rest, diet has become light, eat less, less salt and less oil, control sugar, and do not eat raw and cold food. Don't go out to eat, don't attend meals, don't order takeout, and cook all kinds of healthy food by yourself.
Fourth, I don't like to dress up, I don't buy clothes, I don't pay attention to dress, and many people around me wear shirts, jeans, and sneakers that children don't wear. I think it's good, but it's a pity to throw it away.
Fifth, become low-key, pragmatic, do not like to compare, do not envy other people's big houses, luxury cars. Don't care what others think of you, don't envy other people's high pensions, be content and happy, and make your life meaningful.
6. Cultivate personal hobbies and give yourself something to do. Traveling, dancing, flower arrangement, flower planting, cooking. Or help your children take care of the children and clean up the house. Sometimes I also contribute money and effort, and enjoy it.
Seventh, I don't like to trouble others, I am afraid of owing favors, remember to be tired, and get troublesome, and find a way to solve my own affairs.
Eighth, I like to be alone, I like to be quiet, I don't want to be disturbed, it's not that children don't like to live with us, we don't want to live together, it's good to come back and see it occasionally.
9. Some people who are in good health are still shining, saving more wealth for themselves and their sons, and still going to work. Work as a cleaner, babysitter, security guard, or do some work in a factory.
Everyone is basically cutting back on tedious communication, three o'clock every day, home, vegetable market, park. I've been tired for most of my life, and I don't want to make money anymore if the conditions permit, and I start to enjoy life.
After retirement, try to relax and relax your body, people become relaxed, don't worry about too many things, eat and sleep well, have no desires, and health first. Do you have anything to add?