In the age of the internet, filters have become a part of our daily lives, especially on social media, where everyone is eager to show their best self. However, reality is always not beautified by filters, which was ruthlessly revealed in a recent table tennis match. Famous singer Lin Yilun and his wife watched the game live, cheering for national soldier Sun Yingsha, and when their footage contrasted sharply with the usual photos on social media, the audience couldn't help but sigh at the gap between the filter and reality.
Lin Yilun, a long-time acclaimed artist, is 54 years old, and his live footage with his wife has attracted a lot of attention. On the one hand, this attention reflects people's curiosity and concern about the private lives of public figures, and on the other hand, it also exposes the public's double standards for age and appearance. On weekdays, through well-designed filters and makeup, the Lin couple has a glamorous image on social media, but the footage of the scene makes all this false packaging nowhere to hide.
This contrast not only provoked a reflection on the real and the fake, but also sparked an in-depth discussion about the impact of social media. Netizens expressed different opinions on social platforms, with some expressing understanding and support, believing that everyone has the right to put their best foot forward in public, while others criticized the over-reliance on avatars, arguing that it deprives us of the opportunity to accept our true selves.
In the face of this social phenomenon, triggered by a simple sporting event, some experts suggest that society should be more tolerant and understanding, especially for public figures who live in the spotlight. Psychologists have pointed out that excessive pursuit of the perfection of the external image may lead to an increase in the psychological stress of the individual, and suggested that the public and the media should pay more attention to the inner qualities and achievements of the individual rather than the appearance.
In addition, with the popularity of social media and the development of technology, the values of our society are undergoing a profound change. Finding the balance between presenting your best self and accepting your true self will be a long and complex process. Eventually, this event could be a turning point that will lead people to rethink how to find their place in the real and virtual worlds.
In this seemingly perfect digital age, let us not forget our original intention, embrace the truth, and accept every natural aging self. Such a controversy may be a starting point for resonance, and inspire more people to think about the boundaries between the real and the virtual. In this discussion around the real and the virtual, netizens have a variety of opinions, showing the public's deep concern and complex emotions on this topic. Some netizens expressed their sympathy and understanding for Lin Yilun and his wife, and they believe that everyone has the right to try their best in front of the public, especially in this era of looking at faces.
One netizen commented, "On social media, everyone has their own stage, and choosing to use filters is just to present the best version of themselves on this stage. We shouldn't be too critical of this, after all, who doesn't want to look better?"
However, some netizens criticized the current society for being too strict on the standards of beauty, believing that relying too much on filters may distort our perception of reality and self-identity. One dissenting voice wrote: "The widespread use of filters instead makes people forget that everyone has flaws, and this quest for perfection can hurt those who can't accept who they really are." ”
These two contrasting perspectives reveal a deeper societal question: how do we find a balance between being who we are and being authentic, and how can our society's aesthetics and values adapt to this change?
We invite every reader to share their thoughts and experiences in the comments section. Have you ever felt pressured by social media filters, how much authenticity do you think public figures should maintain when presenting themselves, and how should we define "authenticity" in a digital world?
Each of your comments may bring a new perspective and insight to the discussion. Let's explore how to better understand and accept ourselves and others in today's digital age.