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He was also a sunny and cheerful boy, and as a doctor, he had the responsibility of saving lives.
He was supposed to have a bright future, but the doctor could not heal himself, and eventually died of stomach cancer, leaving behind two young children.
His videos have encouraged countless cancer patients, but on April 26, he couldn't hold on.
After Dongdong's death, Dongdong's family released his funeral and sent Dongdong on his last journey with thousands of netizens.
The mother cried uncontrollably in the mourning hall, and the pain of a white-haired person sending a black-haired person is not something that everyone can bear.
Dongdong's mother then sent a text that made countless netizens teary-eyed.
She wrote: "A child comes for a journey, the mother misses her life, 43 years of companionship is too short and too short, there are thousands of sufferings in the world, and the pain of losing a child is the first, like a thousand arrows piercing the heart, when you come, your mother loses blood to guide the way, and when you leave, your mother's heart is dripping blood, this kind of longing hurts the bones, shouts silently, this kind of longing has thundered and deafened in your own world, and you can feel suffocated when you think of it, thank you for the concern and care of the fans." ”
Every word is like a knife for Dongdong's mother, deeply piercing her heart, from October pregnancy to today's white-haired person sending black-haired people, 43 years of companionship.
In the past 43 years, Dongdong's mother has given everything, and she, like countless mothers, is willing to give all the good things to Dongdong, and has paid countless efforts.
However, she is different from countless mothers, God was too unfair to her, ruthlessly snatched away her son, believing that if she could "fight for life", Dongdong's mother would not hesitate to exchange her son.
You must know that in the past few years of Dongdong's illness, his parents have never treated him regardless of the cost, and they have not given up until the last moment of Dongdong's life!
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Dongdong optimistic treatment, parents never give up
Dongdong fought cancer for 3 years, during which countless expenses were spent, but his parents never gave up on him, even though they knew that the probability of his recovery was very small, even if the cancer had spread during the treatment.
But what can this be? As their children, they don't want to let go, even if they can let Dongdong stay in the world for one more day.
Judging from Dongdong's mother's last post, it is not difficult to see that she is a very cultured person, but the specific work has never been revealed.
But Dongdong's father's work is known to everyone, he is a well-known forensic doctor, and in general, the family of three is a cultural person.
This is also a blessing in misfortune, they are at least a little less financially stressed than ordinary families, and can afford to pay for treatment.
But as we all know, cancer patients are like a "bottomless pit", and one person will drag down the life of the whole family!
Although this sentence may sound unkind, it is a fact that we have to admit, after all, too many people give up because of the high cost of treatment.
Instead of "spending money to continue your life", it is better to use the money for your family to have a better quality of life after you leave.
However, this is a choice that there is no "reliance" behind you, if your identity is a son or a daughter, it is absolutely impossible for parents to give up.
Even if there is only 1% hope for treatment, they will treat you at any cost, which is the greatness of father's love and mother's love.
Dongdong's parents are like this, during the years of his illness, they took Dongdong to major hospitals, and have been by Dongdong's side, giving Dongdong material and spiritual support.
They tried their best to remain optimistic in front of Dongdong, telling Dongdong that there was still hope in life, and as long as the family worked together, they would definitely be able to defeat the disease.
So during Dongdong's cancer, his mental pressure was not as great as that of other cancer patients, and his parents took a large part of it for him.
He knew that only his optimistic treatment could reassure his parents, so he himself never said anything discouraged, and the family of three comforted each other and went through the most difficult days.
However, don't ignore Dongdong's profession, he is a doctor, can he not know what his body is like?
He knows everything, but he doesn't want to accept the reality, he just wants to make himself more relaxed and worry less about his parents.
In the past, he has been treating other people, but now he is being treated by other people, this psychological gap may not be acceptable if it is placed on ordinary people, fortunately Dongdong is optimistic enough.
He posted his first video on May 5, 2023, beginning to share his own journey against cancer, encouraging cancer patients like him not to give up.
At that time, Dongdong looked very sunny, and the whole person was also good, if he didn't say it, he really thought he was a normal person.
But who would have thought that his condition would deteriorate so quickly, he didn't even last a year on the Internet, and his appearance changed greatly in this year, and the whole person seemed to be dozens of years old.
He stood with his father, like two peers, which made people feel extremely sad, his hair was thin, and he was only 65 pounds at his thinnest, as if he would fall down when the wind blew.
It wasn't until April 26 that the bad news came, Dongdong's relatives published his obituary, and his mother was reluctant to leave next to Dongdong's body for a long time, crying heartbreakingly.
Perhaps because she didn't want Dongdong to be tortured in another world, she chose a photo of Dongdong when he was still healthy as a posthumous portrait.
He was so handsome back then, but now he ...... It can only be said that the world is impermanent, cherish the present, and hope that Dongdong's mother can come out of her grief as soon as possible.
But what many netizens don't understand is that Dongdong actually has two children, why did the child's mother never appear in the camera?
Dongdong's ex-wife left because of cancer?
It turned out that Dongdong and the child's mother had already divorced, to be precise, it was his ex-wife now, so it was normal not to show up.
Many netizens also blew up after learning the news, feeling that Dongdong's ex-wife was a little too cold-blooded, and even abandoned Dongdong when he was suffering from cancer.
But is this really the case? Actually, no, these are just subjective assumptions of netizens.
In fact, Dongdong's ex-wife is a very good person, but the personalities of the two are not very compatible, so they chose to divorce, and Dongdong actually did not suffer from cancer at that time.
More than a year after the divorce, Dongdong was diagnosed with cancer, so the two children were handed over to his ex-wife to take care of, and the ex-wife never complained about it.
Even when Dongdong was sick, she took her children to visit Dongdong many times, after all, husband and wife can't do it, and they are still friends.
The most amazing thing is that the day before Dongdong passed away, his ex-wife suddenly dreamed that Dongdong had passed away in a dream, so she took the child to visit Dongdong.
At that time, Dongdong was speechless, and his body was already too weak to look good, but what his ex-wife didn't expect was that her dream really became a reality.
Not long after she left, Dongdong's mother called her and told her the sad news of Dongdong's death.
This bad news is difficult for her to accept, the words of a one-day husband and wife Bairien are not just words, and the two of them also have two young children.
Dongdong's death not only represents the loss of her former love, but also the loss of her father.
She was so excited that she couldn't help herself, when she met Dongdong's mother, her hands were shaking, she opened her mouth to say something, but in the end she didn't say anything, maybe this is the so-called great compassion and silence.
She then posted: "When we are together, you send me flowers, let me send flowers to you this time!"
She then shared a photo of when they were still together, when the family of six was happy, two children enjoyed the love of four elders, but now there are only three people left.
In order to protect the privacy of the children, she also coded the faces of her two children.
Not only that, but she also shared a photo of her and Dongdong when they were together at that time, and the two still seemed to be very affectionate, and the subsequent divorce may be due to personality incompatibility.
summary
In any case, the Si people have passed away, and Dongdong's relatives should live well in addition to grief, which is what Dongdong wants to see.
It's good to keep the thoughts of Dongdong in your heart, just like the words in "Dream Travel": "The real death of man is to be forgotten." ”
As long as they remember Dongdong, Dongdong will always be "alive" and live in their hearts.
I hope that everyone can spend their lives safely and healthily, and be sure to seek medical attention as soon as possible when they are unwell to prevent tragedy from happening.
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